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anonymous
writes:My question is simple. I'm married and going on a trip this weekend to meet a friend that I'd like to get intimate with. She knows I'm married, but has hinted she doesn't care that much. However, I'm not sure I trust that. Should I tell her that my current relationship is falling apart (not true) in order to increase my chances that she'll do it without guilt?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (8 October 2018):
 Why not BE a man about it and DIVORCE your wife so you can FUCK around guilt-free?
I hope Karma rides you hard and put you away wet.
You and your potential mistress are a pair of despicable people who belong together so you can make each other miserable.
WHAT have your wife done you that you think this is OK?
What has she done to deserve this? What IF this "potential mistress" has STD's and you bring that home?
Shame on you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2018): You and your girlfriend are terrible people.I hope when you get divorced your wife takes you to the cleaners.I hope she sues your girlfriend for allenation of affection since the jezabele does not care you are married.You are scum.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (8 October 2018):
 Where is YOUR guilt? Leave your wife, don’t cheat. It’s cruel to cheat. Don’t betray your wife’s trust, just because your marriage isn’t working. Seriously; cheating destroys people. If you have a shred of decency, you will get a divorce before seeing anyone else. It’s time to man up, OP.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2018): She's already said she will do it without guilt but I sure hope if you do she turns into a bunny boiler and tells your wife :)
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reader, N91 +, writes (8 October 2018):
 How about growing up?
Leave your wife if you feel the need to cheat, she deserves better than a piece of shit like you.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious +, writes (8 October 2018):
 I would suggest you ask your WIFE how she feels about that.
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reader, mystiquek +, writes (8 October 2018):
 wow...I've been on DC for a very long time but you buddy have got some big cahoonas! You must be kidding if you honestly think someone on here is going to give you advice when about 95% of our posts are about people trying to mend relationships, not tear them apart. I agree with the other aunts/uncles that you aren't going to get the advice you want on here. Maybe you should try a website like "Cheaters R US"???
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2018): You've come to a cite that gives advice to mend relationships; to ask if you should lie to a mistress, and cheat on your wife?
How do you walk or wear pants with such humongous balls?
If you really don't appreciate being married, maybe you better consider getting a divorce.
We're not going to advise you on how to manipulate another woman into an affair that will emotionally destroy her, and your wife!!! If you don't have a problem with your wife, why are you cheating? Just to see what it feels like to be a total-asshole who lies to women to cheat on his wife?
Come on dude! Were your drinking or smoking weed when you wrote this awful post?
Man, you've got some nerve!!!
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reader, Ivyblue  +, writes (8 October 2018):
 I highly doubt you are going to get anyone one here to encourage you to cheat. Why on earth if your marriage is NOT in crisis would you want to do exactly that by cheating? Re think your objective thats the only piece of advice your getting from me
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