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writes:Is it ok to have a relationship with a guy whose age gap is 12yrs.older than you?I'm 14 and he's 26... I mean, he looks like a teenager and sometimes acts like one... and we can relate to some things... Reply to this Question
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reader, 15 and worried  +, writes (24 August 2007):
if he really loves you he will wait... and if he's that age and acting like a teenager then obviously he has some maturity issues and when your 25 and he's still acting like a teenager are you still going to want to be with him?
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reader, Memorial_Address +, writes (14 August 2007):
Memorial_Address is verified as being by the original poster of the question but he didn't imply about having sex... He is soo caring and I don't think he can think about that... Mainly because he was once a priest-to-be but after staying at the seminary for 7 years, he quit because he started a relationship with a girl and now they're off...
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reader, Wolfcry  +, writes (13 August 2007):
 The problem you have is that at 14, a 26 y/o guy is probably NOT taking you seriously. Be warned that he may just have immaturity issues of his own and a strong desire for very young ladies. It could be more than that, but in all fairness I would definitely not bet on it. Be VERY careful.
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reader, GoddamnedROCKSTAR +, writes (12 August 2007):
 I'm seventeen and my boyfriend just turned twenty nine. When I was your age, a thirty year old tried to date me, he acted on my level and told me I was mature and that I matched his level really well. Truth be told, he just wanted to sleep with me. Once you're seventeen or eighteen, its a bit different because you're blossoming into a woman, at fourteen, they're still viewing you as a child. Be careful. And, I wouldn't see him if I were you.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (12 August 2007):
 Here in the Uk you cant have sex legally at 14. I dont understand why a guy of 26 would want a 14 year old.
He must be very immature.
But he would be breaking the law in this country if he had sex with a 14 year old.
C xxxxx
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (12 August 2007):
 Hey, I'm 16 and I'm going out with someone alot older so I know where you are now.
As the person before me suggested, I think you should speak to your parents, I did and I just said that I had feelings for an older guy and he felt them back and they understood.
Speakin to your parents will be good as they can advise you and can support you. As you are 14, it will be harder for you. I think you'd probably have to wait till you were 16 to start goin with this guy if in two years you feel the same.
Take care hun x
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reader, KenDr.A +, writes (12 August 2007):
Not only is it NOT ok, it is illegal. A 12 year age gap is perfectly fine as long as both are consenting adults. There is something seriously wrong with the guy. Ask yourself a question...when you are 26, would you ever consider dating a 14 year old boy?!?
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reader, claire_A +, writes (12 August 2007):
hey
its fine to have a relationship with an older guy
but if you are only 14 then he has a problem and i dont think you should see him if you were 16 there wouldn't really be a problem but i think that maybe you should talk to your parents about him and see if they approve first
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