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30-35,
*atylei
writes:my boyfriend's ex recently gave birth to his baby and now she wants to get back with him. hes told her hes staying with me, but shes saying that as long as were together he cant see his baby!. ive stressed my opinion on how this unfair for both my boyfriend and the baby and she is just being immature. unfortunately she isnt letting her guard down and believes i am going to try and take over being the mother to her baby even though i have said that i dont want to be involved in any kind of way....please could you give me advice..its causing problems between me and my boyfriend and i dont particualarly want to break up with him.thanks
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (5 October 2009):
 I assume your boyfriend is a teenager like yourself so he most likely can't afford a lawyer on his own but how do his parents feel about not being able to see the baby? Maybe they would be willingly to help with the cost of a lawyer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2009): Well maybe your boyfriend and her need to have a serious chat and no offence but alone without you cause the baby is thier baby together. If you want to be with him even though he just had a kid with someone else thats up to you and him. Also In the USA we have laws that forbade parents like a Mother from keeping the child away from the father. He should take her to court and pay her child support then she has to give him visitation rights. anyways good luck and if you guys stay together remember to always stay out of the Baby Mother's drama it's whats best.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 October 2009):
Be supportive of your boyfriend. She's using the child to blackmail him, which is completely wrong. If she wont' let him see the baby, he can take it to court.
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