Torn between the girl leaving for university, and the local one.
Q. I'm not sure what to do, I'm in a boat I've never been before. I've been getting close to a friend of mine all summer, we both knew she was moving away to university 200 miles away and I gave her the option of either making things a proper relatio...
A. 20 September 2013: In the end, I chose to be honest with both girls. She came back due to some stuff at home and we decided to be serious about our LDR. The local girl and I are now just friends instead as we both agreed that although we get on, we wouldn't work as a ... (read in full...)
We had a sex but I don't want it to be just a one time deal. How do I talk to her about it?
Q. This a simple one really...I'm 20, young guy, however unlike most guys my age I don't like "going out on the pull" or sleeping with lots of girls. In fact, I've only slept with 4 since I was 17 all but on relationships and never anything past ...
A. 30 January 2013: Apologies for the grammar, I typed this in a rush... (read in full...)
When do girls get past this immature rubbish?
Q. Easy one, when do girls start to mature and stop messing nice guys like me around? I only ever seem to get "friendzoned" or they lead me on for a few weeks then have the whole "im a screw up, you deserve better" talk....seriously, it's ridiculous ...
A. 10 October 2012: Well that was a longwinded answer for basically saying "grow a pair"...by nice I mean that I don't just rush into relationships, that I'm respectful and actually make an effort unlike A LOT of guys my age. By leading on, I'll give a prime example,... (read in full...)
Will I ever enjoy having sex?
Q. hi everyone..i know this question has been asked like q million times but ladies i just want to know how was your first sexual encounter..so i was a virgin until yesterday and it really hurt ..i didn't enjoy at all. am just wondering if i will ever ...
A. 9 August 2012: Yes you will, 90% of girls hurt on their first time. Most girls usually takes a few times of going slower before they start to enjoy it properly, I had an ex that took maybe a dozen times before she just enjoyed. This will sound a little daft but,... (read in full...)
If a girl lets you do things for her, does it mean she likes you?
Q. I met this girl and she asks me to drive her places, and I helped her move. I also help her out by giving her advice. My best bud says if a girl is always looking to you to help her with stuff it means she likes you. I am not sure though. I really ...
A. 13 September 2011: Honestly man a girl asking you to do stuff for her can mean one of two things. Either she likes you and its the only way she can spend time with you without seeming suspicious or she could just be using you as free labour. As horrible and sex... (read in full...)
Should I set my heart on this one girl if I am doing 'bad guy stuff'?
Q. Hi everyone, basically i need some moral advice on how to act to women. I'm 18 and so far have been lucky enough to be in love twice. I was with my first girlfriend for 18 months, i was head over heels, wanted to have a future and all that..th...
A. 3 July 2011: Thankyou everyone for your amazing support and advice. In he end i took eeryones advice and have let kari-ann know i want to move past a friendship. I have also decided to be that nice guy even if it doesnt always seem like the easiest thing to do ... (read in full...)
Did I squirt? Or pee?
Q. I was fooling around with myself earlier and something happened. I think I squirted but I'm not sure if I peed :/ I know it sounds really stupid but its happened a few times. I go to the toilet before to make sure I don't need the toilet and when I ...
A. 23 January 2011: Thats called the female ejaculation ;) not all girls can do it and those who can usually hold it off. Its not pee or anything, its similar to semen.
Most guys find it a massive turn on so you're in luck. Its perfectly natural and the leg shaking ... (read in full...)
Can I increase my semen?
Q. I'm 19 and I know I'm basically at the height of my sexual prowess right now. I was wondering if there was any ways I could increase the size of my loads, that is semen. It would make orgasms that much more enjoyable but more importantly I just love ...
A. 13 September 2010: Try kegel exercises, they're designed to work and strengthen your PC muscle. It should give you harder, stiffer erections, allow you to last longer more easily and improve orgasms as this is the muscles that twitches and forces your sperm out. Also, ... (read in full...)
I used to go for hours in the bedroom, now just 15 minutes!
Q. Hi, Me and my girlfriend of two and a half years have recently split up, before we split up we rarely had sex so i lasted for a few hours a time, it was exactly the same when i started seeing other women, now we are back together and i seem to be...
A. 19 August 2010: hi man, i had a similar problem where as me and my girlfriend got more comfortable having sex i seemed to not last as long, almost as though you arent trying impress somewhere in your brain
I dont know exactly....but i did find out a few things. ... (read in full...)
Should I feel embarrased about my penis size?
Q. A friend of mine made me feel so ashamed and embarrassed when she was making fun of me because I have a small penis... I am 17 years old and it is about 10 centimeter (4 inch) long, and 9 centimeter (3.9 inch) circumference, when it is "hard". ...
A. 15 February 2010: There are so many tiny things to consider with penis size. I personally also used to be really conscious, but then you have to ask yourself a few different things. For starters, what the difference between having big hands or feet and then having a ... (read in full...)
What's the deal with my friend?
Q. One of my friends has large translate that as HUGE breasts. She pointed out to me that I have small breasts. I said,"So what?".She said to me,"You don't have to worry about them".Now she is going and talking behind my back to other guy friends of ...
A. 14 February 2010: Just ignore her, she obviously has nothing better to do with her time.
If anyone does ask whether you're conscious just honestly say you arent like the first time and the rumour will quickly fade out/ ... (read in full...)
I am 4 inches erect. Will I be able to please her?
Q. About sex I know she has given head to two other guys and there both older and taller and bigger than me I'm not sure if you get a girl excited enough that a smaller dick than what she is used to will satisfy her. I'm 15 and I'm 4 inches erect I ...
A. 12 February 2010: The vagina is only about 3-4 inches deep...the only reason it can accomadate bigger penises is because it CAN stetch.
Your penis should cover her full length perfectly dont worry about it. If you are still a little worried you could do a number o... (read in full...)
What does love really feel like?
Q. I think I may be in Love with someone, but i don't know about it because Years ago I let go of most of my emotions. I think i may like her, i know she likes me, but there is another problem as well. She is only 15 or 16 i think and im not that kind ...
A. 12 February 2010: I was in exactly the same boat a few months ago so i think i can help dude.
Being in love is like nothing else youll have ever felt and to be honest its not even an emotion.
The person will stray into your thoughts when you least expect it, w... (read in full...)
My girlfriend gets uncomfortable when I go near her vagina, any tips?
Q. Ok so me and my girlfriend have been together for about 3 months and we makeout alot, and she lets me grab her boobs and ass and she really loves that stuff (like when ever I even slightly move toward her boobs she starts to pull her shirt down so I ...
A. 4 January 2010: Same dude,
The wa my girlfriend explained it is that she sees it as quite immature almost. It might be the same for your girlfriend, she just sees it as a little wrong.
She obviously just loves you loads if she is willing to give you stuff a... (read in full...)
I can't read her signals about sex
Q. I have been going out with an amazing girl for nearly a year. I have felt her up before and she hasn't stopped me. She knows that I want it but she hasn't given anything back but signs I can't read. I need some help on asking her, and reading her ...
A. 23 December 2009: I dont agree with the others, if you two are alone and you feel her up a little....once you start to make out etc. Make the first move. If she doesnt want to then she'll just ask you to stop and no harm done. Dont be too forceful though, the aim ... (read in full...)
How can I forget about my girlfriend's sexual exploits while we were apart?
Q. My girlfriend and I dated for 2 1/2 years and broke up 2 months ago, we are now back together. While broken up she had sex with some guy she dated, and I went down on some girl but nothing serious. I know its none of my business what happened while ...
A. 22 December 2009: Think of it this way....if she did that in 2months then he was obviously just the rebound guy and nothing special to her. Especially if she then got back with you.
She obviously didnt care about him like you didnt care about this other girl.
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He has pain during intercourse
Q. hi how do i make feel better my b/f while having intercourse should he in top of me or i should be in top him. i would like to ask that i noticed his balls turn into pinkish blue color does he have any disease. asked him about that but he tells the...
A. 21 December 2009: It may be something called 'blue balls' which is where blood in the penis is not released because ejaculation does not occur.
When you dont climax, you dont reset the nerve system in the penis meaning that the blood pools in the ball sac instead ... (read in full...)
I love myself but this girl makes me feel ugly...
Q. i fell really ugly because there is this one girl where i liv and she looks like lady gaga she idleises her sum but she calls me fat and ugly am i how can i tell... i am 16 years of age and im 5'5 i am 12stone i have black hair that is sholder lengh ...
A. 14 December 2009: Well from you description you dont sound ugly at all, very average in fact.
I personally feel that there is no such thing ugly. Everyone has there own opinion of what is or isnt attractive and you should never let it put you down. I know people t... (read in full...)
My mum wants my weekends!
Q. OK, so my parents hav split up. Not legally but they dont live together and dont love each other anymore. I have a girlfriend which im really seriosu about and want to be with her as much as possible. The thing is that my mum wants to see me almost ...
A. 8 December 2009: Just to clarify, my mum and dad have not lieve together for nearly a year and she is in a serious relationship herself. Its not a recent thing.... (read in full...)
I think I like her!
Q. There's this girl, she used to date a friend of mine, but I had never really talked to her until weeks ago (because I didn't really hang out with them), and they happened to break up at the same time. So we've been talking to each other a lot ...
A. 25 November 2009: Probably just confirming what your thinking already but i say go for it.
This exact scenario is how me and my girlfriend got together. I mean it. She was my friends ex, she broke up with him, we started hanging out, weeks later, i started liking h... (read in full...)
I'm overwhelmed by condom selections! Any tips?
Q. Hey, Me and my girlfriend are thinking of having sex. And it sounds embarrasing, but when i looked in the shop for condoms, i was completely confused on how many different types there are. Can anyone help me out, and tell me the best 'DUREX...
A. 18 November 2009: I used Durex Extra safe for my first time dude just to be on the safe side....or more on it at least.
I was advised by a friend to start on them then move to thinner ones and other types as we got more confident. Then after a few months to move ... (read in full...)
I'm too shy around a guy I like
Q. I'm too shy around a guy I like. I see him all the time, and usually when I do we're amongst a group of mutual friends... they'll talk with one another about general things. I do make contributions to the discussion but because i'm shy around h...
A. 17 November 2009: It depends on a few things. Firstly, this guy probably knows you like him if he goes quiet when its more private and probably likes you back if he does that. If you can pluck up the smallest bit of courage to just steer the convosation into ... (read in full...)
What was this thing I found in my panties?
Q. im 17 years old now... but a few years ago when i was about 14 on holiday i woke up and had this thing i cant explain in my knickers, it was kind of big, it looked a bit like a fetus, but the thing is i was a virgin at the time so i dont understand ...
A. 17 November 2009: Im doctor at all but at the very least i did some biology in school etc. I know that after having a baby you have the placenta -which is gungy etc - come out aswell aftwerwards......maybe part of that?
I really have no clue and its just a hunch. G... (read in full...)
How do I give a good kiss?
Q. hi. me and my girlfriend hav been together for 2 months now. we see each other most days and well, obviously, we kiss. however i dont think i please her when i do kiss her. is there any advice someone could give on how to give a good kiss?...
A. 4 August 2009: I had this problem for a while aswell too dude.
If your looking for all out making out then go with french kissing. Best way to do it is just imagine its the last time your ever going to kiss her again, use your tongue more and finish holding ... (read in full...)
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