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Archived questions from: October, 2018 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I'm in a messed up situation with a guy from another country

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2213 days ago

29 October 2018 (F) - Hey dear agony aunts I met this guy one month ago (B) who got my number from a friend of mine. We started talking casually. B doesn’t live in our country and he told me he while we were just talking that he had a girlfriend in a different country ...

A friend is interested in a poly-amorous relationship but how do I tell my wife?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2213 days ago

29 October 2018 (M) - I and my wife have been married for 40 years and our love for each other is as solid now as it ever has been. Our sex life up until 8 years ago was very satisfying. Eight years ago my wife sustained an injury which has left her house bound. She ...

Lover wants to stay with his children for now

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2213 days ago

28 October 2018 (F) - My lover cannot live with me just yet because he still wants to live with his children who are 21 and 19.....He said they still need him .... He doesn’t love his wife... they share no interests as a couple, just stayed married for their kids sake... ...

I'm hurt, confused, angry and betrayed.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2210 days ago

28 October 2018 (M) - So Last night I texted my gf and asked her how it started and she said that they met at a mutual friends house and he went up to her and they started talking about regulsr shit at first. Eventually they started chatting over what...

Has anyone else given up a fairly long-term, comfortable relationship for something new and exciting with so much in common and a strong sexual attraction?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2212 days ago

27 October 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I have just passed 3 years together. We have a great life together: we laugh a lot, we support each other, we cook, we travel, we have many of the same interests and tastes. I know he loves me and I love him too, but it's always ...

I’m excited at the concept of an open relationship but I’m not really happy with the current situation.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2193 days ago

26 October 2018 (M) - My girlfriend of 6 years is studying abroad for a year (since mid-September). We’re fairly committed to each other so we are trying to do long distance. We are also fairly sexual people but have only ever really been with each other. We are also ...

I can't give either of them up but I know I need to in the long term.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2215 days ago

25 October 2018 (F) - I'm in a relationship with a great man. We have our ups and downs as do any couple but he is undoubtably who I want to be with and we are on the whole very happy. However. I have been having a fling/relationship - call or what you will, with someo...

I cannot tollerate my ex husband so why do I feel angry and rejected?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2217 days ago

24 October 2018 (F) - I absolutely know that I cannot stay with my husband. We are near divorce and there are things I cannot tolerate about him. However, I still ache, I still miss the good stuff....and honestly word of his new relationship is killing me. I have ...

My husband wont discuss things and gives me the silent treatment.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2223 days ago

18 October 2018 (F) - Hello and thanks I tried writing in before but can't seem to find my question. My husband is very popular, and 10 years younger than myself. His friends are a huge part of his life and I knew that from day one. Sometimes I do get a bit a...

My boyfriend is thinking about working with a woman I don't like! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2228 days ago

15 October 2018 (F) - I don't know what to do anymore. I feel like I'm at the end of my rope. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years and I love him with all my heart but I have always struggled with trust issues due to my boyfriend's career. He works at a gym a...

I'm willing to leave my husband but my married lover isn't saying anything about leaving his wife

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2227 days ago

12 October 2018 (F) - Iv been having an affair for a couple of years now and decided to end my marriage. I'm living with a friend but my married lover is still staying put. I said it was my problem about leaving my husband but he said he was still worried for me. He ...

What should I do to guard my heart and not be a fool?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2230 days ago

11 October 2018 (M) - Hello, everyone. I’m a 21 year old homosexual male. About three weeks ago, my toxic, 2 year relationship ended with my ex. Throughout the entire duration of our relationship, he emotionally cheated, meaning that he would inbox other guys on social ...

Should I cut her out of my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2233 days ago

8 October 2018 (M) - Almost a year ago I met a girl through one of my friends. She had just come out of a 6 year relationship which lead to her losing almost all of her friends. She moved to my city for work and this is how I met her. I had an instant attracti...

I hit him while drunk for making a pathetic comment and now I deeply regret it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2234 days ago

8 October 2018 (F) - DearCupid, I'm 31 years old. I met my boyfriend 28, about 2 yeare ago, weve been together for an official year and it has been the most amazing relationship I have ever had in my life with the most amazing man. But when I met him I was unhappily ...

Should I tell my potential mistress that my marriage is falling apart (not true) in order to increase my chances that she'll do it without guilt?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2235 days ago

7 October 2018 (M) - My question is simple. I'm married and going on a trip this weekend to meet a friend that I'd like to get intimate with. She knows I'm married, but has hinted she doesn't care that much. However, I'm not sure I trust that. Should I tell her that my ...

I'm dating a new guy but I'm still not over my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2235 days ago

6 October 2018 (F) - I am 15 , 16 in a few weeks .About 3 months ago , me and my boyfriend of a year broke up and over the summer I gave myself time to get over him . Once summer ended I got back in touch with a boy that I’ve known for about 2 years , we started to hang ...

I'm not comfortable seeing him if he is going to date other people.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2238 days ago

5 October 2018 (F) - I have been dating/talking to this guy for only 3 weeks. We have been in on a few dates and I have stayed at his house also , things seemed to be going well. So I found out he took another girl out on a date but he doesn’t know that I know , and I ...

On social media he blocks me, unblocks me, friends me then unfriends, I don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2242 days ago

1 October 2018 (F) - I have no idea where to begin I am only hoping you all can offer some advice. So I was with my ex for three years, we were engaged at one point, but I broke it off after our twin babies were born stillborn. We stayed in a relationship we just ...