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*ranhquy
writes:I have a crush on a guy in my class. He told me he has a girlfriend already and said I should find someone better than him. I want to forget him,but I just can't get him out of my head. Nevertheless, I don't wanna forget him, keep hoping one day he'll like me back. I want to win him by ignoring him and flirt with another guys to make him jealous. But my problem is that I tutor him almost everyday since he's not schooly( he asks me tutor him too) And when I tutor him, i cannot avoid of caring him. Nevertheless, I cannot stop tutoring him because Im sure he'll fail the class without me. I know if i keep being " available" to him like this, he's not gonna interested in me. Please help me. I don't want him think that im " too available" for him, but i want him to get a good grade too.
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reader, branhquy +, writes (15 November 2008):
branhquy is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you very much. If you didn't give me your advice, I think that I would do something stupid. Thank you very much
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reader, Teacake +, writes (15 November 2008):
 He sounds like a control freak if he has a girlfriend, tells you to find someone better and asks you to help him? Big ego and he's playing games.
It is not your responsibility if he gets good grades or not and its a shame you care for a guy who cares more about messing with girl's heads.
He is flirting and that's why you are a little obsessed. That's natural. Don't do anything to make him jealous because then you're using someone too who might like you and wonder if you like them. Romance is so complicated and so many people get hurt and have their hopes up and smashed.
stop helping him and let him help himself. He is obviously not being true to his girlfriend if he's flirting with other girls. He will do the same to you, they always do.
Find another guy because you like him, not because he will make the other fellow jealous. And leave this guy to wonder why you suddenly lost interest in him. That will blow his ego way more than jealous games. He knows you like him and he is playing with you for an ego boost. He doesn't deserve a girl like you - so don't put up with this. Let him do his own damn school work. His girlfriend would be very upset if she knew what was going on. So would you if he was your boyfriend who had some cute girl helping him and she had a crush on him.
Be strong! Stay away from him. You will meet someone straight away as soon as you pull away from this player.
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reader, Analdia +, writes (15 November 2008):
 well if he has a girlfriend then you should try to get over him and you should only like him if he likes you.you should get a boyfriend or a close male friend and get close to him but don't use the guy and that is how you would really be able to tell if he likes you or not.just don't show him that you need him
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