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Archived questions from: December, 2018 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

I feel like the laughing stock because I want boundaries

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2142 days ago

31 December 2018 (F) - I'm wondering if this situation is worth breaking up over. Right now we're on the brinks because I'm mad about it. The guy I've been seeing for almost a year now is a hippie, I'm not, though i like to party with hippies sometimes. We had a brief ...

I've met a nice guy but my cheating daddy wants me back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2142 days ago

30 December 2018 (F) - Please help me I am in such a dilemma a few months ago me and my baby daddy split up due to a lot of issues in which one of them was him cheating I am not sure if it was physical but I know for sure girls were calling him and texting him and he was ...

How do I change my patterns?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2143 days ago

29 December 2018 (F) - I have come out of a very long term relationship where my partner 'parentified' me. I've read a lot about how there can be a passive / active dynamic (or divide) between partners, where one acts like the kid and the other is positioned as parent, ...

My step children's mother is creating problems

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2143 days ago

27 December 2018 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles I need some advice please. Not sure where to go from here. I have 2 beautiful step children. They have just got back from a once in a lifetime holiday with their Mum. We didn’t know about this holiday at all as the...

How can I ask my family to back off from my pregnant girlfriend?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2145 days ago

27 December 2018 (M) - I’ve been dating my gf for 6 months. My family met her for the first time over the holidays and they weren’t very welcoming. When we met she had just found out she was pregnant. She also has a two year daughter. She left her ex because he was chea...

My ex saw my hairy nipples! Is that enough to end years of great sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2147 days ago

27 December 2018 (F) - The other night I ran into my ex while drunk and went home with him. It was spontaneous and so I didn’t have time to “prepare” myself for him.. I didn’t sleep with him that night (although he tried, persistently) but everything seemed as it was...

My boyfriend regifted a present he had given to his ex

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2143 days ago

24 December 2018 (F) - My new bf gave me a regifted present! A mutual friend sent me a pic of his ex wearing this exact bracelet i received. Im so hurt and offended. I thought this person loved me. Who does such a thing? I am gutted. ...

Is it possible to love 2 women the same way at the same time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2147 days ago

23 December 2018 (M) - When i was 13 i dated this girl, who we will call girl "A". After half a year she broke up with me. 3 years later i started dating one of her close cousin, which we will call girl "B". we ended up talking online and eventually getting together. Yes ...

The gossip has taken all the good that I do and turned me into nothing.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2092 days ago

21 December 2018 (F) - Hey Cupids, My questions are about moving on after divorce/separation. I met my beautiful lover earlier this year when he was in an unhappy marriage. We started seeing each other but feelings were serious enough that he left his wife after 7 wee...

My ex took out credit cards in my name without my knowledge is there anything I can do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2153 days ago

20 December 2018 (F) - Hi. I broke up with my ex about 2 years ago and it was not an amicable break up. It was tough. And very difficult. During the break up he told me he had taken out 3 credit cards in my name totalling about £4/5k of debt. He also told me that he had ...

Should your spouse be prioritized over your adult children?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2154 days ago

18 December 2018 (M) - My question, Should your spouse come 2nd (God is always 1st) or your adult children? My wife's daughter (my stepdaughter) is a full on alcoholic/drug addict. For over 3yrs now I have delt with the constant absence of my wife because her daughter ...

Should I hold on to Alice? Break it off? And what about my wild partying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2157 days ago

17 December 2018 (M) - I've been in a committed relationship for all of my adult life (7 years). But alas, she moved away (far away) and left me single. I've decided to move on. Lately, I've been seeing a girl I met online. Lets call her Alice. We have shocking amount ...

Why did he still help his supposedly awful ex despite whatever she did to him? Is he lying to me about his feelings for her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2154 days ago

17 December 2018 (F) - Hi, i hope i can get some advice here to move on in my life. I have been with my boyfriend coming up two years, we get on well and i feel we are compatible. but there is a problem. My boyfriend went to America when he was 19 years old, stayed with...

I've met a lovely man but my ex wants to pick up where we left off.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2158 days ago

16 December 2018 (F) - right now im feeling meh . everything but my love life is going great. I got into online dating and have met a fantastic man we get on so well apart from odd times he acts like a 5 year old espesh around his 8 yr old nephew. He really acts like a ...

His ex was HOT ... is he settling for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2162 days ago

9 December 2018 (F) - My bf and I have been dating a little over a year. This insecurity of mine is due to one particular ex coming up several times in our convos. Always comes up about how guys swooned over his ex because she was hot. My bf says I'm the best he has ...

I can't get my ex to leave me alone

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2164 days ago

8 December 2018 (F) - So, I was engaged to a guy and we broke up a year ago. So, my ex is military he moved to Germany while I live in the U.S. it was a toxic relationship. When he was in the U.S. him and I we’re together for two years. We broke up and got back together ...

New boyfriend gets upset because I wont let him move in.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2165 days ago

6 December 2018 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 11 months now. Previously married for 5 years. Our relationship has been rocky to say the least but we have come to a crossroads suddenly. He lives with his mom and they are getting evicted. He isn’t working at ...

My ex sent my nastiest most private messages on social media for all of my friends to see

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2167 days ago

5 December 2018 (F) - Hello. I left an emotionally, verbally and ultimately physically abusive relationship. I will not sugar coat and say I did not lash back out. I hit him back and screamed and cursed back stooping to his level instead of leaving. This went on for 10 ...

I had an affair with my boss

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2159 days ago

1 December 2018 (F) - I had an affair with my boss. We are both married. It was clearly an emotional affair for five years and then we crossed the line. I know it was wrong and there’s different reasons on both sides why we went down this path - not an excuse though. His ...