Did I contact him too soon?
Q. I met a man on Saturday night in a nightclub who was married but separated and had two children.He seemed really keen on me.He bought me a drink,he asked me what i wanted out of life, we swapped numbers,we danced with each other all night,when his ...
A. 24 February 2009: My advice would be to leave it up to him to get in contact with you. If he is interested then he will. You only met him once and for all you know he is married and was just on a night out with the boys.
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I cheated on my husband, and then lied to him about how far I went with this man. How do we move on in our relationship?
Q. Hello, I have a huge dilema, I cheated on my husband and it all came out about 9 months ago,the affair stopped and my marriage is still intact, although it has taken a lot of trust and patience from my husband.I have been married a long time and ...
A. 24 February 2009: Well you do have a dialemma dont you? Tell him and make yourself feel better and him feel worse and possibly loose him or dont tell him and feel aweful yourself ( thats your punishment for cheating by the way!). Is it really guilt you feel or are ... (read in full...)
She can't get over that I cheated on her
Q. I had a texting fling with a younger woman and my wife seems to class it as 'cheating' even though it was a daft game which has all finished now. I stupidly left some of the texts on my phone and she found them (should she have been snooping?). It ...
A. 24 February 2009: Hi there Why is it that when a man is unhappy with his marriage he does not just try to fix it? Why bother flirting with someone else? I guess she made you feel good and you enjoyed the attention. What is harmless to you is a big deal to... (read in full...)
Are all men forgetful? Or do they just not care?
Q. Are all men forgetful or do they just don't care?!? Ok, today I've been with my bf for 1 month!! And many more to come!!! He hasn't said anything. Should I mention it? Or is that really not an important date for a guy?...
A. 24 February 2009: Hi Honey I dont think that he will be that bothered as men dont tend to be that into anniversaries unless it is an important one. Dont worry he probably is not thinking about it - he is probably just thinking how lucky he is to be going out wit... (read in full...)
How can I make a guy I briefly dated move on?
Q. Ok let me break this down. 1) Casually dated this guy 3 months ago. Was very brief. He was not only older than me by 6 years; it was pretty evident he has always had a stern and mature approach to relationships in the sense that he wants to sett...
A. 24 February 2009: Sorry to hear this problem , again I agree with the others. You must completely block him out of your life as the slightest sign from you he will see as encouragement. I think there is something very immature about his behaviour and you were right ... (read in full...)
My husband left me after 16 years, has this happened to you and how did you deal with it?
Q. Hi all, I just need a bit of advice and to see what peops did if they were in my situation. My husband left me after 16 years of marriage for a nother woman. He had been seeing her for over a year before he told me and stayed for another 6 months ...
A. 6 February 2009: You must be in a terrible state of shock, poor you. What a lying so and so! You deserve better than him. Go see a divorce lawyer to see where you stand as everyone will give you bad advice when it comes to the legal side. Everyones case is ... (read in full...)
Should I text him to give myself some closure?
Q. So, technically my ex boyfriend broke up with me a week ago. We've been going out for close to a year and this is the longest relationship both of us had ever been in. During the past year, we would constantly fight...mostly me end up getting mad at ...
A. 6 February 2009: Give him some time and space, dont hassle him. In a month if you still feel like this then meet up with him to discuss it face to face. You were not getting on with him and there are lots of nice guys out there who would love to go out with you.... (read in full...)
Bf watches she-male videos every morning and is hardly interested in me now, help!
Q. im 22 years old i have recentley checked what my bfs been lookin on,on the internet and ive found hes been watchin shemale videos but its happening every mornin before he goes to work and hes masturbating over them he hardly ever cums near me nemore ...
A. 6 February 2009: I would question why you are in a relationship with this guy. Tell him that you know about this and that he must stop this immediately or he can leave. If he does not stop then split up. It will only get worse...I have personal experien... (read in full...)
Can an unfulfilled fetish be a deal breaker?
Q. I've fallen in love with the most remarkable woman I've ever come across. We have, it seems, all the right things in common, yet have enough differences to keep things interesting. We communicate well, we laugh often, and we love intently. Our ...
A. 6 February 2009: Yes and no. It depends on if this is the only way she can enjoy love making or if it is only part of what she likes. If you have spoken to her and she assures you that everything is OK then you will have to take her word for it. Perhaps she had ... (read in full...)
He says he's not ready but I want to take our relationship to the next level
Q. I have been with my partner for 9 years (since I was 19) and we moved in together 4 years ago. After being together for such a long time I really want to take our relationship to the next stage by getting married and having children. For the p...
A. 5 February 2009: I think you have been with hinm far too long without a proper future commitment from him. Having said that there may be a good reason like he is still engrossed in his career and does not want distractions such as children yet - I dont know how ol... (read in full...)
We kissed but he didn't ask for my number, any idea why?
Q. I've known this guy for a few months, I liked him when we first met though nothing happened, next time we met out in a pub we were flirting with each other but I was with another guy that night so nothing happened, then we met again and this time we ...
A. 5 February 2009: I think Leonardo is right, perhaps he is a slow mover, just taking time to see how you get on before he asks you out.
I think the cheeky comment to him would give him the encouragement he needs and at the same time if he then is not interest... (read in full...)
My hubby cheated on me 20 years ago, how do I cope with the revelation?
Q. My husband received a christmas card from a woman he used to work with many years ago.She said she wanted to meet up with him for old times sake.When I questioned this, he admiitted that he had a fling with her 2 years into our marriage when I was ...
A. 5 February 2009: This is truely horrible for you...on the one hand it was 20 years ago...but on the other he had a fling and has lied for 20 years. Luckily he seems sensible enough to realise how upset you will be.He seems (apart from this fling) to be an honest ... (read in full...)
Why are woman naturally jealous?
Q. Why are we women naturally jealous? Men are naturally visual, so they naturally have a "wandering eye". Why do we have to be jealous then? I'm not saying "all women" or "all men", but most. I know I get jealous as much as I rationally know ...
A. 5 February 2009: Men do look at women - even happily married ones have a sneaky look BUT they should not oggle someone in front of you. Its very rude for a man to do that. My other half did this when we first started going out and I told him not to do it so now he ... (read in full...)
How do I find confidence & be happy with myself?
Q. i'm insecure with how i look. i have all these family/friends/work problems coming at me all at once. and dealing with a break-up! i know one of my problems is that i am too passive and naive. (is it wrong to be nice and trust everyone?) another ...
A. 3 February 2009: Dont worry this is quite a common problem. Most people suffer from lack of confidence at some time in their lives and at the moment it is your turn.
You need to talk to someone - a friend or relative who knows you well and tell them how you feel... (read in full...)
How can I make sense of this so that I can move on with my current boyfriend?
Q. I met my ex boyfriend a few years ago and fell deeply in love with him, I never knew love like this before, he was everything to me. He told me he loved me too, we started to look for a house together, talked about kids and everything was great ...
A. 3 February 2009: I have to say that I agree with Kelly. Move on. Some men (and women) only want you when someone else does I suspect that this is the case with him. Now you have someone else he will promise you the earth and will be very persuasive. He had his ... (read in full...)
I don't think I can forgive and forget his stag night to the strip club!
Q. I know I am not the first female in the world to have an issue with strip clubs but my boyfriend lied to me for 6 months and I had to force the truth out of him before he confessed to going to one on a stag night. I told him from the outset of our ...
A. 25 January 2009: I am so sorry for you honey, you have fallen into a classic male trap - 'because we were apart for several months he 'didn't think we had much of a relationship' because we had gone through a bad patch (although not split up)but just by circumst... (read in full...)
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