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Why do they ejaculate on my belly? Is this normal?

Q.   I am on the pill and recently started having sex. Even though I am supposed to be safe, the boys I've been with still pull out and ejaculate on my belly. My friend tells me all guys like to do this. Is this normal? Is it necessary at all?...

A.   2 June 2008: More than likely its because its the first place they might think of right after they pull out, not like they're gonna flip ya over and ejaculate on your neck... (read in full...)

He is so nice to me and I'm afraid the only reason why I want him is because he won't hurt me... unlike the others...

Q.   im stuck i was seening someone for a while and he knew that i had been abused very violently by this last person then a couple of weeks ago he assulted me and i got in touch with an old friend who is male and he has told me that he wants me to be ...

A.   1 June 2008: Sounds like you found a real keeper!! Seeing as how you described him and the fact that he doesn't make you feel scared, I say go for it!... (read in full...)

I think I am addicted to sex with prostitutes

Q.   i think im a sex addict.ive had sex with 11 different women in 3 months and cant stop thinking sex, the problem is they are prostitutes and i think i may be addicted to this kind of sex.do i have a problem do you think and do you think i should get ...

A.   25 May 2008: I think we might need more information here, why are you going to them in the first place? Do you feel like you need to fill an empty part of your life?... (read in full...)

My boyfriend keeps hinting me that we should have sex... how do I get more into the idea?

Q.   I am really worried because my boyfriend keeps hinting that we should hav sex but although i am a little scared i really want too, what can i do to help myself get more ammune to the idea???...

A.   23 May 2008: You shouldn't be forced to do something you don't feel comfortable doing. You're still young and sex isn't something you should be doing at that age anyway, don't let him pressure you into thinking you HAVE to have sex... (read in full...)

Men, did you ever pressure a girl into sex when you were in your teens?

Q.   This question is for the older male uncles and visitors here. When you were in your teens, did you pressure any girls for sex or sexual activity? And if so, how do you feel about that now? Do you regret it or was it just part of growing up? T...

A.   16 May 2008: No, I never have, mainly because I never dated when I was a teen... (read in full...)

I am 16 and I am scared of having sex!

Q.   the big question: sex? why am i scared to have sex?! i am 16 and i am scared of having sex, because i hear that it hurts the first time espeacially, and from what i see from movies, i know this will sound funny, bu when i watch movies where it happe...

A.   13 May 2008: You're too young to have sex if you ask me and don't listen to what the media says about sex because for the most part they're all lies, save yourself for when you meet the one you love and by then you'll know you're ready, hope this helps!!... (read in full...)

I never thought real love is so easy to get over?! In matters of days?

Q.   Quick question- Can you be out of love in 3 days? Or was it most likely not love? I never thought real love would be so easy to get over. Thanks....

A.   19 April 2008: While you didn't give much information about the relationship, I'm going to say if you were able to get over it in 3 days, it most likely wasn't love... (read in full...)

How can I make sure my boyfriend doesn't have any STD's??

Q.   hi, Me and my bf have been dating a while and the topic of sex has come up alot. Now I am a virgin and he is not and i am not ready to have sex, and he knows I am not and said he would wait fot me, so what I am worried about is Sexually Transmit...

A.   18 April 2008: Well I think the obvious answer here is to go with him to get checked for STDs that way you'll know he's telling you the truth... (read in full...)

I'm scared I will lose my boyfriend because of my small breasts-help!

Q.   I'm 17 and I have A cup breasts, and I'm worried my boyfriend thinks my body's ugly. He has said that he doesn't need me to have bigger breasts because he enjoys my legs and butt more. I think he's lying just to make me feel better. I'm scared that ...

A.   28 March 2008: I hate to say this but if your boyfriend can't accept you and your body for what it is...chances are he's not worth it, trust me. And I wouldn't recommend getting implants, bad idea. Hope everything works out! ... (read in full...)

Can I be "sex friends" with my relative (cousin) or should I just stick to phantasising?

Q.   I want to have sex with my cousin. I not talking getting married, having kids and all that, just sex. I can't stop thinking about her and I was wondering if this was even possible. If it is possible and does happen I'm really only worried about ...

A.   18 March 2008: No, just stick to fantasy...Incest in any way, shape or form in the US is illegal so I wouldn't recommend it... (read in full...)

How is French kissing?

Q.   hi i'm 14 i really like this girl but i'm a bit shy round her, i need some advice on how to french kiss a girl as i have never done it before....? thanks ...

A.   18 March 2008: You shouldn't rush so quickly into things, have you two even kissed yet?... (read in full...)

Does our ages and age difference count?

Q.   hello everyone, i really need help. i'm 15 and there's a friend who lives on my street, i have knew him since i was about 6. (he is 13 now by the way so i'm 2 years older). we both fancy eachother. do you think it would be right for us to have sex ...

A.   13 March 2008: Sorry but you're both way too young to even be THINKING about having sex...wait about 5 more years...think what would you do if you got pregnant?... (read in full...)

I love her, but she thinks I'd damage her image!

Q.   Hi guys,i'm in a big big problem... I love a girl and she's my friend... but when i told her about my feelings she said keh though i really really like you but not this, but as a friend...but i'm not even one of her normal friends...i'm not allowed ...

A.   3 March 2008: Sorry to say this but if she can't appreciate you for who you are, then she isn't worth your time. Don't bother with her anymore, you deserve much better!... (read in full...)

Do guys really want platonic (best) friendships with women or have secret expectations?

Q.   Do guys really want platonic (best) friendships with women? I always thought it was great, that two people could be best friends no matter what gender/orientation, but recently on these relationship sites it seems straight guys who are best bud...

A.   26 February 2008: That assumption you have is not true in my case, I have lots of female friends who I am good friends with but I never intend to "get it on" with any of them, ever.... (read in full...)

Looks V Personality, which do girls prefer??

Q.   What do girls mostly like personality of the lad or the looks ?...

A.   8 February 2008: Even though I'm a guy I hang out with a lot of girls and I can say that most girls are attracted to a guy's personality more than his looks. I don't think I look that good but I have a nice personality and people like me for that. Hope this helps!... (read in full...)

Met a wonderful girl! 3 months in, we are both virgins. Where do I go from here?

Q.   Hello! Last September I met a girl and we have been going out for 3 months now, she is everything I have ever wanted. We have been on a few dates and have hugged/kissed and that's about it. I am 21 and she is too, I would just like to know where I ...

A.   28 January 2008: Thank you very much MissKin!! ... (read in full...)

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