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writes:I was checking out my crush's myspace... and I found out that he has a girlfriend. I was disappointed, but actually, I'm always disappointed because I never get ANY guys. I'm not sure why no one likes me... I'm smart, kind, and athletic. Help?!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2007): well im one of those people..it doesnt bother me as much..just wait im sure the right guy will come along one that likes you for who you are.. i once heard if he doesnt want you he doesnt deserve you..
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2007): At your age, boys care more about playing with toys than playing with girls. Don't worry about it. Use this time to enjoy being happy by yourself...because when you do get a boyfriend, if you can't be happy by yourself, you won't be able to be happy with him. Besides, it's kinda funny how the less you need a guy, the more come around.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2007): I'm going to give you the advice dozens of older ladies I know gave me.
If you're looking, you're not going to find them.
It's irritating, but it has never failed to be true for me.
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reader, Pork Hock  +, writes (14 June 2007):
Ok so you are athletic, kind, smart? Does this cause the basis of ANYONE liking you? I am 106 pounds, haven't run a half marathon since i was 13 and I would bend over backwards for my mates...
Question: Do you ask a lot of questions or talk a lot about your atheleticism when with people? The moment I tell people I am a detective in the police force it usually causes the conversation to dwindle to nothing. I am not saying you are wrong, but the right person will like and respect you for your CHOICES! Just keep your distance and get them to know you instead of offering the platter...know what I mean.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2007): It probably isn't that nobody likes you. Rather, guys are probably too scared to ask you out. At school I would've been incredibly nervous even talking to someone like you, let alone asking you out. The key is this: it's a two-way street. If you don't show active interest in someone then they're not likely to take the next step. There's nothing from stopping you making the first move! Finally, you're still young - it'll happen eventually, just don't freak out about it.
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reader, babydoll0713 +, writes (14 June 2007):
 Guys at your age don't care about smarts and kindness sweetie. Don't beat yourself up over it. I'm sure there are guys out there that do like you, there just also the kind and smart ones. Maybe your just looking at the wrong guys.
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reader, wildturkey  +, writes (14 June 2007):
 at your age i though no one liked me too, only to find out later there was heaps of people that had the hots for me. people are just shy..
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