I'm madly in love with someone who lost intrest how do I win him back?
Q. Please help me with my "lovelife"!!! I really like this guy and I want to know how to get him to like me or even if I should try to win his heart... We flirted all school year but I didnt think he liked me so i gave up even though I really liked hi...
A. 16 October 2009: well you dont want bother him to much.. but if you really like him you should be straight up with him. say look i thought we talked about how we liked eachother, whats your deal? ... (read in full...)
Is he making this church girl up?
Q. theres this guy and he is in one of my classes so i see him everyday! all my friends and anyone who sees me with him thinks we are together, even though were not. me and him are such bad flirts with eachother. the thing is he leads me on big time, ...
A. 16 October 2009: so i asked him about the church girl... he just changed the subject..... (read in full...)
Is he making this church girl up?
Q. theres this guy and he is in one of my classes so i see him everyday! all my friends and anyone who sees me with him thinks we are together, even though were not. me and him are such bad flirts with eachother. the thing is he leads me on big time, ...
A. 15 October 2009: thanks im gonna try that!... (read in full...)
We've been sharing at each other but what does it mean?
Q. okay.. i started highschool the 17th im a freshman and ihad my locker moved 2 times, first time the locker didnt work, second they gave me a locker someone already had, so they gave me a new locker all the way on the other side, before my locker was ...
A. 23 August 2009: okay you have to go up to him and be like, look this is childish, i like you and want to know if you like me too.... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I read what he and his ex were talking about?
Q. My boyfriend and I went on vacation last week, and we met up with his ex-girlfriend and her boyfriend for drinks. My boyfriend dated this girl for about 2 years and he stopped dating her about 4 years ago. She emailed him the other day and he left ...
A. 22 August 2009: i know i am a little young, but i think you should be honest and be like, okay i dont want to move in with someone, who is only with me, cause i am fun to be with, not because he is serious about the relationship were in. i read the email, and if ... (read in full...)
Does he like me? Should I tell him I do?
Q. i dont know any other way to tell him with out actually telling him that i like him a whole lot. he always flirts BIG time with me, and everyone notices. and he gives me hugs, but when and if he texts me its boring and plain out stupid, and also i ...
A. 21 May 2009: okay thank you for your help! i def will ... (read in full...)
He doesn't believe I was a virgin because I didn't bleed!
Q. Hi i am engaged and he took my virginity. i didnt bleed so now he thinks i wasnt a virgin and is getting upset. i think i tore it while stretchin one time and now what should i say/do? please? ...
A. 20 May 2009: you can pop your cherry during alot of physical activities. it is very normal if you are athletic to not bleed because of it already been done before, i think you should talk to him and if he really loves you he will believe you. your love cant last ... (read in full...)
Amazing sex but now she's pregnant help!
Q. I had amazing sex with this girl the other week she is my best mates girlfriend and i dont have any regrets there just one problem she's pregnant what should i do? ...
A. 20 May 2009: first of all you wen tbehind your best friends back and the fact that you have no regrets is kind of sick. i mean you truly dont deserve him as a friend and as soon as he finds out you can kiss his friendship good by, but i guess thats why they call ... (read in full...)
I need someone to talk to
Q. Hi... Is there anyone I can talk to about stuff? I'm a teenager, don't have many issues, but I do really need someone to talk to, because my family doesn't really care how I feel as long as I do well.. Thanks :)...
A. 20 May 2009: you can add me too your friends and message me whenever youlike... (read in full...)
Help!!! I think I'm in love with my step brother...
Q. heres the thing my parents are divorced and my dad got remarried and i love his wife and her family like my own ..she has three sons and i never met the oldest one...but hte two i did meet are really cool..so recently i went on a trip to brazil with ...
A. 20 May 2009: okay well first how old are you? 15 ? 16? 17? etc and if you love him, but if you did have any sexual activities then maybe you should wait till you are of legal age, and if your step mom is okay with it, and you know your in love then i would go ... (read in full...)
Every girl I like doesn't like me... why???
Q. i cant seem to get a girl. I'm not ugly, I constantly get told I'm cute, fun to talk to ect but every girl I like doesn't like me. Why? can anyone help?...
A. 20 May 2009: maYbe you act awkwardly around them, and have you ever asked them if they liked you, maybe they do. but if you act dif to girls you like and others you dont maybe thats it, just be yourself, and they wiill come to you... (read in full...)
I'm seeing my teacher secretly...
Q. I'm 16 and I've left school. I'm currently on study leave and are going back for exams on certain days this week and the next few weeks. me and a male teacher (24 years old) were always reallly really close, it might sound wrong but we kinda st...
A. 20 May 2009: it is illegal for a man over the age 18 to be dating a girl under the age 18 unless they go to school together, and if yall got physical and anyone found out he would go to jail for RAPE, you are probably just another one of his victums. it is not ... (read in full...)
Help!!! Confused about my sexuality...
Q. i've been getting erections when i see pics of men naked and when i see girls naked, i took a gay test and it came out that i might be bi-curious, then i was surfing the net and come upon this gay club in my town, i looked all over the website and ...
A. 20 May 2009: being bisexual is nothing to be ashamed of, there are many gay men and weman all over the world, if you want to experiment, then go out and look around, the gay guys arent hiding and i am sure that they wont mind helping you. if you think you should ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to fantasise about a girl I personally know while in a relationship?
Q. Me and the girl I'm seeing are talking about getting more serious but the thing is.. I can't help fantasising about another girl who's just my friend whom casually flirts with me. Does this mean I may become unfaithful in a relationship? I mean, I...
A. 20 May 2009: okay fantaising about this girl really isnt to much to worry about. some of my friends have said they have fantasised with their friends moms but i honestly doubt they will ever get the 'dirty' with their moms. if you realy like this other girl i ... (read in full...)
Does liking anal masturbation make me gay?
Q. Does liking anal masturbation make me gay? does thinking of men when i touch myself make me gay? does asking these questions make me gay Help!...
A. 20 May 2009: if having to think of men to get up and masturbate is the only way to got then yes you may be gay. if you like looking at other men then you might be gay. if you stare at guys behinds you might be gay. if woman are never attractive to you you might ... (read in full...)
Should I just go for it? She wants more and I do too.
Q. She said she wants more, and said i need to take chances. I think (i kinda know) she wants to move below the waist. She likes to go into things fast so should i just do it, or should i move into it? (going below i mean) ...
A. 20 May 2009: there are not many girls who want to move fast through the relationship course so if she wants to do more, then if i were you i would count yourself lucky and give her what she wants!... (read in full...)
Why do I love her?
Q. we got into a little argument, and after we got everything worked out she asked me what my reason for loving her was. i told her bc i cared about her, and that its amazing just being with her. she said that wasnt a reason. shes asked me twice, but ...
A. 20 May 2009: like why did you choose her over all the other girls? what makes her special? how did she catch your eye? then your heart? pretty much answer these questions with the truth and go into detal about little stuff that you notice about her that makes ... (read in full...)
Why are my crushes friends acting like this?
Q. I've never told any one I like him first off so no one knows that I do. I think he might like me as well, but I'm not completely sure. Today in class I looked up and I saw him and is friends looking at each other. His one friend kept moving his ...
A. 20 May 2009: its a guy thing, like what girls do too, he is probably going to his friends saying he likes you but he wants to make sure his friends approve first. so they are going to get to know you and if they like you then soon after that i bet you will have ... (read in full...)
The guy I love doesn't love me back... PLEASE HELP!!!
Q. Hey everyone and PLEASE answer my question I REALLY NEED YOUR HELP! Plizzzzzzz. I'm 17 I'm a very pretty girl nice body , a lil shy but I'm very funny and fun. I'm really inlove with this guy I met about one year ago. We used date but after a time...
A. 20 May 2009: i am going through the same thing, but i realized that i was tired of doing all the work, sometimes you just have to give up on a guy who doesnt put forth the effort or doesnt feel the same way and move on to a guy who does, hope this helps... (read in full...)
How old does a 15 year old woman have to be to have sex with her 18 year old boyfriend without legal consiquences?
Q. How old does a 15 year old woman have to be to have sex with her 18 year old boyfriend without legal consiquences?...
A. 4 January 2009: It depends on where you live. Every state is different. Like my state there is a three year curve as long as we go to the same school. The best answer is to say look it up in your state... (read in full...)
I kissed a girl
Q. Iam 17 and hav just kisd a 14 year old girl is this ok....
A. 28 December 2008: this depends on where you live. in my state there is a 3 year curve. you just need to check where you live... (read in full...)
How do I let him down gently?
Q. So there is this guy that likes me, alot. but i just dont feel the same way about him. i just dont have the heart to tell him. he is so sweet, and really a cool friend. but honestly i dont see us having a relationship ever. he is the friend type of ...
A. 26 December 2008: thank you! ... (read in full...)
Do you think by chance he is doing something deceitful behind my back by acting so disrespectful towards me?
Q. Hey everyone. I have a problem. I am in a 2.5 year with my boyfriend, and we both love each other very much. We live together, and have for about 6 or 7 months. But today (and today only) we got in a few arguments, where he told me to "fuck off"...
A. 22 December 2008: it sounds like you need to talk to him, and tell him you are still not comfortable with what happened. if yall talk it out maybe things will start gettin easier. if not maybe things will be rough for a bit. but a relationship can not be very good ... (read in full...)
Why am I always cold and tired?
Q. ok so I'm 13 years old and I'm always so very tired and cold. Like every day after school I take a shower, then take an hour and a half nap then go eat and go to bed which is around 9:00 p.m. In the morning I find it to be absolutely freezing with ...
A. 22 December 2008: well this sounds like you need to go to the doctor. if something is wrong most likely none of us are doctors and do not know exactly what is wrong with you. any who good luck. xx... (read in full...)
How do I make her come back to me?
Q. My girlfriend left me right we have been arguing quite a bit but last night my brother saw her with another dude he said they wasnt talking or even holding hands nothing like that, and we have been talking about giving each other sometime apart ...
A. 22 December 2008: well if she has your baby you need to be there for her, but she is right you need to stand up to your family and tell them to treat her with more respect. she is your girlfriend, not your butty call. and your family should respect her. excpesialy if ... (read in full...)
What should I do in my situation?
Q. I recently confirmed that a girl I know likes me, and I was planning on asking her out on the day I found out, but her friends got in the way and I didn't ask her out. When we got back to the school her friend told me she wanted to get to know m...
A. 12 December 2008: man i wish my guy friend felt the same way. lol anyway i think you should go and talk to her. tell her you feel the same way, and you want to be more than just friends. ... (read in full...)
Should I stop giving advice?
Q. Hi! I will except advice from anyone. Ok... I 28% of my ratings went to poor. I thought I was doing well, but a big percentage doesn't seem to think so. Should I call it quits, and stop giving advice because that was very discouraging to see. ...
A. 12 December 2008: no dont give up, girl they will get better. the only reason people rate low is because they dont want to hear the truth. :)... (read in full...)
How can I attract guys? What's wrong with me? Am I that repulsive?
Q. My name is Kristen and I havn't had a boyfriend in so long ever since freshman year of highschool (I'm twenty years old and a junior in college). Ever since then,my self-esteem has gone even lower than before. I'm think I'm too short (I'm 4'5"),I'm ...
A. 12 December 2008: okay girl you are super skinny. im 15 and 115. and im not fat. and quit worrying about getting a guy and just be yourself. once they see who you are they wont want to keep there hands off you. ;) good luck... (read in full...)
Will first time sex suck?
Q. Hi. I was talking about the fact that I'm a virgin with this one girl, and I told her that I wanted it to have sentimental value when I finally lost it. She said that my first time will suck, and it's not all it's cracked up to be. I'm wondering.. ...
A. 12 December 2008: well for the girl it does, because it hurts. excpessially if the guy doesnt go easy. just take your time, and be patient with her. remember it will hurt her if your not careful. after the first time it wont hurt as much until it feels good. but for ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has no time for me! Should I end things?
Q. my girlfrend has no time 4 me at all if shes not at col shes with her friends getting drunk she said its coz shes having probs at home with her mum and dad but i dunno what to do i like her sooo much but i dunno if i should end it can some one help ...
A. 12 December 2008: if she would rather drink than be with you then she is not worth your time. you deserve better. i personally think you should end it. but thats just me. you do whatever is right for you. good luck... (read in full...)
Falling for best friend
Q. me and my best friend have been friends for the longest time and I think I'm falling for him! Should I tell him? I'm soooooo confused!!!!!!!!!...
A. 12 December 2008: whoa i am in the same situation. except my guy is 16 and im 15. but advise from me, is just be honest about it. if he is a true friend he will understand,and maybe feel the same way. i havent told my friend but i am planning on it. trust me it is ... (read in full...)
Is our love brotherly or loverly?
Q. So everyone says that me and my friend are meant for eachother. and that we would be a perfect couple. i know for a fact that i am in love with him. 100 percent. i dont know if he feels the same way. he goes and sees every movie with me, and we have ...
A. 11 December 2008: thank you. this really helped alot. and i will keep you posted best i can. ... (read in full...)
I'm freaking out-what should I do? HELP ASAP!
Q. I've been talking to this guy for about a month, and I really like him. He has said he likes me too. But on Thanksgiving, he got back together with his ex to see if he was the reason for the problem in the relationship. This really crushed me. He ...
A. 11 December 2008: whoa girl you are like the backup girrl. no dont wait for him, he is using you so he wont have to go single if they break up. trust me i know... (read in full...)
In love with my best friend and a long distance older guy...
Q. Ok so this guy i have been talking to is wonderful. But he lives an hour away!!! He is so sweet, no joke. He is great at soccer, and school. He is still a virgin (very good) and he is a Junior. but i am a freshman! which means my dad wont approve. ...
A. 9 December 2008: a year! ... (read in full...)
How can I control my controlling behavior?
Q. ok... i have a bad problem. ok im young like high school young and so is my bf! we have been together for almost 10 months and i really think that i love him and he loves me to! but my problem is that i am verry controlling and i dont like it w...
A. 9 December 2008: well my best friend is a guy, and when he got a girfriend she told him not to talk to me anymore. you dont know how it hurt to hear you cant talk to your best friend. just think how that felt. my advise is remember he is with you and you need to ... (read in full...)
Wife... cheating with another soldier!
Q. I am a soldier currently deployed to Iraq and have been away from home for 5 months now. 2 1/2 months into my deployment my wife admitted to having sex five times with another soldier from my company who was home on medical leave. By the way I ...
A. 8 December 2008: If you love her then it will take time,but try and forgive her. dont hurt yourself more by leaving her. You are in Iraq! She should not be worrying you like this. If you dont think you could ever forgive her, then do whats best for you. you diserve ... (read in full...)
Goodness he is my soul mate!!!!
Q. Okay i know for a fact that i am completely in love with my best friend. He is so perfect for me its not even funny. but a few months ago he was dating my ex-best friend. i am not friends with her at all anymore, but i still would feel bad. plus my ...
A. 8 December 2008: thank you so much!! i really appreciate it. and i am thinking about telling him tuesday when he gets back!... (read in full...)
Goodness he is my soul mate!!!!
Q. Okay i know for a fact that i am completely in love with my best friend. He is so perfect for me its not even funny. but a few months ago he was dating my ex-best friend. i am not friends with her at all anymore, but i still would feel bad. plus my ...
A. 8 December 2008: My dad hates him because before he got his lisence he took me out driving illegaly :/ ??/????... (read in full...)
Should I even meet her when she's messing me about?
Q. Ok here's my situation: I've got to know this girl through a friend and we've mostly just been speaking on msn but we have seen each other around and about town. Anyway she recently split up wth her bf and we kinda both told each uther we li...
A. 7 December 2008: yes i think you should meet with her. maybe yall with both find to like eachother plenty. and try dinner and ice skating. tons of time to talk, good luck... (read in full...)
Need help with the same old situation!
Q. Okay heres the deal, my problem is the typical I love her she sees me as a friend you know but I have been in this situation many times now, but I feel more strongly for this certain girl than any other. I have known her for roughly 2-3 years and I ...
A. 7 December 2008: i think you should tell her how you feel. if she is a true friend she will understand, and maybe feel the same way, good luck ... (read in full...)
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