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writes:Hi, I am a 14 year old girl and have just began high school a few months ago. I have viewed porn a few times and now that I have seen people engage in sex, I wonder... is this what sex is really like? Because I think it seems way too extreme for me... and I can not picture myself doing it. Now, I am not saying that I am going to have sex soon I am smarter than that but I'm just curious to know... please answer any replies will be appreciated.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (10 October 2007):
Porn can range from normal sex to bizzare sex that can't be done by normal people. What did you see that you thought was too extreme?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2007): The answer is yes and no. Can be but most usually not. I see most of the female coments are 'no way'... But ladies take in care that you dont see your genitals which for us men who actually do it during the intercourse it looks much more as porn. Thats probaly why we are wired to get horney more visual way...
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reader, Emmajane  +, writes (9 October 2007):
 Porn is designed to be visual, which means the actors (and they are actors) have to adopt postions which favour the camera. None of those positions is good for real sex. Also, they exaggerate their orgasms and so on.
Porn is designed to stimulate people when they are on their own, not with a partner and it's very good for that. Mostly it's men who like porn because men are visual people which is why we care so much about how we look while they often look scruffy!
I love porn but I am something of an exception among women. I've been in porn films and enjoy making amateur porn so it CAN be fun but it isn't real sex!
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reader, Tigerlily +, writes (8 October 2007):
No, sex is not like porn at all. Some porn is so crazy it scares me too! What you have to understand is that the purpose of porn is not to film people having normal sex, it's designed to turn people on and people have all different kinds of fantasies that do that. Things that might turn them on in a fantasy, might be things they would never ever do in their real lives in a million years. I can totally understand you being curious about sex, but at your age I'd recommend you stop watching porn - you won't really learn anything and will probably just make yourself freaked out. If you want to learn about real sex, try talking to your older female relatives and friends, or look at books in the library. Or just wait, you have your whole life to explore this stuff, so what's your hurry?
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reader, just-ask-xx +, writes (7 October 2007):
 Don't worry...porn exxagerates a lot :) And when you're older and ready, you'll find you want to sex :) reply if you want to, love just-ask-xx
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reader, anneon  +, writes (7 October 2007):
 Well... Depending on the kind of porn you're watching, of course... no. It can be wild and you can do extreme positions. Porn isn't realistic though. Don't expect sex to be like that.
Though porn can be useful for ideas for new sex positions...
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help +, writes (7 October 2007):
 no it not. porn is really extreme sex well the postions anyway have no worries you may want to do that when you are older but don't worry about that ust worry about school and wait till you are ready to do it
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reader, Abacadaba +, writes (7 October 2007):
 Porn is done commertially, generally speaking people dont go all out like in porn, some do dont get me wrong, but dont forget, porn is 2 people having sex for money, so they have to put on a show. Its up to you really how you go about sex, some people want it to be loving sex, gentle and sweet, other people want it more extreme, sorta hard and fast. So it all depends on what you like, but you wouldnt be anywhere near how they do it in porn films yet, most people start off slow, general over and under, and then they will starting doing things they like, different positions etc. Just do what you want to do and how you want to do it.
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