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female
age
30-35,
*naldia
writes:hi...this guy that ive been kinda talkn to keeps botherin me in da day time and like one thirty in da mornin.we mostly text each other.he kept asking me to apologize for snapping at him.I snapped at him through a text and he keeps asking me to apologize.He really does keep getting on my nerves.He would just text me out da blue and say hi and then when I say hi back he says "so ur not going to apologoze".i really don't feel like i owe an apology so i havent but he has been askin me so much that i might.I'm really trying to figure out if he cares about me bcuz sometimes he feels like a pest and other times he is friendly.I don't text him back as quik as i used to but I'm wondering y he bugs me sumtimes.does he want me to show a sweet side or sumthing?please help me,i don't know what to think.
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reader, Analdia +, writes (19 September 2008):
Analdia is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you for the advice now we are meeting each other and he still is a pest but were getting closer
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (18 September 2008):
Wow what a fruit cake!
Next time he texts asking for an apology, just text back telling him that you are sorry that he keeps pestering you.
Either that or just stop replying to his texts at all.
Why do you keep talking to him if he's bothering you? There are 5 billion other people who you could text instead.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (18 September 2008):
 He wants you to apologize for snapping at him when he texted you at 1:30AM?
Hell, I'd have snapped at him too. But perhaps just throw him a bone this time and say something like 'I'm sorry for snapping, but you can't really expect me to be all sweetness and light at 1AM'.
Have you taken this up with him? Have you asked him why he continues to pester you? Don't just give him the cold shoulder - just let him know that his constant attention is a wee bit distracting for you. Perhaps arrange to call each other instead?
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reader, Aeval +, writes (18 September 2008):
 I dont really understand your question here.
If you dont want to speak with him then stop TXTing him or turn your phone off.
If you don't feel you should say sorry for something then don't.
sometimes people are just annoying and that is all there is to it.
good luck
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