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female
age
30-35,
*iamonddoll
writes: i find myself stuck. Iam really attracted to good looking men who are commitment phobic/players. I've tried dating the nice guy and i get really bored and not at all interested. Ive been single 9 months now and i just want a good relationship. sick of being single! but I will always live by the term, " i refuse to settle for anything less than butterflies " why is it so hard, help!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2014): I think you are just a normal woman. Many women get the most attracted to men who are bad relationship material. Its non popular to say this today but its true.
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reader, Ciar +, writes (20 October 2014):
I suspect that while you may want a relationship, you're afraid of losing yourself in one which is why you're drawn to unavailable men. Maybe you think they won't smother you the way a serious guy might.
Picture what your ideal relationship would look like.
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reader, cca9130 +, writes (20 October 2014):
Hello my friend. I seriously think you should stop worrying about finding a boyfriend and just live life. I've found that when you don't search for things, they eventually land in your life. Let things be, go out with your friends, take a trip, enjoy being single. Also, where do you keep meeting men? If you expect to find a keeper, don't go to bars or clubs. Having a nice group of friends will help you twirl between people and get to know a guy that's worth it.
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