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writes: I have just found about 2 hours ago found out that my partner of 5 years had 2 - 3 weeks ago, a £50 bouquet delivered to a sales girl in a jewellers he bought an expenisive watch from.He told me she had flirted with him.He went missing a few times after he bought the watch - then said we weren't getting on and needed a break from each other.Yesterday he said he loved me and wanted us to work and that we should try but I rang her and asked her about the flowers, she has since been in touch with him to tell him I had called her. now he is saying I am playing games with him and putting the blame on me.Do i just let it drop and ignore it and let him get away with it, split up or challenge him and have him put us "not working out" due to me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2007): If he's playing with your feelings now, who say's he's gonna change. MEN are very selfish sometime's. They have affairs's and think the woman can forgive them and carry on the relationship like nothing has happend. He has left you feeling emotionally insecure and you have to ask yourself if you are going to be able to forgive him, because if you cant forgive and forget it will ruin your relationship, and trust me if that's the case you are better off without him.
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reader, beautifulxxbrunette08 +, writes (17 December 2006):
 the problem with this is, he is the one playing games. if he is talking to another girl, that is one thing, but from talking to buying that girl a bouquet of flowers is another. i am sad to say but if he is blaming you for this nonsense then he is the fool. you should be the bigger person and stand up for what is right. he shouldn't be doing this to you and on top of it all, turning it around on you. i would probably leave him. no i definately would, maybe to give him time to realize what he is missing and what he has done. maybe he'll never realize, but he can't just expect you to fine with him him sending another girl flowers after all of this time being with you. i bet you feel betrayed. i would too. you have to make him realize that you will not stand for such as this. he needs to know that. just get away and then hopefully he will wise up and start stalking you. that will tell you if he has identified that he has made a mistake or not.
good luck!
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