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writes:I want to have sex with my cousin. I not talking getting married, having kids and all that, just sex. I can't stop thinking about her and I was wondering if this was even possible. If it is possible and does happen I'm really only worried about family finding out. Is there a way that cousin's can be "sex friends" or should I just stick to masturbating and fantasies about her?
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reader, Jargenhunter +, writes (5 April 2008):
Talk to her about relationships and see where she is standing right now... that leads to flirting and yea, just like a normal girl.
My personal opinion on this though is you should stand back on this. Being "sex friends" with her will turn out badly when you have to see each other at family reunions in 20 years.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008): Cousin (consanguineous) marriage is legal in over half (26) US states. Incest marriage (with brother, sister, mother, father, son, daughter, grandfather/mother, uncles, aunts, nephews, nieces, etc.) is illegal, with variation in laws from state-to-state.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't care if it's legal because I'm not wanting to marry her. I realize that I pretty much answered my own question but I still want to know if there's a chance. Now to answer this last question she is a 1st cousin.
Now for the next obvious question. What's the best way to tell if she is interested without it getting weird if she doesn't think the same way?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008): oh its possible... very possible IF and its a big IF.. she likes you back.
incest to me is brother or sister ( i couldn't even think of that because its sick! ). anything out of that i consider ok.
which cousin is she? 1st 2nd 3rd 4th?
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reader, Jargenhunter +, writes (18 March 2008):
Like you have been told, google cousin relationships and see what the legal repercussions will be. Also though, I beg of you not to make a move towards your cousin unless she has an interest as well. If you come right out and tell her now and she doesn't feel the same, you could be labeled "the weird one" in the family. Tread lightly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008): Some states allow it, others don't. We've been here before. Google 'Cousin marriage in the US' for more info, also cousincouples.com
The only country in the western world that has restrictions is the US. Everywhere else, it's legal and is not incest in any way shape or form.
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reader, AkasunaNoSasori +, writes (18 March 2008):
 No, just stick to fantasy...Incest in any way, shape or form in the US is illegal so I wouldn't recommend it
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