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Archived questions from: 20 October, 2014 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He tries to turn our love making into some sort of sordid porno by imitating what he has watched, which doesn't do anything for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

20 October 2014 (F) - I've been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for six months. I'm 26 and he's 29. We see each other every weekend and text and call each other daily. Our relationship in general is wonderful and we have lots in common, however,...

Is it shallow to want to break up with someone because they lack intelligence?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2917 days ago

20 October 2014 (F) - It's is shallow to want to break up with someone because they lack intelligence? I'm having a hard time being in this relationship because my boyfriend's lack of intelligence and common sense. His decision making is poor, and his mental capacity is ...

My wife's libido is low after having our baby

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

20 October 2014 (M) - I am sorry if this is an old issue - I have looked over previous thread but everyone is unique eh? Two years ago I married my wife who is considered by all who meet her, male and female, to be a particularly attractive and 'sexy' woman. Las...

I can't forgive my boyfriend's spinelessness

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

20 October 2014 (F) - I am not normally one for holding grudges, but I just can't seem to see a way past this. Last year my boyfriend whom I've had a long distance relationship with for four years, took me to his hometown to meet his closest friends. They were all ok, ...

I gave an ultimatum to my boyfriend: start talking about your feelings or lose me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

20 October 2014 (F) - So, i've been searching on google about giving ultimatums and all of them are related to getting married and stuff. Mine is way more simple. Basically, our stone in the path of our two year relationship has been his constant closure towards love and ...

My best friend said its either her or my boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

20 October 2014 (F) - Please help! I recently fell out with my best friend of 11 years. the reason we fell out was a little to to with alcohol and alot to do with our boyfriends! basically me n my friend used to see eachother every weekend we went to university toget...

Strict parents and I'm nearly 16. How can I convince them to allow me to be more independent?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

20 October 2014 (?) - Hi everyone :) I need some advice on how I could convince my parents to let me be more independent when I hang out with my friends. This is what I mean by independent: I am almost 16 (in 3 months), whenever I go out like to hangout with my ...

Do I accept the offer from my ex? Or continue to put up with my Bf ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3688 days ago

20 October 2014 (F) - Hi, I will try and keep things factual! I have a bf who I have been seeing for 4 years, we don't live together but there is a strong feeling of love between us. He tried to move in last year but I stopped him because I wasn't ready. partly because ...

How should I apologize to my Bf? I spoke to him harshly about his video game playing

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3692 days ago

20 October 2014 (?) - Hey everyone My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months and we do fight occasionally. Yesterday however i accidentally blurted out "Fine go play your games that seems so precious to you" and I really didn't mean to say that. It's video ...

I like my job but my boss and I just don't seem to click. Suggestions to improve things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

20 October 2014 (F) - My boss is very young (24) and new to the boss job (but not new to the workplace, shes worked here 3.5 yrs) shes good at her job, is lucky to have it at her age, and I dont dislike her but wondet why shes so cliquey, her age maybe? shes supe...

Married almost 20 years. Now ED is a problem. How to spice things up and be more adventurous to improve his mental stimulation?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3687 days ago

20 October 2014 (F) - I am very frustrated. My husband and I have been together almost 20 years. He has been experiences ED problems the past couple of years. He needs mental stimulation (such as him picturing me having sex with someone else) or just being ...

Been single for 9 months. So why am I attracted to Players and Commitment Phobic men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

20 October 2014 (F) - i find myself stuck. Iam really attracted to good looking men who are commitment phobic/players. I've tried dating the nice guy and i get really bored and not at all interested. Ive been single 9 months now and i just want a good relationship. sick ...

Have I ruined my life as a result of having an affair with a married man at a vulnerable time in my life.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

20 October 2014 (F) - For a period of time from 2011-2013, I had an affair with a married man. I make no excuses for my behavior, which was terrible, but I had earlier that year been assaulted, had gotten out of a long-term relationship, and my self-esteem was at all t...