Why did my cousin call me and turn on me the way she did?
Q. One day out of the blue my own cousin text my cell phone saying negative things to me. She said things that didn't make any sense, she was trying to argue with me over a boy I don't even like and if I did like him he stays right across the street ...
A. 19 November 2008: yea my parents know and no i don't like the boy she likes.as a matter of fact he's not her boyfriend,it was just this one time him and i and some other people were hanging out on my porch and that same day she called him and asked him how did his ... (read in full...)
Is my "friend" just stuck up?
Q. Today I went to the mall with my so friend, well she kind of treats me different sometimes so I don't know if she is my friend but I went with her and when we were at a restaurant eating our food and talking she started talking about herself. When ...
A. 18 November 2008: yeah your right... (read in full...)
I don't want him to think that I'm too " available" for him
Q. I have a crush on a guy in my class. He told me he has a girlfriend already and said I should find someone better than him. I want to forget him,but I just can't get him out of my head. Nevertheless, I don't wanna forget him, keep hoping one day ...
A. 15 November 2008: well if he has a girlfriend then you should try to get over him and you should only like him if he likes you.you should get a boyfriend or a close male friend and get close to him but don't use the guy and that is how you would really be able to ... (read in full...)
Should I help him anyway?
Q. So I have a guy friend who's need failing some classes. Well I think it's because he's not really doing the work and he's freaking out because he might have to be held back (my grades better then his). He asked me if I could help him, I told hm all ...
A. 15 November 2008: no if you don't want to help him and if he doesn't want to help himself then let him fail because your real friends will respect your feelings and by him getting mad when you tell him the right thing makes him unfair to you.only help him if he at ... (read in full...)
Is he gay? Or is it something else? I'm ready to give up!!!!!
Q. I've been dating this guy for a few months now. Everytime we shedule a date something happens and we have to cancel. I'm beginning to think that maybe he's gay and he's just going through the motions of dating me but doesn't really want to do ...
A. 10 November 2008: he probably is gay. gay men do hide from women. he probably is thinking about you in that way. like maybe if he wasn't gay he would consider you but he is gay so he doesn't know how to tell you. but on the other hand maybe he is not gay and maybe ... (read in full...)
What in the world does this mean?
Q. Can you explain this to me? What does this mean, " I do really love you but I don't like you "? Please reply and thank you !!!...
A. 10 November 2008: when someone tells you that they are meaning exaclty what they said.i love you means they love you and they would do anything for you but they probably don't like your ways.my mother used to tell me that all the time and that's what she meant so ... (read in full...)
In need of some big advice about why life sucks.
Q. how will i know if i found the right one for me?just because somebody is treating me and we both feel comfortable doesn't mean that we are right for each other......it might not last...but what are the for sure signs?n why do people pop in and out ...
A. 2 November 2008: thanks evryone!... (read in full...)
Does hanging out with more than one guy make me a bad woman?
Q. hi..i have recently just hang out with three guys.we all had a drink together.i was told to hang with more girls than guys.but before i hang out with them i told them that I wasn't a hoe or a slut.they accepted that but i kinda felt left out at ...
A. 23 October 2008: okay...thanks for your opinions... (read in full...)
Does hanging out with more than one guy make me a bad woman?
Q. hi..i have recently just hang out with three guys.we all had a drink together.i was told to hang with more girls than guys.but before i hang out with them i told them that I wasn't a hoe or a slut.they accepted that but i kinda felt left out at ...
A. 23 October 2008: okay but it was just that one time i had hung out with them.i won't do it anymore.but since i'm not or ever won't again will they still see me the same way even if they saw me with my female friends?or would they still think of me as the girl who ... (read in full...)
Does hanging out with more than one guy make me a bad woman?
Q. hi..i have recently just hang out with three guys.we all had a drink together.i was told to hang with more girls than guys.but before i hang out with them i told them that I wasn't a hoe or a slut.they accepted that but i kinda felt left out at ...
A. 23 October 2008: aw it wasn't at at a club hanging out it was at home... (read in full...)
I will never like my bisexual friend as anything other than that... a friend!
Q. I have a problem... I have a male bisexual friend.... I am a straight female. He wants to have sex with me but I'm not interested because he is bisexual. He keeps asking me to come over his house but I keep telling him no but he is my best friend ...
A. 13 October 2008: okay thank you... (read in full...)
My aunt tells me that I should wait a year or so to have sex because she said the older you wait to have sex the better it will be for you.
Q. hi, I'm a virgin and I'm 18. I really do want to have sex but I take my virginity a lot serious. My aunt tells me that I should wait a year or so to have sex because she said the older you wait to have sex the better it will be for you. Do you ...
A. 9 October 2008: im not talkin anbout the way it feels im talking about how waiting will benefit me... (read in full...)
My aunt tells me that I should wait a year or so to have sex because she said the older you wait to have sex the better it will be for you.
Q. hi, I'm a virgin and I'm 18. I really do want to have sex but I take my virginity a lot serious. My aunt tells me that I should wait a year or so to have sex because she said the older you wait to have sex the better it will be for you. Do you ...
A. 8 October 2008: thanks EVERYBODY!!!... (read in full...)
When I look in the mirror I think I'm ugly.
Q. hello....... now that I'm growing up and all... i am starting to think I don't look as good as I used to... I used to be able to say I was cute... I never bragged about my looks... but when I look in the mirror I say I'm ugly and someone will say no ...
A. 8 October 2008: awwwwwww thank you so much god bless you too.Maybe your right it was just a stage... (read in full...)
Does he want me to show a sweet side or sumthing?please help me,i don't know what to think.?
Q. hi...this guy that ive been kinda talkn to keeps botherin me in da day time and like one thirty in da mornin.we mostly text each other.he kept asking me to apologize for snapping at him.I snapped at him through a text and he keeps asking me to ...
A. 19 September 2008: thank you for the advice now we are meeting each other and he still is a pest but were getting closer ... (read in full...)
Am I a bad person because I either want everything or nothing at all?
Q. I've been moved reassigned from LDR to "friend" and she can't understand why my attitude towards her has changed. She's been hinting at it for a couple weeks now by telling me what she wants in a man (none of which I am) and the other night she ...
A. 15 September 2008: you should just tell her.If that's how u feel then that's how u feel.ur actully good because you want her to be in ur life.Itz not like ur saying forget her period.You just ade up ur mind about something and ur sticking to it... (read in full...)
I've recently noticed that some guys are attractive - am I gay?
Q. Alright, I'm just an average 14 year old kid. I've always been sexually attracted to girls, I have "hooked up" with girls a few time which definitely turns me on and when I watch "videos" it is always just one girl or a guy and a girl. Just as ...
A. 15 September 2008: You seem very normal.This is just human nature of a young man your age.... (read in full...)
Do I need to wait for more signals that he's interested or should I just go for it?
Q. So there is this guy im somewhat intrested in..we met at school and we instantly clicked however we are just friends. We always talk at school and even hang afterschool 2 study sometimes..we text eachother back and forth almost..well pretty much ...
A. 14 September 2008: Girl.....he likes you.Just tell him but still treat him like he is your friend and then you know take it slow.... (read in full...)
I'm hot for my cousin's husband and I'm much prettier than her! Should I avoid him?
Q. I am 21 years old and I have a cousin living in the same city with me. My cousin's husband, who's 30, is a very sweet guy and I always feel he's too good for my cousin. I had a crush on him ever since I met him, and I think he has feelings for me ...
A. 14 September 2008: You should definitely avoid him.That's crazy to mess with your baby cousin's father.If their together they are together for a reason.you should never mess with your family members man whether they feel right for you or not.Someone else might be just ... (read in full...)
My parents think it's wrong for me to date a black guy, is this racist?
Q. My mom and dad are soo protective. i like this black guy...alot and he likes me. but my parents think it is wrong for a white girl to date a black boy. i think thats racsism. but me and this boy have been talking for a year and we tell each other ...
A. 14 September 2008: Yea....your parents are being parents.You know how parents are.But if you want to date him then there is nothing wrong with it.If you feel comfortable with him then you should stay.It is racist because i'm here and I'm mixed with black and white so ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to lose your virginity with your clothes on?
Q. I was wondering if I have on my clothes and I come into contact with a male who has on clothes as well and I feel his penis kind of touch my vagina is that losing the virginity?I was in pain afterwards but there was no bleeding.I was emotional and ...
A. 13 September 2008: okay thank you... (read in full...)
Is it possible to lose your virginity with your clothes on?
Q. I was wondering if I have on my clothes and I come into contact with a male who has on clothes as well and I feel his penis kind of touch my vagina is that losing the virginity?I was in pain afterwards but there was no bleeding.I was emotional and ...
A. 12 September 2008: yeah but i'm talking about hormone wise not just by having sex to get addicted.My hormones don't rage or anything sp therefore I don't feel that I had sex.That's what i'm saying maam... (read in full...)
She has a boyfriend but says she would rather be with me. Why doesn't she break up with him and should I wait?
Q. I have known this girl for about 5 years. and we are really good friends. She has had boyfriends on and off in the time that i've known her but i've never thought to ask her out. I have been spending alot of time with her lately and we've been ...
A. 12 September 2008: If she really cares about you,she would leave the guy for you.She is probably confused about who she wants to be with.You should ask her what she wants from you that she doesn't wants from him.I mean you obviously have something that the other gut ... (read in full...)
I hurt my soulmate because of talking to my ex. How do I get him to trust me again?
Q. I'm having a problem with my boyfriend whom i really love and at one time we felt like soul mates we would finish each others sentences, he made my heart skip a beat every time he called me or came around my heart would race. but like a dickhead i ...
A. 12 September 2008: Tings probably won't be the same like you want because your boyfriend really does care about you.So he took that serious and so would anybody else in this situation.That's why he tells you he wants to still be with you.Well you haven't lost him you ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to lose your virginity with your clothes on?
Q. I was wondering if I have on my clothes and I come into contact with a male who has on clothes as well and I feel his penis kind of touch my vagina is that losing the virginity?I was in pain afterwards but there was no bleeding.I was emotional and ...
A. 12 September 2008: People say that once u start having sex u won't be able to stop because of addiction.You'll have a urge to have sex.But I really don't have an urge or a feeling of wanting to have sex.I have no feelings about sex.So does that mean that if I actually ... (read in full...)
I am having a hard time letting go of a guy who used and abused me, I have a new boyfriend, but I keep thinking about the jerk, when will I get over him?
Q. Ok, first of all thanks to anyone who responded to my last question about being a jilted person w/a crush. If you did not see it, you may want to read that first...but,from you all and my friends I learned that I was used, abused and walked all over ...
A. 9 September 2008: It's so hard because you don't have your mind on anything else but him.Try doing ohter things with another guy like going to the movies or just do something romantic with him.You also feel this way because he just let you down.I understand.all you ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to lose your virginity with your clothes on?
Q. I was wondering if I have on my clothes and I come into contact with a male who has on clothes as well and I feel his penis kind of touch my vagina is that losing the virginity?I was in pain afterwards but there was no bleeding.I was emotional and ...
A. 8 September 2008: Okay but it went in a tinch but he didn't go through all the way... (read in full...)
I'm struggling to understand why after a short relationship ending I'm still feeling so sad.
Q. Hi im struggling too understand why after a short relationship ending im still feeling so sad and thinking about the person all the time. I loved him then and it seems i still do now. Trouble is im not sure how he feels we used to chat online but ...
A. 6 September 2008: Well keep trying to contact him and make sure you tell him how you feel.He will understand because he only left and moved.It's not like he went far far away and you lost full contact.Luckily you still are able to contact him.Just leave him messages ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to lose your virginity with your clothes on?
Q. I was wondering if I have on my clothes and I come into contact with a male who has on clothes as well and I feel his penis kind of touch my vagina is that losing the virginity?I was in pain afterwards but there was no bleeding.I was emotional and ...
A. 5 September 2008: thank you big sis I appreciate it... (read in full...)
Why did he change his attitude after visiting me?
Q. I was in a situation with a boy I had just met.I didn't know much about him and he didn't know much about me.But we did talk on the phone and I was thinking like maybe he did care if he came over to see me. We were inside of my home and we were rel...
A. 4 September 2008: Thank You ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to lose your virginity with your clothes on?
Q. I was wondering if I have on my clothes and I come into contact with a male who has on clothes as well and I feel his penis kind of touch my vagina is that losing the virginity?I was in pain afterwards but there was no bleeding.I was emotional and ...
A. 4 September 2008: This guy did not rub his penis until he climaxed.He just sat me down on top of his lap with my legs open and that was that.It was over because after I felt his penis I jumped up because I then realized what had happened.There was no grinding or ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to lose your virginity with your clothes on?
Q. I was wondering if I have on my clothes and I come into contact with a male who has on clothes as well and I feel his penis kind of touch my vagina is that losing the virginity?I was in pain afterwards but there was no bleeding.I was emotional and ...
A. 4 September 2008: Thank You all.This is what happened,there was no pulling the panties to one side I had on my panties and my pants.So did he he had on his pants as well.I felt his penis touch like the tip of my vagina.His penis was in his pants.I did not slide my ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to lose your virginity with your clothes on?
Q. I was wondering if I have on my clothes and I come into contact with a male who has on clothes as well and I feel his penis kind of touch my vagina is that losing the virginity?I was in pain afterwards but there was no bleeding.I was emotional and ...
A. 4 September 2008: Thank You all.This is what happened,there was no pulling the panties to one side I had on my panties and my pants.So did he he had on his pants as well.I felt his penis touch like the tip of my vagina.His penis was in his pants.I did not slide my ... (read in full...)
I picked the wrong guy! What do I do?
Q. I break up with my boyfriend of 4years for somebody else. well, i thought i wasn't happy with him anymore. Then i got married with this second guy and now i just cant seem to forget my first boyfriend. i always think of him nowadays. i am actually ...
A. 4 September 2008: You should call him nd talk to him and see how he is doing and if he really willing to get married.Try to get back with him if you want him because being with him that long kind of shows that he is yours.How long has it been since you guys broke ... (read in full...)
What can I do to get things back to normal?
Q. I seriously liked this boy and we sadly had sex when we were drunk in the holiday and now we have barely spoken around school since we got back. I really want things to go back to normal and not be awkward but can't stop thinking about what we did. ...
A. 4 September 2008: Guys sometimes shy away from you.Just like how you feel he probably feel the same way.So don't worry because that might be the one for you.... (read in full...)
Is it possible to lose your virginity with your clothes on?
Q. I was wondering if I have on my clothes and I come into contact with a male who has on clothes as well and I feel his penis kind of touch my vagina is that losing the virginity?I was in pain afterwards but there was no bleeding.I was emotional and ...
A. 4 September 2008: Thank you to all the people who helped me I'm still confused because some people saw I am and some people say I'm not.I don't know what it's like to have sex but I don't feel innocent.... (read in full...)
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