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reader, fedorahead  +, writes (30 August 2010):
I feel the exact same way! I thought it was just me. I wonder how to remedy this? I'm not religious or anything at all, and wasn't brought up like that, but I still feel totally guilty after climaxing, to the point where I can't even climax when I'm with someone else at all!
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reader, Save me! +, writes (31 May 2010):
 i really dont know what to say to you but i know me and my boyfriend have done things and i have reached orgasm and i know it feels funny and i dont get guilty i get uncomfortable and i know it sounds crazy but maybe we will find a answer
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2008): I know exactly how you feel. I am only 16 myself and have only recently started doing things sexually for the first time. When I orgasm I really enjoy it and always feel that is the goal before I climax, however just as I am finishing I get this feeling that is similar to guilt even though I am not guilty at all. I don't come from a religious family, and do not feel ashamed about what I am doing at all. So ignore those people telling you you have a problem, because I am going through the same thing, and I'm sure many other girls our age are and have been through it too.
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reader, melly786  +, writes (25 August 2007):
 well ima tell you the honest truth you can some times feel guilty after u have 1 depending on what situation your in may be when you do your in a uncomfortable place or maybe when you do it you feel guilty bcuz u did it 2 your self or you just feel guilty doing it point blank.. so don't do it 4 a little and se how you feel with just sex or oral sex with sum one your comfortable with!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionredshoes83
Thankyou hehe..xxxx =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2007): You should not feel guilty for experiencing sexual pleasure. It is not normal. It might be that you have these feelings because you are from a very conservative family that makes you believe that sex is dirty and something that you should be ashamed of. Are your parents religous and believe that you should not experience these things at your age?
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reader, 15 and worried  +, writes (24 August 2007):
My boyfriend performed oral sex on me and I had an orgasm and at first I felt kind of guilty because i was in a great amount of pleasure and he wasn't but in the long run don't feel guilty because at least your partner knows he's doing a good job if you're having an orgasm
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reader, redshoes83  +, writes (24 August 2007):
 it is normal!!!!!! she's not going to have some kind of mental problem just because she feels guilty after orgasm. It is normal to have any feeling after orgasm. It's a feeling a person cannot control, I have a friend who cries when she orgasms, it's because an unusual amount of hormones are released when you orgasm and it makes people react in different ways. It doesn't matter how it makes you feel after as long as thhe person doing it knows that it fine to do and the feeling will go away and if the person isn't that effected by the feeling. I really think you should stop hinting the she has a problem when she doesn't. I don't even think the feeling is guilt, i have had a similar thing and there aren't enough words in the english language to relate it too and maybe guilt is one you have heard others link it to or most suits. As long as you know there is nothing wrong with having an orgasm then you're okay.
Sorry I am quite biased about this. I really don't like it that people are trying to make out it's wrong to feel a certain way.
This may not be helpful but its my view.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI Do enjoy it when its happening its when its over i feel weird..like guilty
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (24 August 2007):
 Nope. Not normal.
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reader, redshoes83 +, writes (24 August 2007):
I sometimes feel get a feeling similar to guilt after an orgasm, I have always thought it is perfectly normal. I don't think it is actually guilt that you are feeling though. There is nothing to feel guilty about, Don't listen to people telling you it's not normal!
Everyones bosies and emotions are completely different, don't worry, remember orgasms are GREAT and meant to be enjoyed.
go for it! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2007): You shouldn't feel 'guilty' you should enjoy it for all that it represents. If you do feel guilt try and think of it differently and channel it into thinking how you can ensure your man is pleasured too.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (24 August 2007):
 I sometimes feel guilty, but that is only if i have had an orgasm and my husband has not, and that's because sometimes he wants to pleasure me and wants nothing in return.
Take care.xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2007): No, it's not normal. Getting an orgasm is something to enjoy, it's normal, not something to feel guilty or ashamed about.
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