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22 September 2012: Quite often when I hear that people are getting divorced or the relationship is falling apart for any number of reasons I ask myself how that happens. It comes down to 1 word the relationship has become"NEGATIVE". The two involved partners sto...
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Possiblities? Is he worth pursuing? Is it possible that he may like me as well as I like him?
Q. The preliminary details: I am an open gay man and I have no problem with my social life, but my curiosity in meeting interesting people all around the world led me to a social networking site that connects strangers from every part of the world. ...
A. 22 September 2012: Find someone closer to home. Please use a condom!... (read in full...)
My threesomes have come back to haunt me
Q. I am really in a bind and I don't know what to do. A little over a year ago I met my now fiancé. When we met we clicked instantly and became an item right away. He is charming, intelligent, attractive, educated and an all around great guy. About...
A. 22 September 2012: Be honest. Tell him past is past and that you have moved on. Is he envious because he wants a threesome? If so are you going to be used in that way again? If so try it. If not try for a new love with him, either way good luck.... (read in full...)
What can I do so that he wont know I am not a virgin?
Q. Hi, m 21yr old indian girl..had been in a relationship wid a guy approx for 1yr,bt he ditched nd left me,as i trusted on him...i was in physical relationship wid him...but before 1 nd a half year... Nd now m going to marry wid anothr guy......
A. 22 September 2012: TELL THE TRUTH. Tell him you love him and it was a 1 time thing.... (read in full...)
How to express myself clearly? Do others have this issue?
Q. Most of the time, my thoughts flow at a very fast pace and then, when i want to express myself, i can't. At least not with the same exactitude as it were in my mind. And what happens when i realize that i am not expressing myself like i wanted? I ...
A. 22 September 2012: Of course the written word is far more powerful that our own flawed and or scattered thought processes. We have Dictionary.Com and Thesaurus to pull words from. We can cut and paste and move stuff around. Expect that it is the same for all ... (read in full...)
If I behave like them I might be accepted. I don't want to behave like that. What to do to be accepted?
Q. Hi to all, I don't have many friends at college. I think I am not well-appreciated also and I couldn't tell why. So many times, I just condemn myself when someone is not nice to me and I feel maybe it's my fault. Like for example, my classmat...
A. 22 September 2012: You need to focus on school period. Stop trying to work on fitting in. Be yourself period. Have self confidence. If you lack that go to the school counselor to figure out why you do not have confidence in your self. Find that out. Love yourself. Act ... (read in full...)
How can I figure out if he would be interested in getting into a relationship with me?
Q. dear cupid, soo, there's this guy (he's 25, and i'm 20) that i've hung out with a few times and have talked to nearly every single day since i met him a little over a month ago (only one day has gone by without us at least saying hii and asking w...
A. 22 September 2012: Just keep things going along the way they are going. Do not over analyze the friendship or new relationship. LET IT GROW. It will do so all on it's own. If he is interested in you he and you will find a way for things to work out. Obviously if he is ... (read in full...)
Do you think she may be interested?
Q. Hi guys, this may be a bit long, I just hope is not too long Ok, I'm in uni, and there is this girl in my class that I'm interested in, so like a week ago I decided that I would suck up my fears and approach her and I did, for my surprise we actu...
A. 22 September 2012: Sounds like things are going fine. Stay confident and enjoy your time together. If you know of a fun thing that you are going to do mention it to her then ask, is that something that you too might enjoy doing? If she says yes then ask her for the ... (read in full...)
My B/f and I have grown distant after he got a job and is busy working.
Q. Me and my boyfriend for the most part are very close but lately we have grown more distant , he got a job and spends soo many hours working. and when he's not working he doesn't seem to wanna call or text me and at school he kinda ignores me But ...
A. 22 September 2012: Life goes on, your boyfriend is becoming quite the man. He has a paycheck be happy for him. Enjoy any time that you can be with him be grateful for that time. Perhaps you can get a job and understand more what he is going through. He needs a lot of ... (read in full...)
I'm going away to college, how can I ease the tension with my boyfriend?
Q. i am in my early 20s and so is my boyfriend, we have been together for about 2 years and i really love him, went from someone who was always single and fell hard for him early on and the feeling was and still is mutual. the plan was even from over ...
A. 22 September 2012: You should move out on your own. The boyfriend can always visit anytime you can get together. Keep the relationship light and fun. You are both young with your whole life ahead of you stop stressing and start studying!!!... (read in full...)
I think my best friend's boyfriend is coming on to me
Q. Hey everyone is this wierd I feel like my best friends boyfriend is interested in me..I don't know if I'm seeing things but the way he behaves towards me..I don't know if I should talk to him and tell him its inapproriate but I'm not sure..you tell ...
A. 22 September 2012: You need to figure out if he is making comments about you or simply at you to unnerve you. Stop his behavior when he does this and ask him directly, "what exactly are you driving at?" perhaps I'm confused but it sure sounds like you are. Put the ... (read in full...)
How do I communicate to him the fact that I don't feel as important to him anymore in a nice way?
Q. how do i tell my boyfriend in a nice way or needy that i dont feel as important to him anymore... im trying to act like its okay that we hardly even communicate anymore but im hurting because i want a little more attention from him.. i just want to ...
A. 22 September 2012: Be positive. Tell your boyfriend that you think that the quality of the relationship is going down a bit since you two met and that you need to feel special with him and that you also want to make him feel special as well. Be honest with each other. ... (read in full...)
How do I know if he likes me or not?
Q. Hi. I'm 17 and I have been talking to an 18 year old guy. I got talking to him through a friend who originally was trying to set us up, but at the time I didn't want a relationship. As we've been texting I've started to like him, but I dont think he ...
A. 22 September 2012: He is older so I suggest keeping him at arms length until you ask him what he thinks. Text first and see if you even like each other as friends then take it from there. If he is vague, (not specific) in his answers forget about him it means he is ... (read in full...)
Who can I show my boyfriend in a special way that I'm ready to have sex?
Q. I have a very important query for you all. I'm 17, and have been with my boyfriend for almost four years. I have a feeling I will be with him for a great deal more. He was 18 yesterday, and I am 18 on Wednesday next week. When we first got together...
A. 22 September 2012: As a health educator I urge you to use a condom. These only reduce the risk of an STD not prevent them. You were both right to wait until the age of 18. Sounds like there is a great deal of respect between you so if you are going to take the risk ... (read in full...)
Why can't I enjoy oral sex?
Q. This is an embarrassing question but I'd like to know why I cannot orgasm from stimulation of the clitoris, either by myself or from oral sex. I can sometimes orgasm from vaginal intercourse, or during masturbation when I clench my pelvic floor ...
A. 22 September 2012: Sexual intimacy has a lot to do with both physical and mental health. Listen to youself and if you are honest you may realize that you are just not that pleasured by it. Obviously if a vaginal orgasm works for you enjoy that. In short stop focusing ... (read in full...)
Despite his flaws I can't get my ex out of my head
Q. So I have a new boyfriend and he is the most amazing guy I have everrrr been with personality-wise and I really LOVE who he is, because he is caring and he supports me (even as far as going to auditions just to help me have the guts to follow my ...
A. 22 September 2012: Your ex-boyfriend is an amazing manipulator. You are young and he is experienced sexually, difference number 1. You and your current boyfriend can work into deeper intimacy as you get to know each other more. Your ex-boyfriend cheated the welfare ... (read in full...)
I'm tired of the demands of my husband's family.
Q. Dear cupids. I am very disturbed by my husband's family. They are really causing problems in my marriage. It seems they want to heap all financial responsibilities on my husband. We support my MIL and FIL monthly and also pay university fees for my ...
A. 22 September 2012: You are married now. Marriage is a partnership similar to a business. Sit your husband down before it is too late. You need to write down all concerns especially paying a tuition outside your own family. Will his family pay your child's tuition, I ... (read in full...)
Do we have a chance? Or could it be pride that this girl doesn't want someone younger than her, like me?
Q. I have a crush on my best friend who is my former coworker. At work we teased one another all the time while stay remaining professional and worked very well together. Our personalities are very unique compared to most people and we happen to be ...
A. 22 September 2012: Ask yourself this question, are you enjoying each others company as much as possible right now? If the answer to that question is yes then forget about anything else for now. Just go forward spending as much mutually agreed upon time together and ... (read in full...)
I need to get over him. I need any ideas you can suggest to help me get over him completely
Q. Hi I need Advice here is the case: before 4 years my BF and I were together for about a year then I got pregnant. That time he didn't have job I have a job, he told me we gonna be together and he will do his best to get a job, a give birth and af...
A. 22 September 2012: You need to move on. You said you are pregnant that should be enough for you, lucky woman! You can immerse yourself in your work, your family for support, you have faith so attend church and speak to your pastor or priest, parenting classes (great ... (read in full...)
Relationship Goal Setting
Q. Relationship Goal Setting By Frank Kermit, Relationships Setting goals in most areas of your life can be challenging. When it comes to relationships, there are even more challenges. Whereas in other areas of your life such as education, emplo...
A. 22 September 2012: I agree with much of your article however if the person in the relationship is divorced that bring in other factors such as children. Quite often one partners money is left for the children often causing alterations to future potential plans or ... (read in full...)
How do I get my boyfriend to improve his hygiene?
Q. How do I get my boyfriend to improve his hygiene? We live together so I know he only showers about once a week. The thing that I really hate is that he often goes for days without brushing his teeth. I've mentioned it to him before but it just ...
A. 22 September 2012: In regard to the boyfriend that has poor hygiene in general by only taking 1 shower per week and not flossing you can try printing out articles from the internet for him to read. Keep it short and just leave the articles around. Tis way the ... (read in full...)
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