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True love at any age

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13 August 2007: Hello I'm 15 and I have known a man for a bout 2 years now and we are in love. We have talked about things and decided that we do need to wait until im of age to have sex or anything. When we were created God made us souls. Our soul's don't age. You ...

I'm 15 and have fallen for a 17 year old girl, could it ever happen?

Q.   i'm fifteen and i've fallen for a 17 year old girl. shes the only one definatley! i see her a couple of times a week if i'm lucky. shes really nice to me and hugs me quite a bit. we can talk for ages, shes just amazing! i'm in year 11 and shes in ...

A.   25 August 2007: I think you're really cute. It's two years. that is so totally not a problem I'm in love with a 34 year old man and I'm 15..now that's a problem Don't worry and just lay back and everything will sort itself out... (read in full...)

I wake up with bruises, why is this happening?

Q.   welll, my problem is more medicalll. i wake up and i have bruises of my hips. my mom jokingly said that i do that to myself cuz i hate my big waist. im curvy, :] but then she said not to worry. but i think she might be right? help!...

A.   25 August 2007: I agree with everyone go to the doctor... (read in full...)

Should i contact him?

Q.   Hi, Happened to know this guy 2 years ago, never meet before, just contact via text, but lost in touch very long, recently he contacted me again and asked me out for dinner. He seems nice and friendly, a humourous guy, throughout the whole nig...

A.   25 August 2007: Hey don't worry about it i think you should text him and let him know what's on your mind. Maybe he didn't want to take you home because maybe he didn't want to have the chance to kiss you so soon(or anything else for that matter) because if you've ... (read in full...)

How weird is this?

Q.   Well I have a question about my bf. Well we had been dating for about a month or so and we fell for each other and soon after were having sex. The usual. Whatever. Anyways, one time I was at his house and I was sitting across from him on his couch ...

A.   25 August 2007: Hey babe don't worry about it. You're probably beautiful and guys like the visual satisfaction of a woman. The whole "secretive" thing I'm not sure that's what he was trying to get at exactly but even if he was do you remember back when you were a ... (read in full...)

What matters boys?, what are you after in women?

Q.   Hey this question is for the guys out there. As you can probably tell by my screen name i am 15 but this question is does size really matter? Im a very petite girl and so naturally my breasts aren't that big im a 34A and my friends are all at least ...

A.   25 August 2007: thanks so much everyone so far for your feedback i feel a lot better knowing a lot of you don't really think of it as a big issue. ... (read in full...)

What is lubricant?

Q.   When my boyfriend and I have sex, sometimes it's hard for his penis to get in my vagina. Don't worry, we use condoms. I've asked people I know for some advice, and some suggest lubricant. But what excactly is lubricant? And how can it help? Thanx...

A.   24 August 2007: condoms usually have lubricant on them already but ya you can go into a drug store even and look where the "girl stuff" is and look for lubricant it should work well... (read in full...)

Should i tell my cousin how i feel about him?

Q.   hi (: ok well i think this is a bit uncommon and weird, but i have a crush on my cousin. the problem is he's 20 years old, but he's all i think about and i broke up with my boyfriend because of him. i am planning on telling how i feel about him, bec...

A.   24 August 2007: damn girl you're really stuck between a rock and a hard place.. first of all he is your cousin second of all hes 20 my advice would be to not go for it unless you think it's true love and if you think it is wait until you're 18 and sit down and talk ... (read in full...)

Why am i having these dreams?

Q.   I liked this boy for a few weeks and now I'm over him, but for three nights in a row I have been having dreams about him. Not dirty dreams, it is like real life. Last night we were walking round holding hands and I don't get it because I thought I ...

A.   24 August 2007: you're having dreams about him because you're subconsience is still thinking about him and that's why you're dreaming like that trust me it will pass when you get another bf you'll see ... (read in full...)

Can anyone tell me how to squirt?

Q.   I am 14-ish and have been wondering how to squirt...i masturbate alot.. and was just wondering...Ive put in like 2 fingers b/c that's my limit and pushed on what felt spongy-like kinda. and just held it i put more pressure and it felt like i was ...

A.   24 August 2007: im just wondering why do you want to squirt in the first place? and in order to squirt or anything at all you need to have an orgasm.. wait until you're ready then when you have sex and have an orgasm you'll learn from experience... (read in full...)

He acts young so does that make my relationship with a 26 year old ok (I'm 14)... ?

Q.   Is it ok to have a relationship with a guy whose age gap is 12yrs.older than you? I'm 14 and he's 26... I mean, he looks like a teenager and sometimes acts like one... and we can relate to some things......

A.   24 August 2007: if he really loves you he will wait... and if he's that age and acting like a teenager then obviously he has some maturity issues and when your 25 and he's still acting like a teenager are you still going to want to be with him?... (read in full...)

My 16 year old daughter is dating a 48 year old man!

Q.   This problem worries me A LOT and I really need your help, so please help! Apologies for the length... sorry! I'm a mother of two, been married to my husband for 20 years - my son's 19 and in university (living away from home), my daughter's 1...

A.   24 August 2007: let me tell you about a relationship out of many that have worked out with a big age gap. I know the owner of a very famous spa who met her husband when she was 17 and do you know hold old he was...36!! that's 19 years and they have been married for ... (read in full...)

My 16 year old daughter is dating a 48 year old man!

Q.   This problem worries me A LOT and I really need your help, so please help! Apologies for the length... sorry! I'm a mother of two, been married to my husband for 20 years - my son's 19 and in university (living away from home), my daughter's 1...

A.   24 August 2007: hello I know where you're coming from but if they realy seem as they are in love then I think you should accept the fact that the soul in both of them found eachother. some people spend their whole lives searching for their soul mate be happy your ... (read in full...)

I am 23 and want to ask out a girl who is 17, is that okay?

Q.   I'm 23 years old and I've liked this younger girl since I was 20. I found her on Myspace and she's 17 now, and I want to ask her out. I live in the US so the age of consent is 18, but I would have no problem waiting, I just want to be with her. Is ...

A.   24 August 2007: sweetie that is so totally ok it's only 6 years and if you just want to ask her out and you are totally sure you want to be with her and not just as a play mate then for sure go for it but wait a year until she's 18 to have sex then that way you ... (read in full...)

Just Wanna know is it normal to feel guilty after an orgasm??

Q.   Hey, Just Wanna know is it normal to feel guilty after an orgasm?? Everytime I orgasm I feel really guilty and wanna stop whatever I'm doing.. Eg masturbating, getting fingerd, sex.. Pleasseee I Want A Answer =[ xx...

A.   24 August 2007: My boyfriend performed oral sex on me and I had an orgasm and at first I felt kind of guilty because i was in a great amount of pleasure and he wasn't but in the long run don't feel guilty because at least your partner knows he's doing a good job if ... (read in full...)

I can't decide if I'm bisexual or just bi-curious?

Q.   I can't decide if I'm bisexual or just bi-curious. Me and my friend who I think is bi hooked up in the toilets when we were realy drunk at a party and it spread round our college and people teased us. but I totally blamed it on the fact I was drunk, ...

A.   24 August 2007: ive made out with my friend while I was drunk and i really liked it but once i was sober I realized that really wasn't how I was feeling. Sometimes wen you're under an influence with someone that you trust it's really easy to have unreal emotions ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is a virgin and I want to make her first time as enjoyable as possible

Q.   I have been with my girlfriend for close to a year now, and she's been a virgin the whole time. She wants me to be her first, and I am looking to make it as enjoyable or at least pleasant as I can. Any advice from a woman's perspective on how to go ...

A.   24 August 2007: 3 words... LUBRICANT AND FOREPLAY... (read in full...)

White stuff is coming out of my vagina....can anyone help me?

Q.   Hey got a girl problem.Ummm....for a while now I have had white stuff coming out of my vagina.I have no clue as to what it is.Is an infection or something.I do know that it can't be any type of STD because the nost I've done with a guy is makeout.I ...

A.   24 August 2007: sweetie don't worry I was 11 when that started with me and I didn't get my period until I was 13 and Im still a virgin so it's not anything that sex had to do with but yes going to your doctor or a clinic is a good idea just incase. ... (read in full...)

We don't want to have sex, we want to wait, but it always feels right, what can we do?

Q.   Hey guys. I need help.I'm in love with my boyfriend.Yeah I know you're most likly thinking"You can't know what love is you're only 13" I REALLY am and he is in love with. I already told him I don't want to have sex till I'm older and ready and we ...

A.   24 August 2007: please don't do it hun i remember my sexual urges took me over when I was 12! and i had oral sex for my first time and i was seeing the guy for 2 years and I didnt want to have sexual intercourse but I even regret havin oral because it got around ... (read in full...)

I'm beginning to think I'm not just horney, but actually I'm bi.. !

Q.   Me and my friend always have sex when we are drunk but we both officially stated that we're just horney hetrosexual girls who are having fun when drunk and nothing more... now she's got herself a boyfriend so we dont do it anymore. i'm so so jealous ...

A.   24 August 2007: I think that you should let your friend know how you feel but don't try to inforce it on her because yes she is in a relationship but if this is the way you feel I think you should just let her know incase you're in that kind of situation again ... (read in full...)

My 14 years old friend is dating a 23 year old woman

Q.   My best friend is dating a 23 year old and he is 14 but he is very mature for his age and he is a very very big 14 do you think that they will wrk out...

A.   24 August 2007: Hey I just want to let you know that if they are truely in love then the 23 year old woman should wait to do anything and be friends first and when he is of age then sit down and talk about it. so its hard 2 know if it will work or not but all im ... (read in full...)

True love at any age

Q.   Hello I'm 15 and I have known a man for a bout 2 years now and we are in love. We have talked about things and decided that we do need to wait until im of age to have sex or anything. When we were created God made us souls. Our soul's don't age. You ...

A.   24 August 2007: hey ppl some of you are asking how old my love is and he is 34 i know it is kind of old for me but i really do believe this is true love and thank all of you for your feedback it's much appreciated... (read in full...)

Incest

Q.   there are many questions in this site about incest and its okay now this article is really for those people who comment the questions about this subject and mock the person there real people and they have real questions as my mom always sa...

A.   13 August 2007: Hello everybody this doesn't really have much to do with incest really. But i'd justl ike to say that im a 15 year old girl and i am definitly in love with a 34 year old man. I have examined this relationship and it is totally not just a sex thing. ... (read in full...)

12 and been having sex with a married man. What should I do?

Q.   hi i am 12 years old ands I live in wisconsin. I've been having sex with this guy (i baby sit for) he does not use condums when we doit he says hes alergic to them. I dont know what to do but i think i am pregnant. for the last 3 months he has not ...

A.   13 August 2007: i'm not that much older than you but Im wise beyond my years which im sure you are aswell. I'd just like to say that this man more than likely doesn't love you and even if he did then wouldn't you think that he would have the respect for you to wait ... (read in full...)

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