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*oveu2010
writes:i fell really ugly because there is this one girl where i liv and she looks like lady gaga she idleises her sum but she calls me fat and ugly am i how can i tell... i am 16 years of age and im 5'5 i am 12stone i have black hair that is sholder lengh and clear skin i love me this one girl just drags me down help mee please asap xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009): 12 stone at your height is about 3 stone too many for a girl your age and height. You should drop some of that extra ballast over the side by eating a diet plentiful in whole grains and vegetables and get some exercise.
In about 2-3 months you will notice a BIG difference. When Gaga sees the new you she'll have to take a ride on her own disco stick (the one she's been hiding from us in her drawers.)
Bon voyage!
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reader, loveu2010 +, writes (15 December 2009):
loveu2010 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanx guys yh your proberbrly rite i'll try that xxx
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reader, Jayney Y  +, writes (15 December 2009):
 She looks like Lady Gaga, (ie; trashy popstar that looks like a drag queen), and she's calling other people ugly? That's pretty funny. But seriously, just ignore this stupid twat, clearly there's something about you that's she's very jealous of. Next time she starts picking on you suggest to her that she needs to wear more make-up because she hasn't managed to cover up the asshole underneath all the slap.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (14 December 2009):
It's not you at all. How can it be? There's only one girl who's saying it and it's her. And do you know why she's saying it? Because she's terribly insecure and the only way she can feel good about herself is to bully you. So don't let it get to you. There's nothing wrong and you love yourself. I bet she hates who she is. She just ignore her and tell her she's insecure.
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reader, scotfish +, writes (14 December 2009):
 hi there, from your question it seems like this girl is a unplesent person who proberly does not love herself and can see that you do and wants you to feel bad about yourself, if you love yourself thats better than most of us can manage so enjoy it and enjoy your life at the end of the day she is the one with the problem not you
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reader, AntPain +, writes (14 December 2009):
Well from you description you dont sound ugly at all, very average in fact.
I personally feel that there is no such thing ugly. Everyone has there own opinion of what is or isnt attractive and you should never let it put you down. I know people that love body hair, hairless, skinny guys, muscley guys, long hair, short hair, french...you name it someone out there will love it.
If this one girl doesnt like the way you look, its not the the worst thing ever dont worry. Its only one person, keep your head up and dont let it get to you.
By the way, it is true that guys and girls do bully each other a little when they like each other.....if whats shes saying isnt that extreme then its even possible that she like you back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): This girl is a bully, and people like that feel better about themselves by putting others down. One things I've learned in life is that all bullies have weaknesses and insecurities; find hers and throw it back at her. Don't be afraid to tell her about herself: her crooked teeth, bad hair, or whatever imperfections she has. Some may tell you to ignore her and be the bigger person, but I feel if you let this pass, you are opening the door for her--and others--to continue tormenting you. Stand up for yourself and you'll find that people like this girl can dish out the insults, but can't take them. Hurt her feelings a few times and she'll think twice about calling your fat and ugly.
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