MMF - is this a common fantasy for men?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have always had a very good sex life, we have always been experimental but have never tried a threesome or anything like that, though we have discussed them before. Tonight we were talking about th...
A. 23 November 2008: Is it common? YES! Absolutely! Not necessarily a MMF threesome where the men have to touch one another (most straight men aren't comfortable with that) but a fantasy about watching their girlfriends sleep with someone else? It's a huge one, just ... (read in full...)
There are things my boyfriend does that upset me, am I too sensitive?
Q. Hello, I have been with my boyfriend for a year in febuary. Thursday night we we're on the phone talking about someon on the telly and he said what the one with masive boobs and I said yeah, how do you know shes got massive boobs and he said well ...
A. 22 November 2008: I would chalk all of this up to his age. When I started dating my boyfriend we were both 16 years old and he was a typical 16 year old boy, always ogling girls with big breasts, etc, etc. Now, we are both older, and he hasn't done those things for ... (read in full...)
I'm not attracted to men themselves, but their body. I still like girls too, am I gay?
Q. hey, im 16 okay so here goes, i like girls, well at least i thought i did, and i think i'm starting to fancy men. so i've had a rough time, 12 months since my last relationship and not really close since, i've only managed to kiss a girl twice, an...
A. 22 November 2008: Maybe you're bisexual. Or maybe it's just hormones. On the other hand, things that turn us on in our fantasy lives are often very different from what turns us on in our real lives. I sometimes fantasize about giving/recieving oral sex from a woman ... (read in full...)
I lose it when she is on top. How can I fix that?
Q. I am having a huge problem. I have been with this girl for a while, and we are very close. However, lately sometimes when we have sex, it only works when I am on top of her. When she gets on to of me, I lose it sometimes. This doesn't happen all the ...
A. 17 August 2008: She's got to be moving in the right ways that's key... sometimes if the girl isnt moving right in can cause the man to lose his erection... so you hav eto teach her how to move so it feels good for you. Gotta experiment. ... (read in full...)
Is it possible that I did not feel when I squirted?
Q. I had sex with my boyfriend last night - wasn't our first itme or anything but I apparently did something i've never done before. Since we've started having sex he's been determined to make me cum because I've never cum during sex - I can only cum ...
A. 10 August 2008: I squirt on a regular basis and yes, usually it feels like a really good, intense orgasm. But if he says you did it, I guess you did! Too bad you didn't get the pleasure that goes with it. Maybe next time.... (read in full...)
Me and my fiance are both bisexual... and afraid of our parents' reaction...
Q. Me and my fiance are both bisexual and have an extremely well working relationship, we love each other to no bounds and the sex is absolutely amazing. We are both extremely loyal and would never dream of cheating on each other. But the question is h...
A. 10 August 2008: Why do you have to tell your parents? I guess I could understand you wanting to tell them if you were dating a member of the same sex, but as far as I can see, your sex life is your business, not theirs. As long as you aren't planning on having a ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is away on holiday for 2 weeks and I'm finding it hard to cope with the distance!
Q. my girlfriend has gone on holiday recently and shes gone for 2 weeks but shes only been gone for 4 days and i am finding it hard to cope i dont know what to do does any one have any suggestions? ...
A. 10 August 2008: You need to distract yourself. Hang out with friends, work out, watch movies you know she doesn't want to see, plan a surprise for her when she gets back, etc, etc.
If you keep busy you won't have time to miss her.
:)... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is incredibly jealous! Why is she this way?
Q. My girlfriend of 5 years, now has recently become extremely jealous of me having contact with girls. Guys too. Well, anyone to be honest. If I'm not with her, she gets really anxious, and worried about what I'm doing, worried that I'm cheating, or ...
A. 8 October 2007: She sounds like she suffers from some sort of depression, and you have become her drug. She probably feels happy when she is with you, but the depression creeps in when you aren't around. She is very dependent on you- it is not healthy for either of ... (read in full...)
How do I get over my first kiss?
Q. Im 14 and last night me and my friends went to a hotel party, where there were all these older guys who play state footy for melbourne, anyway I started talking to this really hot guy who is 21 and the next thing i know we were kissing and having ...
A. 8 October 2007: It sounds special to me.
It might not have been your ideal first kiss scenario, but the first kiss in your life isn't probably going to be your most memorable or your best kiss anyway! The most important first kisses you experience will be with guys... (read in full...)
Is sex REALLY like this?
Q. Hi, I am a 14 year old girl and have just began high school a few months ago. I have viewed porn a few times and now that I have seen people engage in sex, I wonder... is this what sex is really like? Because I think it seems way too extreme for ...
A. 7 October 2007: Well... Depending on the kind of porn you're watching, of course... no. It can be wild and you can do extreme positions. Porn isn't realistic though. Don't expect sex to be like that.
Though porn can be useful for ideas for new sex posi... (read in full...)
Am I right to doubt my boyfriend?
Q. Ok, here's the problem, I love my bf but lately he has been saying how nice looking and open-minded my best friend is, my brother has told me to leave him because he thinks he is cheating on me and I want to leave him but we live in the same house ...
A. 7 October 2007: You want to leave him- that says it all.
If you're not happy with him, and you want to leave him, then you need to do that. It's what's fair on you, and it's what's fair on him. You and him will have to sort out the details of who gets the hous... (read in full...)
How do I pop the question to my boyfriend?
Q. Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for around 2 years, and it is as brilliant as the first day we met. I'm so in love with him and him with me. I've decided I'd like to propose to him: he'd never expect it and it'd be so unconventional. Thing ...
A. 7 October 2007: At 16-17 years old... I would think long and hard before I got engaged to a guy... Have you two ever talked about getting married? Do you ever talk about your long term future?
Some guys would feel emasculated if their girlfriends proposed... (read in full...)
My wife chats to other men in internet chatrooms. Am I right to be annoyed and upset?
Q. My wife has recently started using internet chat sites, mainly a flirting one. She can sit for hours chatting to other men most of which is of a personal and sexual nature, she has also given out her mobile number to some of these men so that they ...
A. 7 October 2007: This sort of thing is akin to cheating, especially since she is engaging with them over the telephone as well. It's very easy for these things to get out of hand, and it may end up with these men wanting to meet up with her.
Tell her to stop... (read in full...)
Why do men seek attention from other women?
Q. Hi there, I recently read some of your response and would like to ask you the following. I have a wonderful man. Treats me with respect, love, loving words, very complimentary, we wake in the morning and he holds me and tells me I'm beautifu...
A. 7 October 2007: People like to feel attractive and wanted... even if they have no real interest in the other person. It doesn't mean he likes these women more than you or that he wants to sleep with them....
But you're right, it does send signals to those wome... (read in full...)
I didn't know that a penis in a vagina could make you pregnant!
Q. Hi Everyone, I am looking for a Little help. I am 18 years old, I had unprotected sex with my BF around 30 - 40 days Ago... I did not know that just inserting the Penis can also make a Girl Pregnant. I just recently came to know about it and i a...
A. 6 October 2007: Sometimes girls have periods when they are pregnant.
The only way you will be able to rest your mind is to take a test, they aren't expensive, so go get one.
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Curvy v Skinny?
Q. Do guys like 'curvy' girls or 'skinny' girls ?...
A. 6 October 2007: Depends on the guy!
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My boyfriend doesn't respect my feeling when it comes to his ex.
Q. I have been with my boyfriend now for 5 months and I have a big problem – one of his ex-girlfriends. They have been broken up for over 3 years, didn’t go out for very long and my boyfriend says he never thought of her as anything other than a frien...
A. 6 October 2007: I think it's great that you are trying to meet the girl. It is a very important step in coming to terms with their friendship. The fact that she is unwilling to meet you seems to prove that she is interested in him romantically, and is not over him ... (read in full...)
We used to watch porn together - now he does it more often and we have sex less! Is this a problem or am I trippin?
Q. Ok so my boyfriend is 33 and I am 22. We have been together for a little over three years. When we got together I knew he watched porn, I didnt have a problem with that because I watch as well, sometime with him. For the last few days he has started ...
A. 5 October 2007: It is troubling that he is opting for porn over real sex.
If you act now, it won't turn into a serious issue. Just make sure that he knows you are eager to try new things in bed and have more sex. Be as available as possible. He should come arou... (read in full...)
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