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The ex-factor: Help and advice

Do I expose a cheater?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1567 days ago

26 July 2020 (F) - As i write this down i realise how stupid it all sounds and how much of a massive idiot i’ve been. Just over a year ago i went to a 20 year school reunion, i don’t live in the town anymore but i have a lot of friends there and my parents sti...

Is my husband and his ex still an item?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1560 days ago

24 July 2020 (F) - Hello and thanks in advance. So I'm married now for 3 years. Just before we were married he had two girlfriends I had no idea but found out two years into our marriage. He acted like it wasn't a big deal. To me it certainly was. I felt bet...

Why is he mad that I moved on?? When he did not want me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1570 days ago

24 July 2020 (F) - My ex fiancé left me for someone else two years ago. He always said he wanted to be friends. Recently, him and I connected over Facebook and began a friendship for the past three months. He was nice at first but when I told him out I had a boy...

Would it be a good idea to give this relationship another chance, or am I just the rebound girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1577 days ago

18 July 2020 (F) - I dated a guy for 1 year. During that time, we never had sex because I was unsure about his intentions, even though he told me that he loved me, so I do realize that some of this is my problem! Towards the end of our year, he began showing interest ...

I’ve split up with my ex of 5 years but think I still love him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1579 days ago

13 July 2020 (F) - I’m in a really tough situation. I’ve split up with my ex of 5 years but think I still love him. When we were together he suffered a really traumatic death in his family which has affected him badly. His whole personality and behaviour has changed, ...

We are dating but he hasn't moved on from his last relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1585 days ago

9 July 2020 (F) - Sorry in advance for how long this is about to be...I really really appreciate any perspectives any of you are able to offer. So about two years ago I got out of a borderline abusive relationship with a man who, while I actually think his intent...

The man I am dating told me he still loves his ex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1582 days ago

9 July 2020 (F) - Hi I’ve just started a new relationship I really like him I split with my partner a year ago he split with his 4 months ago we were in bed last night and he told me he still loves his ex so obviously now I am confused as to what to do I know I ...

We dated, I wasn't ready, we became friends, she got a boyfriend and now I love her.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1587 days ago

8 July 2020 (M) - I’m struggling with my feelings for one of my female friends. Two years ago I met her and we started dating. However, it only lasted a month. I had just got out of a relationship a few months before and although I initially thought I was ov...

Is this the golden rule for dating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1587 days ago

8 July 2020 (M) - I’ve always heard that one of the golden rules of first dates is to never talk about exes. But often on first dates (or during online dating app pre-date talking), I'm asked about past relationships like how long did it last? why did it end? etc. ...

My daughter doesn't want to spend the whole access weekend with me.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 1553 days ago

7 July 2020 (F) - I am feeling so hurt and crushed right now. I had phone call exchange with my daughter who is ten years in age and lives with her dad at a hundred miles distance. My daughter has decided that when she comes to my home next fortnight, she o...

I thought it was a golden rule, so why do so many people break it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1588 days ago

7 July 2020 (M) - I’ve always heard that one of the golden rules of first dates is to never talk about exes. But often on first dates (or during online dating app pre-date talking), I'm asked about past relationships like how long did it last? why did it end? etc. ...

On and off ex just married somebody else.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1588 days ago

6 July 2020 (F) - ex and i were doing the on/off thing for YEARS. it went on too long, i still had feelings, he apparently didn't because he was always hesitent to get back together. he had a cycle of hoovering and discarding me over and over again. i foolishly ...

Sex in my new relationship is awful, maybe I need therapy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1589 days ago

2 July 2020 (F) - Hey Aunts and uncles I have been seeing this man for 3 months now. He is kind, considerate and good to me. We have had sex a couple of times now but only recently. I made him wait until I was ready, which he was fine with. My problem.... the s...