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writes: Ok so me and my girlfriend have been together for about 3 months and we makeout alot, and she lets me grab her boobs and ass and she really loves that stuff (like when ever I even slightly move toward her boobs she starts to pull her shirt down so I can get at them) and she is totally ok with giving me head and handjobs, but whenever I try and finger her she just moves my hand away. So I decided to go ahead and ask her why she doesn't want me to finger her, and she just said that she gets uncomfortable when I go near that area (she doesn't even want me to rub her from the outside of her pants) and I totally respect this and do not want to push her into anything she isn't comfortable with because I care about her alot, but I'm just wondering if there is anything I can do to help her get more comfortable with this stuff, or should I just leave it alone and let it happen when it happens. I'm fine either way I just feel kinda bad not being able to return the favor. Thanks in advance for your input :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell thanks for the advise. And guess what she let me finger her last weekend and she was SO happy she did :) I gave her her first orgasm.
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reader, AntPain  +, writes (4 January 2010):
Same dude,
The wa my girlfriend explained it is that she sees it as quite immature almost. It might be the same for your girlfriend, she just sees it as a little wrong.
She obviously just loves you loads if she is willing to give you stuff and not want anything in return. Dont worry about it. :)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (4 January 2010):
Just have patience with her. She's said she's not totally comfortable yet, so maybe she's not ready. And she seems to be enjoying everything else, so listen to her and when she's ready she'll let you know.
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