He has the ring. When will he find the right moment? Should I wait?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years this June. We have a great relationship and have lived together for the past 2 years. I trust him and he has never given me a reason not to. We are very close and are best friends and lovers. 2 1/2 years ago ...
A. 29 February 2012: hi everyone. thanks again for all the advice. Now i need more. i broke down yesterday morning and told him we needed to talk. i told him i neede to know why honestly he hadnt proposed yet. he started out saying ive been waiting for the right moment. ... (read in full...)
I really like this guy but he is a player. Should I walk away now before I get hurt?
Q. I have been seeing this guy for around 4 months now. I know he is a player and just sees the whole thing as fun but i have fallen for him and i dont know whether i should talk to him about it or just leave and walk away? i really care for him but im ...
A. 27 February 2012: If you haven't talked about having a monogomous relationship, now is the time to do it. If he is not cool with it, move on if that is what you want. People can change if they find the one they want to be with. Maybe he thinks you like to see other ... (read in full...)
Didn't want to be lead on -- was this the right way to do it?
Q. I met this guy not too long ago. He kept trying to talk to me and i kept blowing him off cuz I was busy. Finally he got my attention and we talked and exchanged numbers. we texted a lot and went out a few days later and had an AMAZING time. We ...
A. 27 February 2012: Either he's really shy about talking about his feelings or he just used you to get what he wanted and now he's done. It's sad to say, but a lot of guys are like that; although I could say the same thing about a lot of girls. My advice is to suggest ... (read in full...)
He has the ring. When will he find the right moment? Should I wait?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years this June. We have a great relationship and have lived together for the past 2 years. I trust him and he has never given me a reason not to. We are very close and are best friends and lovers. 2 1/2 years ago ...
A. 27 February 2012: Hi guys, Thanks so much for your answers. To answer some of your questions, I did not pick out the ring. The ring still had the price tag around it. Actually $5000.00. Not trying to brag, but no one would spend that amount of money unless they wer... (read in full...)
Girlfriend withdraws suddenly from the relationship. Is she love avoidant?
Q. (Sorry if this is too long. If you just want to know what I’m talking about jump to the last 2 paragraphs.) I’m in a (very) long distance relationship with a girl for about 4 months now and we’re planning to meet in her city in 1 month. She’s a l...
A. 26 February 2012: Sorry, but this sounds to me like a girl who gets off keeping guys dangling. She loves that she has that control. She is probably working at least 3 guys at one time. When she is not answering you she is probably too busy trying to keep the other ... (read in full...)
Should I ask him why he is ignoring me?
Q. We had a fling, we're friends (or at least I thought we were) and recently he stopped texting me, if I ever try to contact him he never replies after the second text. The last time I saw him he seemed a bit weird and I didn't know why. The time we ...
A. 26 February 2012: OK, if you are into him, please text again. But only once. If he is into you, he will text back. If not, if you value your friendship, let him know that, cut all sexual strings out, and have your friend back. If he is into you he would let you know. ... (read in full...)
Should I leave him to find an attentive man?
Q. frist i want to say i love my boyfriend we've been togther for 4 years now. but things are getting wierd . like sex between us is almost nonextint and if we do all he wants is for me to go down on him . and if i dont drop every little thing im doing ...
A. 26 February 2012: Oh God Girl,
Leave him, and do it quickly. The fact that he only wants you to go down on him proves that he is not interested in pleasing you. Second, he doesn't want you visiting your family without his approval, means he has pyscho jealously prob... (read in full...)
Gift for partner's mom?
Q. hello aunts and uncles, my partners mother invited us for a birthday dinner at hers and i really don't know what gift would be appropriate for her.(we can't get something together as he has already given her a gift) please note she's in her lat...
A. 26 February 2012: I know this might sound nuts, but when in doubt, I always go with a beautiful windchime. It works!! I've done it like 10 times. If you know she won't like it, get a gift card to your local book store. Older people either love to read or do crossword ... (read in full...)
I like him. he's nice. I want to know him better.
Q. I could do with some rleationship asking a guy out kind of way. I go swimming all the time and a lifeguard there I know from school. We don't ever talk in a full out conversation. But we both know who one another are. A week ago my friend came with ...
A. 26 February 2012: Sweetie, it is so obvious. He likes you, he saw the post on facebook, and he is so shy!! Talk to him in person, he wants you to. Some guys just don't have the balls to make the first move; so do it already if you are into him. There is so way he ... (read in full...)
He doesn't answer if I use my phone, but did when I used a phone unknown to him. Is it over?
Q. I need advice. My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over two years. He is currently studying for the bar exam. He's had an attitude with me for the last week which I let go because he's under a lot of stress lately. Yesterday, I had my gran...
A. 26 February 2012: Honey,
He is a stupid asshole. If he cared anything about you he would never ignore your calls. Leave him and move on. No excuses, don't take that crap. You can do better!!... (read in full...)
Is it to be expected that I would be insulted by his disbelief in me? How can I also suggest new things?
Q. Dear Cupid, I've been seeing this guy for about 6 months now, we're not official but things are getting more serious between us as time goes on... He's the first guy I've ever been sexual with, I've given him a handjob and a blowjob. Now I've ...
A. 26 February 2012: Ok, OMG, I have been through almost the same thing before. The guy ended up spreading everything we did together around the whole school after he dumped me. This guy sounds like he is only after one thing. I could be wrong, and I hope I am. If he ... (read in full...)
Which one? The one who likes me? Or the one I'm kind of into?
Q. There is this guy X who's in a class I'm in. And I’m kinda into to him. We talk in class sometimes but he’s extremely shy. We talk on Facebook at least once a week and he is the opposite of shy when we talk then. But I feel like I’m always the one ...
A. 26 February 2012: It's a sad thing but if the guy off the internet was really into you and not talking to you in public; he is either extremely shy, or to embarressed to be seen talking to you. Let's hope it is the extremely shy. If it is, how much are you willing to ... (read in full...)
I make friends with girls more easily than boys!
Q. Hi i am a 16 yr old boy i was wondering why is it that im not shy of girls and i have mostly girls as friends and not much boys as friends but i seem to be very shy of boys i can easily make friends with girls but with boys is quite difficult i ...
A. 26 February 2012: I am a female. I have always had more guy friends than girl friends. Its like they don't judge you as much. You can be yourself, and they are cool with it. Maybe its that they feel like they are competing constantly with the same sex to get the ... (read in full...)
How to fix this after the cheater was cheated.
Q. Well, let's start it this way. I met this girl nearly half a year ago, and when I we started an official boyfriend/girlfriend relationship for nearly 4 months already. We have always been in a long distance relationship since the start, and I k...
A. 26 February 2012: I know you are going through a difficult time and it has to be so stressful. I have only one bit of advice from all that you wrote, and that is do not ever committ to a long-distance relationship. It rarely ever works. We all wish it could, but in ... (read in full...)
I don't understand why I am so caught on him!
Q. What to do what to do... I met "Jeff" 10 years ago. We dated and had a good time. He dissapeared on me only to return a year later and we reconnected for a bit. Then he dissapeared, again. At the time both of us were party people and he espi...
A. 26 February 2012: Hi,
It sounds like to me you have your hands full. I am an ex-user myself and know its hard to stay clean. But I have, for 6 years now. I don't know for sure about your guy, it is hard to tell. But baby, if he is into you, he would be resp... (read in full...)
He can't go, so says I can't go? Am I being selfish wanting to take this big trip with my mother to see sister in Oz?
Q. There is quite a bit going on at the moment I don't know what to do, but my main objective is to go and see my sister in Oz (who I am quite close to). She moved to the other side of the world last year and so me, my mum and my boyfriend were all ...
A. 26 February 2012: I know it is hard to make this decision. I have been in your shoes before. Go!! It means a lot to you, and it sounds like it means a lot to your sister and your mom too. Any guy that loves you would encourage you to go, and if he doesn't, believe me ... (read in full...)
He's amazing, but he belittles me and doesn't trust me. Calls me goody-two-shoes. Do I end this relationship?
Q. This is hard for me to write, its hard for me to come to terms with, but i think im near the end of my 20 month relationship. Since the day i meet him we became inseparable, he is my first serious boyfriend and its been a wonderful and life changing...
A. 26 February 2012: Hi,
It sounds like to me you are really in love. It's very hard to find true love and when you do you will do almost anything to keep it. This guy, to me sounds jealous of your accomplishments. It sounds like he has low self-esteem. It also soun... (read in full...)
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