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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I am really worried because my boyfriend keeps hinting that we should hav sex but although i am a little scared i really want too, what can i do to help myself get more ammune to the idea??? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (24 May 2008):
You seem too young, and the fact that you are questioning the opportunity, means that you are too young.
If you were ready, you wouldn't be asking, and you would have already had sex.
Please don't be pressured, there is more peer pressure about sex than anything else. Indeed don't feel pressured by your boyfriend, it's not worth it.
I am not sure how long you have been dating, but do wait and wait.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008): If you are not ready it's best to wait. I got pushed into it and I wasn't ready and it was very painful for me. He didn't hang around long after that either. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008): Think about the pros and cons about it!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2008): You should definately wait. You already know that. If your boyfriend is preesuring you then maybe you should look for someone who wont.
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reader, sxc baby gurl +, writes (23 May 2008):
if you are having any feelings that you remotly dont want to then you should definately wait
its not worth risking something
and if you have any kind of feelings against it then it meens your not 100% wanting to so should wait
xxx
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reader, AkasunaNoSasori +, writes (23 May 2008):
You shouldn't be forced to do something you don't feel comfortable doing. You're still young and sex isn't something you should be doing at that age anyway, don't let him pressure you into thinking you HAVE to have sex
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reader, chihuahua1274 +, writes (23 May 2008):
girl if you are younger than 15 than u shudnt but if u want to maybe watch porn or ask a close friend who has done it or do it with a pillow try seeing how u like it remember use a condom ohh or try fingering yourself maybe disgusting but imagine your bf doing it instead of you!
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