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The ex-factor: Help and advice

It’s been an emotional roller coaster for me after the breakup! Any insights would be helpful!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1476 days ago

26 October 2020 (F) - A couple of months ago, I broke things off with the first, serious possible partner I’ve ever had. It was fast and intense, with thousands of messages, calls, and video chats. Nothing like any prolonged dating I’d had previously. The first time...

How do I proceed? I'm in love with my ex who is in a relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1477 days ago

26 October 2020 (F) - Hello, my ex and I broke up about six months ago, she recently got in touch with me and we began talking and I confessed that I was still in love and wanted to get back together. She is in a relationship and I told her I wasn’t asking her for ...

I made a huge mistake and now, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1477 days ago

23 October 2020 (M) - So, there's a lot of history here and i feel like all the details are important so forgive this very long story/question. This girl [I'll call her X] and I have been messing around since we were teenagers. We're now in our 30s. We were a couple f...

Is he making me out to be an idiot? I'm not sure he's over his ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1481 days ago

20 October 2020 (F) - I would like some advice please. I have been dating a guy since June. At first I found out he hadn’t been in a relationship for 6 years since his ex (first relationship) she cheated on him with his best friend... I then find out he is still in ...

I cheated got my ex pregnant. Should I attend the birth of the baby?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1483 days ago

18 October 2020 (M) - I cheated on my girlfriend months ago with my ex partner. My ex and I have a child together. My ex is pregnant and says its mine. If it is I will take full responsibility. My girlfriend has forgiven me. Under the circumstances should I attend ...

My ex won't stop posting about me and is obsessed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1486 days ago

15 October 2020 (F) - First let me start by saying ive dealt with stalkers etc a fee times in my life. I had one that violently stalked me when i was 18 i had to get a restraining order against, he got wrapped up in other charges since and is now doing life for rape. ...

How do I accept that this and stop blaming myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1491 days ago

11 October 2020 (F) - My on and off ex boyfriend of 10 years is engaged 6 months into his new relaionship. Aka 6 months after he ghosted me and dropped me like a hot potato. I am completely heartbroken and having such a hard time moving on from this. I am doing all the ...

Why has this breakup suddenly hit me? Shouldn’t I be okay now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1492 days ago

10 October 2020 (F) - I was with my ex for 9years. We broke up a year ago. When we first broke up it didn't feel real and I was actually OK.. my friends said i was too OK. I went on 3 holidays in a row..went on loads of dates and went out partying most nights. I was fine ...

My girlfriend thinks its ok to see male friends/exs one on one. I'm not comfortable with this

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1496 days ago

6 October 2020 (M) - Hi, I been with my girlfriend for six months, everything is going so well, I'm involved with her family, we never fight and we are in committed relationship, I love her. Some problems have recently surfaced, she feels it is ok to hang out with ...

My ex dropped out of my life for 2 years with no explanation and now he's back

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 1496 days ago

3 October 2020 (F) - Hello and thanks in advance to all who take the time to reply. Two years ago my partner( not married) kind of disappeared on me. I contacted him a few times seeking explanation and closure but no response. I had my pride and stopped.As you c...

My girlfriend isn't comfortable with me hanging out with another girl who is a friend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1501 days ago

1 October 2020 (M) - Hi All Been dating a girl for four months and everything is going well. We are going really well, we have committed to a relationship and have long term plans for the future. I have met all her family and vice versa, We have recently come to...

I'm worried that our new neighbor might be one of my husband's exs

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1499 days ago

1 October 2020 (F) - I am worried about a new neighbour who as moved in with her partner. I worry that my husband might know the woman even thou we have not seen her yet and this happened when another neighbour who is a woman moved in next door to us months ago. I worry ...