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... Send *skSam a private message | | | *skSam's profile:Hello there, my name is Samantha Tallon and i am from Ireland, i grew up in a potentially mixed up enviroment, with everything from child abuse to being beaten by a few ex lovers and a rocky relationship with my family. Although i may not be qualified in papers, i am expierienced and used to many things, cheating, beating, sex life worries, post natal issues, family problems. I amk quite honest and dont beat about the busy with my answers, but sometimes thats what people need. I live in Gorey, wexford, Ireland. I am 25 and hoping. I like to sit at home, mind my family and do my artwork, and i thought to myself, why not offer my advice to people! I am engaged to a wonderful man Barry, and yes things arent perfect, we row and fight about everything but seem to be ok, i have my own problems i will ask for help for.But if there is anything you need and think i can help don't be afraid to hit me up. |
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Am I wrong for wanting to move on and find happiness?
Q. I have decided to end things with my partner, sheerly because he gambles five days a week, we have one child together and i have three from a previous relationship, and he pays no interest in them only complains about their behaviour, they are ...
A. 24 July 2009: Thanks for you replies. I have a nervous breakdown and ended up oin hospital over the weekend in and out of consiousness after taking a stupid overdose. There was an emergency meeting with the wexford self harm intervention programme and barry has ... (read in full...)
I can't move forward in my life with all these feelings I have for him!
Q. Hi guys, first of all Id like to tell u that im gay, im feeling really down because me and my boyfriend broke up almost a month ago, he ended up with me in very hurtful terms telling me he didn´t love me anymore, added to this problem i have a bunch ...
A. 21 July 2009: Oh dear, your family are a little traditional and closed minded, but thats not unusual, i live in ireland, and even here where the gay parade goes, the attitude in the country is still tut tut, But attitudes are changing, and it shouldnt make you ... (read in full...)
I'm trying but my boyfriend seems to not care about ths relationship anymore!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half. When we first started dating he was Sooooo in live with me, and it was so nice to have someone who treated me like this. He took me on dates, he was compassionate about my feelings, he ...
A. 21 July 2009: I think my darling, I am in the same boat, tha honeymoon period of new love is over and your really meeting the real one another for the first time. I am with my partner headed two years and we are still just getting to know one another. I think its ... (read in full...)
I have some sex and health issues and questions!
Q. [Moderator note: I combined two questions into one for space and continuity.] 1: i hate anal sex it hurts me really bad but my boyfriend loves to give it to me. lastnight we ued lube but still i was in alot of pain. i want to mke him happy so i jus...
A. 21 July 2009: 1) if your uncomfortable with it, tell him and find something else, its clear you dont like it, so try something else that is romantic.
2) what your expieriencing is female ejaculation when you have sex, or its just normal for you, many women fi... (read in full...)
Am I heartless for even thinking about this?
Q. I'm engaged to a lovely girl. We've been together for over 5 years, but ever since we bought a house together she's become very distant. She still chooses to live with her mother rather than at our house, and openly admits that she doesn't know if ...
A. 21 July 2009: My only advice is tread carefully, be honest and follow your gut instict that tells you what is right. There is no real right or wrong here. I do feel sorry for your wife, she must suffer terribly, does she have any help? Doctors, meds or ... (read in full...)
Would it be very selfish if I leave, and let them figure things out?
Q. I have very hard time live in my own dysfunctional family. I know usually teenagers would feel like that , but really ,I' m so upset. Me and my husband can't get along for many reasons. He is working all the time, and never does anything with...
A. 21 July 2009: You sound like a worn out woman who has been taken advantage of for too long. And my heart goes out to you, your children being into drugs must be a very powerfully upsetting thing in your marriage to begin with. You probably have, but have you ... (read in full...)
Best way to confess undying love?
Q. i need to confess my undying love to a girl before she leaves for uni. what is the best way to do this? jamez x...
A. 21 July 2009: Well babe,
be honest, take her out somewhere like the park for a cute picnic and tell her as romantically as possible (us ladies love it!), be supportive, visit her at uni or if face to face is too hard, write a letter and get it over there pron... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to like him!
Q. i was asked out by this guy i like, but i turned him down. i tried to make myself believe i turned him down by making up some lame excuse, but the real reason i turned him down is that i'm scared to like him. i have never had a boyfriend before and ...
A. 21 July 2009: Oh you poor thing, I can really feel your pain at having trust issues with guys,to do with the past. I was beaten by a man and a relative throughout my life, but to be honest the only way out of that is to seek professional counselling, there are ... (read in full...)
I want to continue my friendship with my teacher but I want it to work romantically too!
Q. I love a teacher of mine. I wasn't even sure what the feeling was until my mom identified it. (I talk about him with her; my age difference with my teacher is the same as my mom's with my dad.) He's 12- 13 years older than me, but even so, we conn...
A. 21 July 2009: Hey there little huni,
Well to be honest he is a teacher and risks losing his job if you were to so much as even tell him, everyone has a crush on a teacher at some point, but thats all it can be, my darling you are so young, and the hormones are ... (read in full...)
Is he just making fun of me or is he being flirty with me?
Q. ok this is my problem. i think i'm in-love with the wrong guy.he has a girlfriend that is far away -like long distance relationship- and the girl really loves him and he loves her (i think). And the worst, he's older than me about 10 years... ...
A. 21 July 2009: Oh hon, I feel your pain but, you need to realise this guy is attatched, and just move forward onto bigger and better things, so what if someone told him you liked him, he probably knew anyway. And if he loves his girlfirend and he loves her, you s... (read in full...)
Heartbroken over 2 guys!
Q. I dont know how to stop this heartache feeling, it never seems to fade. I lost my virginity to this guy in december after a few too many drinks, we meet each other in the summer and liked each other but nothing happened because i was scared because ...
A. 21 July 2009: You poor lovey,
It is hard moving on, the heartbreak is always tough, that pain in your tummy and the tears and depression only fuel the anger and greif more. Stop beating yourself up, this guy has moved on and probably wants you to be happy now.... (read in full...)
I trusted my long-term boyfriend enough to stop using condoms with him, but now I am itchy! Could it just be thrush or something more?
Q. I need help. I hope I am just worrying for nothing. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and been completely faithful. Before him I have only had sex with 3 other guys all who were my boyfriends. I was safe with all of them (using ...
A. 21 July 2009: If it only external, you most probably have thrush, so just watch the bread intake, anything with yeast, natural yoghurt works as a relief, less soap down there, and a cream called canesten is highly recommended too. Altough i really wold recommend ... (read in full...)
How do I come clean to my mum that the condom she found was mine and my boyfriend's?
Q. my mom found a condom that me and my boyfriend used but i couldnt find any excuse but to tell her that it was one of my friends from work that put it in my bag but i find it hard to believe that she believed me and im 16! i dont know how to tell her ...
A. 21 July 2009: Well there sweetheart, i think honesty is the best policy and find a nice time to sit down and talk about it, you dont have to tell her all the details, but be as honest and straight to the point as you possible can. She may be mad, but should ... (read in full...)
Is a druggie deadbeat dad better than no dad at all?
Q. This is about relationship advice with my father. My father had been out of my life since I was 2 years old. He was a heavy pot smoker and wanted the drug more than a family. When I was 16 my half-sister contacted me through the web. So I got to...
A. 21 July 2009: The only thing i can say on this is, put it on the back burner for a while, see a counsellor to offload your anger and upset. You have been treated rather badly, but you are still young, My father was basically the same, i got abuse of my step mum ... (read in full...)
Is his lack of jealousy just a lack of interest?
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now. He's a wonderful guy and a great boyfriend. He's very loving and kind. The only thing that's been worrying me lately is that nothing ever bothers him. I had some problems with my Ex-bf at the ...
A. 21 July 2009: Well in my opinion, you are both very young and in school, you are probably a year or two ahead of him in the mentality department. You need to ask yourself a few things...
1) Is he just extremely relaxed and trusts you so much that he neither ... (read in full...)
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