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male
age
36-40,
RAINORFIRE
writes:Hello all RAINORFIRE here,OK Thanks to the Blizzard of "09" i had time to write this.The topic isWomen who need to take control.There are many post on here where Females are telling the tail of the jerk boyfriend or husband whose abusive elusive and neglectful the guy that's stringing them along and cheating and doing all types of nonsense.Many times women seem to feel any man is better then no man, or they have been beaten down and hurt so bad there's no fight left in them they feel worthless at times, so they just put up with it."But i love him" can i start a sentence with a quote, im not sure, any way that phrase is the worst phrase in any language, short form "off with his head" when you say that about some body that treats you like crap it means you have lost emotional control.Women are generally more emotional thats why boys play with toy cars and girls play with dolls boys play with dolls to but usually if they do there not gonna be having a tea party they will figure out some way to send malibu barbie off to war.Women you need to learn to take emotional control you need to learn to sense when your emotions are not in tune with any form of logical thinking.I find some female especially young ones find it cute to be with the bad boy to have all this drama in there relation ship this boy can do just about any thing to these girls and the girl may honestly believe she loves him.Its ok to love some one we cant help who we love who we go gaga over but everything you love is not good for you id love to eat every piece of chocolate in a Godiva store but it would probably kill me.Women there comes a time when you have to say hey i love this guy fine but hes bad for me he hurts me im unhappy with him. women take control of your emotions there there because as sanctuaries of life you women need to be more in tune with things, but dont let them take over to the point where you dont think for your self anymore.Im not a woman but imagine love for women is very deep and powerful it gets them through things for years that men wouldn't put up with for a day. im talking about alot of the abuse that goes on emotional and physical the neglect the list goes on. To the women that are out there with these guys the so called Bf that is not living up to his end of the deal and your with him because of some feeling of obligation or you love him think about this.a man should be prepared for the women he chooses he should have maturity strength and wisdom before he attaches himself to another,women are a powerful force on a man lets say man s the Earth and women are the Moon now we may not give the Moon mutch credit but i wonder what would happen if it was gone.The Earth is prepared for the moon if it wasn't the Moon would fall away or crash to the surface you cannot attach to these men that are not ready. I understand people change they can be one thing when you first meet and something else later but the later is usually the real person they where just hiding it for awhile, and know matter how much you love this person you have to realize when its time to let them goyou may think but ive wasted so much time invested so much how can i walk away well if you have a cake and eat it did you waste time baking it now that the cake is gone.You had good times remember them as you walk out the door. Take control of your emotions and your life when love and logic become so far out of balance the heart cannot prosper. Reply to this Article
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reader, anastatia +, writes (22 December 2009):
you know, maybe if women werent expected to be providers, mothers, lovers, babysitters, housekeepers, and a taxi service...they wouldn't feel a need to control everything...maybe it is the expectations placed on women that make them the way that they are, also they never get credit for all that they, they are the subserviant gender and do mostly everything...change your expecations and maybe they can change too...
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reader, 78ta09 +, writes (21 December 2009):
 what i want to know is how to take control in a relationship..he def "wears the pants" and thats fine..i know he wants to be with me and loves me but i kinda let him walk on me..and i just want things to be a little more equal.you know what i mean?
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