What to do when I run into the ex that I want back?
Q. So my ex and I were together for 6 months. Its been 3 months since the breakup. She said she needed to figure out what she wanted. For the first month and a half i kept in contact with her everyday. We even hung out a few times. One of the times we ...
A. 9 July 2009: aaahhh the dreaded F fword. Once you hear the word "friend" come from a girls mouth, it's over. It is a point of no return.
Just ask yourself this question; How many girls would use that word to refer to someone they have feelings for? NONE. SO... (read in full...)
Why are men so into you one minute and run away the next?
Q. I really need some honest feedback here, especially from the men out there. I seem to have this pattern in my life which completely confounds and confuses me and I really need to find out why it keeps happening. I am beautiful, smart, sexy, kin...
A. 21 June 2009: Well I read yor question and you're like the female version of me! I consider myself good looking, gym athletic, well dresser, clean, succesful, smart, romantic, honest, responsible. and yet women run away without giving an explanation!!
Well ... (read in full...)
Ex sent sweet texts until the end and then got rather nasty..whats it about?
Q. I broke up with my partner over 2 months ago and we haven't spoken until Saturday. I miss him alot. I was out Saturday night and made a studid drunken call to him. We spoke for a minute and he was angry and he hung up on me. I text him yesterday ...
A. 15 June 2009: aah! who hasnt made that drunken call to an ex to say you love them? I have and it just doesn't make you look good. you need to have some self control. this guy doesnt want anything to do with you. it's history past finito. find another guy... (read in full...)
Dumped for someone else by my work fling!!
Q. Ive been sleeping with a guy at work but weve never had a relationship because he said he didnt want to commit. I didnt mind I just thought it was a bit of fun at the time nothing serious. Then last month I went on holiday for a week and when I come ...
A. 4 June 2009: well whenever someone says they dont want a relationship, you have to read between the lines, because what they're trying to say is that they dont want a relationship with you! i think you should just let it go because it was just a fling and ... (read in full...)
She wont stop lying!
Q. Im just so messed up right now. i just don't know how someone can do this or its just me... a girl i was seeing typical was great to start. Then just too many wierd things and hearing things that she had done or lied to me about. could never get her ...
A. 26 May 2009: She doesn't even respect you, what makes you think she could ever love you? there's many other girls who'll give you your props, a gal who's gonna appreciate you and perhaps love you. Why give your heart to someone who doesnt know what love is. ... (read in full...)
My alcoholic husband is not the same man I married and I'm not sure if I love him anymore
Q. I have been married for 2 1/2 years to an alcoholic. He has tried to get sober in the past and always goes back to drinking. I have even given him the altimatum and left for 3 weeks until he stopped drinking, but he only stopped until I came home. ...
A. 26 May 2009: Did you find out he was an alcoholic after you married him?... (read in full...)
Seeing ex and her new b/f made me very angry!
Q. I went out to a bar last night, where some friends were playing in a band. I had a few drinks before I came out. Whenever I arrived, I found my ex girlfriend and her new boyfriend were there as well. At first it didn't bother me, but as the night ...
A. 21 May 2009: it's natural to feel that way, specially if she left you for him, but it's not that big of a deal. it's happened to the best of us. just move one and try to imrpove yourself. it'll raise your confidence, talk to girls, go out. Most girls like ... (read in full...)
Can't stop thinking about girlfriends past
Q. I cannot stop thinking about my girlfriend's sexual past. I have asked about it and regret doing so because I can't stop thinking about it and have found out she has had sex with more people than I have but she hasn't said how many and won't. She ...
A. 12 May 2009: this girl is quite a catch is she? i say move on, because you'll only get hurt... (read in full...)
I feel down...
Q. Hi, I have been dating a girl for 3 months up to february and she asked to seperate for a while. We have met a few times as friends, but I have just found that she has found someone else and I feel really upset. I don't know what to do to make me...
A. 12 May 2009: I was in the same situation you're in. I started going out with this girl in february, by the end of march she told me she needed some space, about a week later she calls me to work things out only for her to finally end it all about two weeks ago. ... (read in full...)
Fighting over whey protein?
Q. my dad wont allow me to take whey protein...i do regular workouts and it is recommended by my trainer....my family just dont want to hear about protein shakes and tell me that it doesnt suit me as i had a kidney stone problem in the past ...i fight ...
A. 7 May 2009: how old are you? do you have a job? why shouldnt even ask her for permission, if you're a grown man... (read in full...)
A tactful solution to my b/f constantly talking about work
Q. Hello all! I've been dating my boyfriend for about 8 months. He's great - really smart and has a very intense job, with tons of pressure and a bizarre management structure that cause a lot of stress. He talks about it constantly, at length. I try to ...
A. 7 May 2009: find something to do that you BOTH enjoy, rock climbing, swimming, hiking, miniature golf bowling, etc etc just to get his mind from work ... (read in full...)
Why does she need to chat to her ex so much and tell him he's great?
Q. I've been going out with my current girlfriend for over a year - but here is where the problem lies.. one of her ex boyfriends keeps creeping into the picture sending her emails and pictures of them together and she's responded to them by calling ...
A. 7 May 2009: Your situation is eerily similar to what I was going through recently. It's nice to hear other people's opinons who have been in the same situation
This girl I was seeing , we lasted about 6 months and I found out she was in touch with her ex a... (read in full...)
Why do some girls not let go completely after a break-up?
Q. why do some girls not let go completely ?? pardon me if i sound rude but i am depressed because my girlfriend has become panicky after i broke up with her and wants to stay my close friend ...where as i dont believe in friendship after breakup and ...
A. 30 April 2009: being friends after a breakup never works out. Being on speaking terms is another story, but being friends doesnt happen. for the optimist it may. But i am a realist it has never worked for me. It's best for both of you in the long run to cut off ... (read in full...)
I'm terrible at reading women!
Q. My problem is, I am terrible at reading females. Unless it is very obvious, I can't always tell if a female is interested in me or not. There is this one female that I am interested in; the first time I asked her out she told me she wasn't single, ...
A. 30 April 2009: there are many signs that tell you if a woman likes you: Does she call you often? Does she let you kiss her in public? Does she ask you questions about yourself? women show interests doing all of the above. If she's still hung up on her exboyfriend, ... (read in full...)
What would happen if I went on a water-only diet?
Q. hey all. i hear that starving yourself makes u only lose water so what i want to know is what happens if i go on a water-only-diet? wil i lose the kilos? im 90kgs and i wud like to be 50 by the end of may. please help...
A. 30 April 2009: this is foolish, you should be eating like 6 times a day with portions no bigger than the palm of your hand. plenty of vegetables, fruits and lean protein (turkey, chicken breast, fish) no carbs (bread, pasta, rice, potatoes) and watch how you drop ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend complains I don't tell him enough how I feel about him
Q. I've only been with him for 4 months but he's complaining that he doesn't know if I like him or not and that I don't compliment him or tell him how much I like him. I just got out of a long term relationship and started this one shortly after. I ...
A. 30 April 2009: tell him stuff like "you look great" "I'd love if you stay and keep me company" stuff of that nature. Don't say I love you yet until you are sure. but tell him other stuff to boost his confidence.... (read in full...)
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