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writes:Okay heres the deal, my problem is the typical I love her she sees me as a friend you know but I have been in this situation many times now, but I feel more strongly for this certain girl than any other. I have known her for roughly 2-3 years and I already feel closer to her than I do to people I have known most of my life (I'm 18 by the way) although I look a lot older as I have a receding hair line and I am going bald very young.All I can ask really is what do you recommend I do; as this situation, plus many others, along with myself are causing me to be depressed.Any suggestions are welcome.
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reader, Untitled +, writes (9 December 2008):
Untitled is verified as being by the original poster of the question well i have told her twice now once was drunk which i really do regret but we seem to be talking easily now and i feel that we are closer just need some help to get over this.
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reader, mightaphodite  +, writes (7 December 2008):
I was in the situation you described a couple of times. Except that I was on the other side. I have to addmit that I wasn't interessted in that way in my friends and I wanted our friendship to stay on that level. I could tell that they wanted more. Two of them decided to share their feelings with me and we worked it out. I was honest with them and helped them move on. We are still good friends. Unfortunately, I drifted apart with those who decided not to tell me how they really felt. I think it's because they were either to scared or too angry. Anyway, I think you should tell her. It's the truth after all. You can't lose. Your friendship will either become stronger or it will move to the next level. In any case you'll be free of this burden. Good luck!
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reader, babyminow +, writes (7 December 2008):
 i think you should tell her how you feel. if she is a true friend she will understand, and maybe feel the same way, good luck
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