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writes:I broke up with my partner over 2 months ago and we haven't spoken until Saturday. I miss him alot. I was out Saturday night and made a studid drunken call to him. We spoke for a minute and he was angry and he hung up on me. I text him yesterday morning and said I wouldn't apologise for the drunken call, that I missed him and still loved him. He text me back last night, he called me babe in the text, he admitted he was really finding it hard and that he still loved me but wasn't willing to give it a try. The texts were really lovely until the last one where he seemed to get a bit nasty and basically said enjoy your life, good bye. I didn't reply to the last text, Can anyone give me some advice as to what he is thinking. do you think maybe he is starting to change his mind. We were together for 4 years and lived together for 1.5 years
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009): I think that he still does care deeply for you, but he wants to move on with his life and probably feels as if your holding him back, this may sound harsh but it's probably how he's feeling.
I don't know why you both ended so I can't give my proper full advice.
But by the looks of it, he does love you yes. But ether he wants to move on with his life and feels your stopping him, or he feels he's done something wrong but is too late to go back. Or he has indeed found somebody else.
But whatever the reason is. Do what he says :) enjoy your life hun, and forget him. Live life to the full (:
Sorry I can't help anymore
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reader, alphamale  +, writes (15 June 2009):
aah! who hasnt made that drunken call to an ex to say you love them? I have and it just doesn't make you look good. you need to have some self control. this guy doesnt want anything to do with you. it's history past finito. find another guy
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (15 June 2009):
 he is trying to get you out of his life.
he clearly doesn't want to make ago of things with you that's why he said "enjoy life goodbye"
i've done that to an ex where i've felt jealous and just said it to stop him calling me or texting me.
i think maybe he's already moved on and he's just saying for you to do the same.
Hope this helps.
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