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Archived questions from: 10 July, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Should I let my boyfriend finger me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

10 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend wants to finger me should i let him? Im not realy sure what i want i do want him too, but i no there can be concequences. He is the same age as me. ...

I'm worried he'll want me to go on top, and I feel so uncomfortable! Any tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

10 July 2011 (F) - I dont know if this is a bit crude, but im currently single out of a 5 year relationship ive met someone new and i havent yet had sex with them. I worry that when I do have sex with them they will want me to go on top, I don't mind doing that ...

Does sex with a girl (if you're a girl) count as losing your virginity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

10 July 2011 (F) - When you ask people what losing your virginity means they usually say intercourse.. so what does this mean for lesbians? Like do lesbians not lose their virginity? And does it mean bisexuals lose it twice?...

Why is it when I sleep around I don't feel happy about doing it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

10 July 2011 (M) - I have recently split up with my girlfriend but it was on good terms and we are still talking. She said to me before that she found commitment hard and that I was the only person she had ever really committed to despite her having sex with 3 peopl...

My gf's vagina seems "loose"; does this mean she is not a virgin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

10 July 2011 (M) - I have a girlfriend who i love very much..she told me that she was a virgin (she never lie to me + i've known her long ago) but last time when i fingered her, my finger was loose as if she had had sex several times and feels no pain...could it be ...

Boyfriend and I have absolutely no time/place for private time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

10 July 2011 (F) - Hello, aunts and uncles! Hope the summer is treating you well, as it sure is treating me splendidly. I've recently fallen in love with a great guy and he is enamored with me (he actually said "I love you" and all that jazz first!). It's be...

I am 24 and planning to lose my virginity to a prostitute. Any tips for a first-timer?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

10 July 2011 (M) - Well I'm 24 and still a virgin and really tired of waiting. So I'm looking into losing my virginity to a prostitute in a few weeks. It's legal where I live and weekly STD testing are mandatory for prostitutes. I've given up on finding a girlfr...

He told me there's no spark, just sex, so why was he standing there completely naked?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

10 July 2011 (F) - hi all Just a quick question theres this guy ive liked for nearly a year now and i finelly had the courage to tell him i like him, but he replied there is nothing wrong woth me and he knew i liked him there was just no spark there for him, e...

Is this pain normal? I am turned on, so it's not dryness!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

10 July 2011 (F) - im 18/f and my boyfriend is 19/m I lost my virginity to my boyfriend 2 and a half weeks ago, it hurt a lot at first but the pain then subsided. I was very very tight, i was extremely wet and everything, and my boyfriend was gentle with me. ...

Successful anal sex tips?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

10 July 2011 (F) - hey, so my bf of a yr and i tried anal sex for the 1st time as both of us had never tried it b4 and were curious, and it didn't fit! He put a finger there 1st (never experienced that before) which felt ok, but when he tried putting his penis there ...

Can I get herpes from being fingered?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

10 July 2011 (F) - Yesterday I got fingered for the first time by my boyfriend and it hurt when we tried the first couple of times but then it was fine. He washed his hands before and after and his nails were cut so everything was clean.This morning though I was a ...

Is it normal to have sex 4 times a day?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

10 July 2011 (F) - This is the second man I've ever slept with. My husband and I had sex four times a week tops during our whole marriage. This man and I have sex more than four times a DAY if we can. I just want to know if it's normal or if it means he only wa...

How can I get my fiance to relax during oral sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

10 July 2011 (F) - how can i help my fiance relax and cum while im giving him felatio (head) oral sex. He won't do it.dont know why and he cant cum unless im on my stomach laying flat and melicking his hand as if i was eating a pussy please advise and also i get ...

My man is addicted to sex via the phone and internet

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4875 days ago

10 July 2011 (F) - i luv this guy he is everything that i want in a man he talks he shares and he is addicted to porn and women. He asked me to help him get a girl so we can do a three some. He makes u feel so comfortable you would want to try almost anything with ...

My fiance is addicted to internet and phone sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

10 July 2011 (F) - my fiance loves women and he talks to women all the time about everything. he befriends them and then have sex with them over the phone. he is addicted and i dont know what to do. we look at certain flicks together but he is too deep into it..what ...

I don't want an open relationship anymore but my partner has a problem with commitment.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

10 July 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 and a half years. We've seen eachother through really rough times and we do love eachother, but we decided to have an open relationship. I don't want an open relationship anymore though but he has a ...