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... Send *8ta09 a private message | | | *8ta09's profile:hi! my names dallas and, yes, im 17 almost 18 but believe it or not ive been through alot already..i have this knack for figuring people out and and telling people about themselves things that they never thougt about before..i plan to be a psychologist in my later years because i love helping people..i live in the rural state of illinois filled with nothing but cornfields lol im currently still attending that dreaded thing most teens call highschool..but i kinda like it to be honest..no im not a brainiac or obsessed with studying..i do in fact have a life and a tendency to make friends everywhere i go..im a pretty down to earth kinda girl and i like to have a good time..i went through my party stage quite early in life so i dont do much of that anymore, im looking to settle down and locate that man i would like to spend the rest of my life with..basically.im easy to talk to very accepting and extremely nonjudgemental so feel free to ask me for advice or just vent about something that has royally ticked you off..im all ears |
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Does the truth come out when you're drunk?
Q. does the truth come out when ur drunk? I always feel like when i have had a few drinks i always say exactly how i feel, its like u have the confidence to say it. A guy that i know well always tells me her really likes me when he is deunk. he alway...
A. 24 January 2010: when my bf is drunk he says he wants to have a baby with me. then he sobers up and flat out tells me he never wants children. men are confusing and never really know what they want. thats why god made women to push men in the right direction. ... (read in full...)
Will he take my letter the wrong way?
Q. if i give this letter to him is he going to take it the wrong way? i dont want to leave him..its supposed to be more of a wake up call or a warning.. "i think we both know how much i love you and that my intentions in where this relationship is ...
A. 3 January 2010: well i know ive kind of turned into a bitch cuz that seems to be the only way to make him listen hes 26 and yes, he is very immature for his age..when we first got together everything seemed perfect.. it only lasted about 3 months..and ive already ... (read in full...)
How can I not be bitchy when my boyfriend is madly in love with his ex?
Q. so my boyfriend and i are packing to move out of his old house..sounds good so far right? and we are moving to florida..sounds even better huh? well while in the process of packing today i watched him pack pictures of his exgirlfriend of 5 years who ...
A. 22 December 2009: there was one answer on here that was helpful..thanks man:) i dont plan on leaving him.thank you.and he does love me and wants to be with me..im not going to leave him over a box of pictures..thanks though... (read in full...)
Women who need to take control
Q. Hello all RAINORFIRE here, OK Thanks to the Blizzard of "09" i had time to write this. The topic is Women who need to take control. There are many post on here where Females are telling the tail of the jerk boyfriend or husband whose ...
A. 21 December 2009: what i want to know is how to take control in a relationship..he def "wears the pants" and thats fine..i know he wants to be with me and loves me but i kinda let him walk on me..and i just want things to be a little more equal.you know what i mean?... (read in full...)
I feel like my uterus is a ticking time bomb!
Q. this guy i've recently been involved with and i have quite a connection.. he had a daughter when he was 21 and she only lived a week - she was extremely preemie bc his stupid fiance was too selfish to get off the cocaine - and when i was 16 i had 2 ...
A. 18 September 2009: lol thanks guys.. and i didnt know that my doc could do anything about it.. when my gyno told me that after i was sent in for bloodwork i was so freaked out i didnt know what to say or what to do so i didnt ask questions.. i left in tears lol but ... (read in full...)
Is it true that anal sex is illegal?
Q. Is it aganst the law 4 a man 2 screw a woman in the butt? ...
A. 15 September 2009: In Illinois it is illegal to give oral sex..which is also a very old law that no one cares to ratify. haha but what goes on in your home is your business..I dont see police officers kicking down your door just because you performed anal sex lol... (read in full...)
I don't want children so why do I feel this way?
Q. Hey Guys Ok so this is going to sound a lil freaky of me but i don't understand why I feel this way. I've been going out with this guy for 3 months and have been sleeping together for 2 of those, it's a serious relationship. We had a long tal...
A. 14 September 2009: omg i know exactly what you are going through.. only he had a daughter when he was 21 and she only lived a week - she was extremely preemie bc his stupid fiance was too selfish to get off the cocaine - and when i was 16 i had 2 miscarriages.. i ... (read in full...)
How do I get over him but keep him as my best friend?
Q. Hello, aunties! I've had feelings for a guy for what's now approaching 3 years. 34 months. We dated for nearly 5 months. I genuinely believe I've loved him for 9 months. (Though I do understand that my perspective is very limited, as I am only in ...
A. 14 September 2009: honestly sweetie.. my ex of two years, i've been best friends with him since i was 13 years old, after we dated on and off through high school things between us were never the same.. then after we both graduated both were hurt and heartbroken a few ... (read in full...)
I'm usually shy, how do I introduce my "bad girl" attitude to him without freaking him out?
Q. Okay.. So I finally broke up with the jerk and I'm with this new guy.. Have been for about 3 months now.. Our sex is fantastic but I don't feel like I'm doing enough.. We've done a lot of things that I have never done before.. Like choking and being ...
A. 14 September 2009: well what i meant by two years is i was with my ex for two years.. he kinda treated me bad and i wasnt happy so no way was i gonna have sex with him. lol hed beg for it and id eventually give in or if we had a good day with minimal fighting and ... (read in full...)
He thinks I'm playing games -- how do I get more comfortable?
Q. Hey guys. i have a problem. this guy im seeing, hes 31 and im 18. we've been talking for over a year now and the sex is great, i mean the best i ever had ! when were talkin or textin each other, i never have a problem telling him wat i want him to ...
A. 10 September 2009: i cant give you much advice here because im in the SAME situation almost to a tee.. i just turned 18 im with this guy who is 26 and he's a lot more comfortable doing crazy things ive never done before lol but i make it obvoius that i am nervous and ... (read in full...)
I have no idea how the emancipation process works!
Q. I am 17 and I turn 18 In 7 months. I can't take the stress anymore. My mom is power hungry and my father will tell you that..I already financially support myself and I have since I was 15 years old. I know I can provide for myself but at 17 I have ...
A. 3 August 2009: If they do sign will i have to go through the whole court process?... (read in full...)
I have sex with girls but think I like guys more
Q. I am a young man. I like girls i yave sex with them and its good but i think i'm interested in boys more. i look up boys (their hips,penis) much more than girls. I live in a very conservative country so don't know what to do? There is a question in ...
A. 18 June 2009: That doesnt mean anything.. Girls will look other girls up and down to compare them to us.. and im not bi i dont want woman parts in my mouth.. but there are girls who i think are pretty sexy.. im not against gay's bi's or tansexuals at all but i ... (read in full...)
Military relationships, should I dump my boyfriend?
Q. This is another problem ive got up my sleeve.. Are you guys ready? haha So this boy i've been with for two year as i mentioned in my last post that is kind of a loser... I realized today means nothing at all to mean.. But apparently enough for me to ...
A. 18 June 2009: OK, Here's The Deal.. I'm Not In It Because I Think It's "Hot" Or "Sexy". No In Fact It's Not At All.. It's an honorable thing he is doing. He risking his life for America and her people. Me Being oh so in love with him has NOTHING to do with the ... (read in full...)
What can I do to get my lazy boyfriend motivated?
Q. i dont know what to do with my boyfriend. he has no direction in his life, and he just wants to do things "his way". i tried telling him to go to collage with me to make our future easier, but he says hes not ment for collage.i even asked him if he ...
A. 14 June 2009: Hate to tell you this. But if he's lazy now.. He's always going to be that way [damn i need to start taking my own advice] My pain in the a** bf has been that way since high school but for some reason i decided i wanted to be with him and now im ... (read in full...)
Please tell me if she is manipulative or do I expect too much?
Q. Please, forgive me for the lengthy email, but I need to get the facts straight here. I have dated this woman for 1 1/2 years. She is 29 now. A few months ago I caught her lying to me. She told me - she actually set up her lie for a week!!! - that ...
A. 10 June 2009: you are a little needy and i say this from her point of view.. im kinda in the same relationship.. she found a great guy that she can have fun with [his money] and if you gave her the boot when she ran out of money shed come crawling back.. trust ... (read in full...)
With her for 2 years, now she's changing, avoids me, what can I do about this?
Q. I have been in a relationship for 2 years, I am dreadfully attached. I have come to realize she doesnt want to see me all that much, she is very big on being together on birthdays.. but hers was today and she didnt want me to see her.. she keeps ...
A. 10 June 2009: All right kiddo.. I'm gonna give you some advice.. I'm in this exact situation but vise versa.. if you really care about this girl, let her go. Tell her your lives are going seperate ways and you want different things in life. [even if your lying] ... (read in full...)
He's clingy and insecure! Need dating HELP!
Q. OK.. So there is this guy i've been dating for two years this September.. I love him to peices and i think he may love me a little [too much] I'm seventeen and he is twenty so i can see where some of this comes from.. he proposed to me in february ...
A. 10 June 2009: thanks so much guys.. you know ive heard this time and time again from friends but for some reason its much easier to accept when its from complete strangers =] you guys are great... (read in full...)
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