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She wants to "find herself"

Q.   Ok me and my ex broke up bout a week ago, she says that she needs space to find herself b4 she can put her all into me again she promises that she not looking for anyone else or is gonna get involved with anyone else she says that she doesn't wanna ...

A.   23 January 2011: she basically wants time in which she can sort her head out , space to solve her own problems and see how it feels out a relationship aswell as in. Maybe issues within the relationship got on top of her and she doesnt want to rush her feelings by ... (read in full...)

Should I feel guilty? What do you think?

Q.   I seem to worry about everything that would make my boyfriend angry, you could say im walking on egg shells. Tonight we finished , i made the decision, im not sure whether it was the right thing but soo after id text my ex just to literally see how ...

A.   19 January 2011: but i actually text my ex which was a previous ex before i met my boyfriend. Im back with my boyfriend now and i text my old ex daniel. I dont know why i did it when me and my boyfriend split up im just so confused and i know my boyfriend wouldnt be ... (read in full...)

Should I give up on this marriage? He doesn't even live here anymore.

Q.   Do i start afresh or try and make it work? My partner and i had been together for over 6 yrs we have had 2 children, we split in july after i had discovered he was getting overly friendly with his ex/ he moved out and went home 2 his mum, we didnt...

A.   12 January 2011: I know this is a hard situation with you having the kids alot, it can be very tiring. But this whole situation with his ex, has he actually done anything wrong ? Yeah its his ex but dont give him such a hard time they might just get along well ! ... (read in full...)

Help me cope with the end of my marriage

Q.   How can I acept that my husband doesn't want me anymore? How can I acept that he left me because he is tired of me, because he sais I am other person after the marriage. because he sais I am not more of kind of women that he likes? My marriage is...

A.   12 January 2011: right , I know this is crap for you at the moment , but hes told you , your not his type ! You have memories but you deserve a whole lot more BELIEVE ME ! when are you going to wake up and smell the coffee !? This boy doesnt really have much going ... (read in full...)

My heart wants it to work, my head tells me to move on

Q.   I feel like I'm unable to move on because he's always on the back of my mind. I'm holding on to that little bit of hope that things will work between us, that's what my heart wants. But my head is telling me that it's never going to work and that I ...

A.   12 January 2011: well it is tough because like you said you havnt seen this boy much , but yet you seem to have intense feelings for him ! this sounds as though hes constantly on your mind and your desperate for things to work out. Some could say hes stringing you ... (read in full...)

Was she trying to stir things up because she fancies me?

Q.   whilst my boyfriend was away I had a little bit of a feeling that something was going on so i decided to login to his hotmail to change his facebook password and investigate. I found a message saying " fancy going for a drive and we can have a bum ...

A.   28 December 2010: this was meant to say was she stiring things up because she fancied him ? the site chose the question haha sorry if that confused you x... (read in full...)

What are signs that a guy wants to commit?

Q.   Does my guy friend know that I want more than a friendship now? What are signs he will commit to me being his girlfriend...

A.   26 December 2010: every boy varies really, there are no major signs in which you can tell they want to become your boyfriend. But dont be scared to ask where his feelings are atm, maybe ask him whether he sees himself going out with you in the near future. He may ask ... (read in full...)

My wife can't have children so she told me to marry her sister!

Q.   1 am 30 years man . I am married with good wife of 28..we have no child ... we consulted a doctor , there is some problem in my wife , so there is no chance of child .. my wife has one sister of age 23 ,my wife ask me marry her , whether i can ma...

A.   24 December 2010: your wife is obviously caring about you in every way possible. She feels like she is going to cause you unhappiness in life. Could you not consider adoption or ivf with another egg. Could her sister carry the baby handing it over to you. That way ... (read in full...)

Pain for 2 days after sex, doctor says nothing's wrong -- anyone experience this?

Q.   heya, i'm with my bf 14 months over the last 4 months wen we have sex occasionally i do get very sore pains just at the end of my stomach, i mean these pains to be so painfull, i dont get them till like the day after we have it and the pain last abo...

A.   24 December 2010: I often get this with polysystic ovaries . I got diagnosed with it a few month ago. If i have rough sex it sets me off, but the pain is unbareable i cant even stand up. ... (read in full...)

I have doubts about my partner

Q.   I have doubts about my partner. When i met her she told me that she had booked a holiday to mexico with friends for xmas. As xmas came around i found that she is sharing a room with a male friend. Last night as we were making love for the last time ...

A.   24 December 2010: I would deffo confront her about this. It would deffo make me a little bit worried whilst she was away. My boyfriend is away at vegas at the moment im already feeling a little worried about him and nothing as happened. It does seem a little o... (read in full...)

Why do I still feel love for him?!

Q.   Hi I guess this is a question asked so many times on here but it is still a big thing to me so I appreciate everyone taking the time to read and advice. I will start with the main problem and then tell the details of the story. I still se...

A.   24 December 2010: when you think about it youve had a thing for a boy at work, he may not have matched upto your ex as much as you wanted him to. I went out with a boy for 2 years ive had 1, 1 year relationship with anyother boy and im with a boy now who ive been... (read in full...)

No girl has shown interest in me since the break up

Q.   So broke up with my girl friend about a month ago and no other girl has shown any interest in me at all and I'm starting to think that no other girls in my area have any interest in me and it's really bummin me out. What do? ...

A.   24 December 2010: sometimes when you break-up with someone its hard to find someone that can match up to them. Maybe girls are actually liking you but your that much involved in finding someone your not noticing. you might need to be a little more upfront and ask the ... (read in full...)

She said she missed going out with me but next day she said she meant she missed having a boyfriend?

Q.   well i stooped texting my ex's and i did not text her for like 5 days then she sends me a text inviting me to her birthday and and she told me if i was going or not i just said i did not know and she was trying to convince to go she told me that all ...

A.   24 December 2010: if im being truthfully honest this girl seems really immature. she asks you to go to the movies, leads you along and tells you she misses going out with you then says that she was hyper that day and she just meant she misses having a boyfriend. ... (read in full...)

I'm confused about this guy I'm dating, is he just not that into me?

Q.   Ok here goes, im 35 yr old woman who has been on 7 dates with a 44 yr old man, we met thru a course, and hit it off. he added me on fb and it went on from there. Due to his job he works long hours so i have only been seeing him once a week. I...

A.   24 December 2010: By the sounds of it , he obviously is an independant person. Hes quite old and mature so he can look after himself. Maybe hes taking this relationship very slow and hes being reserved because of past bad experiences. Get what im saying ? I dont ... (read in full...)

Is it possible to love someone but not be IN love with them?

Q.   Is it possible to love someone but not be IN love with them? As in, like I care for you enough to the point where I love you but I'm not in love with you. I don't know if that made any sense. sorry! haha...

A.   24 December 2010: yes that is possible. Being in love with someone is having to be around them constantly there in your heart and no matter whats going on at the time there always in the back of your mind ! just loving someone is loving them as a person but you havnt ... (read in full...)

She's controlling, bitchy, bad in bed, and I love her to pieces. Should I stay or should I go?

Q.   this will likely be pretty lenghthy so bear with me...figure i'll get it all out. there will be a multitude of questions throughout so feel free to answer one or all of them. i have been involved with my "situation" for the past 6 years. started o...

A.   24 December 2010: right, its plain to see that this relationship is lacking loads of things. For a start yous need to work out a timetable in which you have sex, agree on the nights and how many times a night you have sex that way you CANT be in the wrong. (thats if ... (read in full...)

On a break from my cheating boyfriend -- how best to reach out to him?

Q.   so I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and I recently found out he cheated on me with a friend of his that I recently met...she has a boyfriend and everything and her and my boyfriend were having a little fling on the low but I caught them ...

A.   23 December 2010: hi, what your boyfriend did to you can affect your confidence ... everything ! people do make mistakes but you need to make sure NOTHING happens like that again. I would suggest telling him you need space tell him your hurt, exactly how you feel... (read in full...)

Would society think our relationship is wrong?

Q.   i know that this may sound wrong okay but here goes. i am 16 he is 27 we are in love okay and i no that may sound naive but we have been in a strong relationship for about 8 months i am almost 17. well we have a lot of respect for each other a...

A.   23 December 2010: right , my views on the situation arnt actually that bad afterall love is love you cant reverse it, you cant just finish it but there are a few things you want to consider. he is alot older than you, when you fall in love with someone the othe... (read in full...)

She cant trust me after I was having conversations with my ex behind her back, what should I do now?

Q.   Hi Cupid Well I'm having the problem of my love life at the moment. I was with my ex-girlfriend for 1 year 4 months. For the last 4 months we have been separated by distance. We have opted for a long distance relationship because we really believ...

A.   23 December 2010: well, i had a similar situation but mine was alot worse. I actually went up to meet one of my exs and he doesnt actually believe that nothing happened .... when nothing actually happened. this situation does appear to be that difficult although it ... (read in full...)

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