My boyfriend has stopped talking to me since I got a job, am I too independent for him now?
Q. My friend and then boyfriend of many years doesn't talk to me anymore because I have a job now at first he would tell me I love you at the end of our conversations on the phone now he just doesn't answer the phone his mom lies and says honey he just ...
A. 27 September 2012: "Could it be that I am independent now?" Not as much as he no longer lead you to believe you're dependent on him. "And he feels like I don't need him anymore." Not as much as he no longer lead you to believe you need him. He's trying to m... (read in full...)
The wedding is planned, I have even ordered my dress but I'm becoming more and more insecure in my relationship because of my boyfriend's actions
Q. Hi everyone, I really need some advice. I am 30 and engaged. We are supposed to be getting married mid next year. My fiancée and I have been together for nine years. However for the past year I have been feeling less and less secure in the relation...
A. 27 September 2012: "I am sure you are reading this thinking I would be a fool to believe him but why would he propose?"
Hoping you would be a fool and believe him, or at the very least not trust your judgement and go through with the wedding for appearan... (read in full...)
My daughter is dating a man who could be her dad
Q. My 34 year old daughter is getting a divorce from her husband that is 34 also. She is now dating a man that is 57 years old. Does anyone have any advice? He is almost as old as her dad...
A. 27 September 2012: "He is almost as old as her dad"
Is Dad a presence in her life or his age calculated from a
date in a month in a past year on the calendar?
"Does anyone have any advice?"
Lots. Do you a question to which an offer of advice would be an ... (read in full...)
Why does he get an iPad? It's not fair!
Q. Today I came home from school and found my little brother with a brand-new iPad. I am so freakin jealous of him! My parents said its only "because he needs a certain app for social skills." (he has aspergers so he needs help) I still don't ...
A. 26 September 2012: "Why does he get an iPad? It's not fair!"
Because your parents decided to give him one. No, it's not. Life sucks and then you die. Meantime they're your parents and they have all the power and all the authority
until you reach legal age, and the... (read in full...)
Should I get mad at my husband if he doesn't loan my parents money?
Q. My husband and i have a savings account but he puts in the money but its for our future home, my parents need to barrow money and will give it back in 3 months and i know we have the amount they are looking for, my dad asked my husband and my ...
A. 26 September 2012: "Should I get mad at my husband if he doesn't loan my parents money?" No, you should get mad only if he does loan your parents money. If you have the amount they are looking for, then they'll continuing looking for more until you don't, and your ... (read in full...)
My married lover has moved on to another girl and I am so hurt, what should I do now?
Q. I have been cheated by my married Lover, he has moved on to a "new girl"(another victim).he has completely removed me from his life,We both are in the same office, spend 8 hrs together, sitting besides each other, but we dont speak at all. he cut ...
A. 26 September 2012: "I cant bear the fact that some one used me, abused me, played with my emotions and feelings and just getting away with it as if nothing matters to him. (he didnt even bother to explain/talk about the reasons)!!"
Sounds like something his wife wou... (read in full...)
How to figure out men in their late 50's?
Q. I've been seeing someone in his late 50's and I have no idea what sort of mind games he is playing. Sometimes when I tell him I miss him, he would reply my text with a smile icon. Sometimes even though he read my "I miss you" text, he wouldn't reply ...
A. 26 September 2012: "Is he just not into me or he's playing mind games?" I won't necessarily say the following entirely applies, but in general the ground rules are: 1) Youth is your currency 2) Money is his currency 3) In ten years he'll still have money 4... (read in full...)
My parents constant fighting have made me believe love doesn't exist
Q. My parents quarrel all the time. They are always disagreeing on matters concerning their marriage. At my mother s uncle s funeral my father didnt show. My mum was so hurt about that because she s always there for my dad. My dad is not a good man to ...
A. 23 September 2012: "my parents made me believe that true love doesnt exist."
Don't judge the world by your parents, your father is a bully and they shouldn't be airing dirty laundry in front of you, just shows they are self-absorbed and small-minded, thus incapabl... (read in full...)
What does this master manipulator want now?
Q. My ex boyfriend went to detox and then rehab for alcohol. He lived with me for two months without paying any rent. When he went back to work, he got apartment secretly while he was living with me. All along he was making a thousands excuses ...
A. 21 September 2012: "What does this master manipulator want now?" For you to want to know what he wants now. That's what a master manipulator does, elicits exact response he wants from unsuspecting will-never-learn women who keep falling for the same tricks over... (read in full...)
What if he goes back to her? He is delaying signing the divorce papers served on him.
Q. Hey everyone I've been dating this guy for a couple of months, I have never been happier..he keeps me happy..but now out of nowhere his wife comes in the picture he never told me about him being married..I was upset,I cried I broke things off and ...
A. 20 September 2012: "I don't know what's taking him so long!!"
Guessing he assumes that since he was able to BS his way past "he never told me about him being married" then he believes he can string you along indefinitely with lies and lame excuses, of course t... (read in full...)
How do you make someone fall back in love with you? There has to be a way!
Q. Lots of people say once the love has gone it can never come back. Yet so many people get back together and even remarry each other after a divorce. So people obviously can fall back in love. My question though, is how? I'm desperate for my husband ...
A. 20 September 2012: "How do you make someone fall back in love with you? There has to be a way!"
"There's always a reverse to everything. If somebody can fall out of love after they were in love with you, then why not the other way around. There must be some kind of ... (read in full...)
This picture pops up on Facebook of my boyfriend and this girl looking like a couple....is it reasonable for me to have a problem with this photo?
Q. Hi, so my boyfriend just came back off holiday, we've been quite rocky for a while but since he came back we've been really happy havnt argued once until this photo was uploaded on facebook. I just want advice on whether I'm being in reasonable with ...
A. 20 September 2012: "we've been quite rocky for a while but since he came back we've been really happy havnt argued once"
Shot in the dark, but is this behavior consistent with previous events which led you two lovebirds to argue and be quite rocky prior to recent r... (read in full...)
We argued, she left, and blocked me in every way. How can I get her back?
Q. I'll try and keep this short. My girlfriend and I had a silly argument nearly 4 weeks ago, and because of a misunderstanding she stormed off and I haven't heard from her since. She's completely avoiding me to the point of deleting me as a Face...
A. 20 September 2012: "How can I make her realise that we can start again now those issues are resolved we can have a happy wonderful future together."
You can't. She is completely unaware that you have resolved those issues on totally your own and the two of you can ... (read in full...)
I need him, what if he doesn't need me?
Q. I would like more reciprocation in my relationship from my boyfriend. Sometimes (or quite often) I feel like I give him more than he gives me. In the past I have come to the agony aunts with a similar question, and some have said just move on. Bu...
A. 20 September 2012: "I need him, what if he doesn't need me?"
Then your needs are incompatible with his.
"I don't want to always give give give because he won't appreciate me in the long run, but if I don't, then I miss out on the things I need."
I sugg... (read in full...)
I want my father back in my life.
Q. Hi, I turned 19 last month. And this birthday was quite eventful. It has actually sent my world for a toss. And I need help desperately. My parents divorced when I was 2. I've lived with mum ever since. I'm not allowed to talk about my dad. Wh...
A. 20 September 2012: "What did I do to deserve to be away from my father all my life?" Nothing. Mother was "punishing" father by using you as a weapon against him in to fulfill her own sick, twisted, self-serving agenda, egged on by granny I'm sure. "Its making ... (read in full...)
I've fallen for my friend who was my friends with benefits !
Q. I need your help. I met this guy a couple of months ago, we went on a first date, got to know each other really well. Then we carried on talking everyday for a couple more weeks. Because we had both come out of serious relationships , we decided to ...
A. 19 September 2012: "he would rather be friends than just a booty call.." "He keeps telling me that he's happy being single" "my best friend has told me to tell him how I feel, but I'm scared because I no I will get rejected and I don't want to lose him" No ... (read in full...)
My 48 year old husband left me for a 24 year old woman and I'm in need of more advice
Q. i will ask my question and leave it at that you all know me. im the one who was left for a 24 year old my husband 48. i want to know why he insists on hurting me with his words. i have to pick up my temporary spousal support from him. and everytim...
A. 19 September 2012: "he wants me to feel sorry for him" He wants to stall the divorce for as long as possible so there is no division of propery based on his actual assets and he doesn't have to pay you alimony based on his actual income. He wants to stall th... (read in full...)
Is it wrong of me to use pornography to unwind?
Q. Hey everyone, I am in my final year of university,life has become just too stressful I have practically no social life anymore..and I use porn when I am stressed,more like when I studied one full day and then I need to de stress..is it bad?...
A. 19 September 2012: "..is it bad?" No, with following caveats: 1) It doesn't become an obsession. Okay to relieve the stress (I'm nearing sixty and I try to de-stress at least once daily), but don't let it consume you to point where you are watching porn when... (read in full...)
Boyfriend problems involving facebook. What should I do?
Q. It seems facebook is the source of all of our issues :/ I'm really insecure about myself and always end up comparing myself to other girls and my boyfriend and I have talked about this. We live together and he treats me so well, but we do have i...
A. 19 September 2012: "I did ask him how he would feel if I talked to one of my exes that way and he responds with 'im used to being in open relationships' and 'i wouldnt mind because im more easy going about these things' " Please, please, PLEASE tell us you were offe... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks I'll cheat if I go to Kent
Q. My boyfriend doesnt like the idea of me going to Kent because he thinks im going to cheat on him and not tell him because of my past relationships. i tell him everyday that i wont do anything to hurt him and i wont but he thinks im a whole ...
A. 19 September 2012: "My boyfriend thinks I'll cheat if I go to Kent." Only one way to prove him wrong. Dump him now so you'll be single when you get to Kent, where you can do much better than him, which coincidentally is exact reason why he's trying to prevent y... (read in full...)
Pregnant and in love with someone else ..
Q. I dated a guy for almost 2 and a half years , he was my high school sweet heart. I literally love everything about him. We've been through so much an supported one another through many many problems. Unfortunately a few months ago we broke up. One ...
A. 19 September 2012: "I feel like I need to do what's right for my future son or daughter and that would be to stay with their father." From a 50-plus uncle and first cousin-once removed of several now-young adults: Your future son or daughter NEEDS and WANTS and DE... (read in full...)
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