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female
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30-35,
15 and worried
writes: Hello I'm 15 and I have known a man for a bout 2 years now and we are in love. We have talked about things and decided that we do need to wait until im of age to have sex or anything. When we were created God made us souls. Our soul's don't age. You are the same person forever no matter what age you are. So if you find your sould mate when your my age or when your 60 make sure that you hold onto it as long as possible because true love never goes to waste. Reply to this Article Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2007): i'm really sorry i don't mean to be negative but in this case i have to be, this man is twice your age, this is classed as him being a peodiphile. you havent even properly developed yet, you have many changes that you need to experience still. i don't believe you can fall in love at 15, i thought i was in love at 14 and 5 years later i met a man we have been together 3 years and i only realised i loved him after 1 year. at 15 you think your in love but your just smitten, i fear this man will brain wash you and you will end up hurt which could effect the rest of your love lives. i'm sorry to put a downer on your life i just thought it was important.
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reader, 15 and worried +, writes (24 August 2007):
15 and worried is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey ppl some of you are asking how old my love is and he is 34 i know it is kind of old for me but i really do believe this is true love and thank all of you for your feedback it's much appreciated
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reader, not so down with love +, writes (22 August 2007):
im wondering how old the man is i get what your saying about our souls never ageing but...just make completely sure hes not going to start taking advantage after you have had sex together
oh and good choice deciding to wait till your legal age ...show maturity good for you
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lucy
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reader, william101067 +, writes (16 August 2007):
How old is he? I myself am 40 yrs old. At 15 I moved out with a 24 yr old. At the time, I "thought" I was in true love. I did love her, and was in love with her. But you will miss out on being a teenager. I missed out on school dances,proms, dates.... I am not trying to be negative at all, but a man was created by God with the instinct to breed. Not trying to be distasteful but its true. I am happy for you, and yes people at your age can be in love.. been there myself. My family always told me i didn't know what love was at that age. We lasted 7 yrs until she finally me someone her own age and she divorced me. We had a great life for those years, but now i look back and see what all i missed and it sometimes hurts. But, if you are happy.... and you think he will stay around and wait for you... then you go for it.
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reader, DIE-romantic. +, writes (16 August 2007):
Awh, that is sweet. That is very sensible and he is a gentleman for agreeing to wait until you are at the age of sex. Which in most cases on here, children at the age of 13 are having sex with fully grown men. Its nice to see that there are sensible and people that take love seriously. This is something i would say, and i wish you the best of luck with your relationship.Take care xxxxxx
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reader, Wolfcry +, writes (13 August 2007):
I can totally appreciate that/ My lady and I are waiting for her to be of age before we do anything as well, and even then not until she feels ready/ (she is 17 now btw) Love comes first after all.
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