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Archived questions from: September, 2020 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

How do I bring up my wife's spending habits without getting into a fight?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1515 days ago

25 September 2020 (M) - So we have been doing fine throughout this pandemic, luckily we both have our jobs and health. part of our student loans are frozen so thats been a nice chunk of change that we dont have to pay monthly. but even then we are slowly losing money. ...

My husband didn't stand beside me for a big event in our child's life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1516 days ago

23 September 2020 (F) - Hi all, I need some advice and poitn of views. I feel so depressed and down right now. I have been married for about 5 years. I have a 4-year-old and an 8-month-old. We are in a rocky relationship because of what just happened recently this pa...

My wife is leaving me for a 22 year old that works at McDonalds

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1516 days ago

23 September 2020 (M) - I've only just found out that my wife has been seeing a 22 year old man over the past 3 months in secret. The person who told me was my best friend; he was embarrassed when he told me this. I've got two kids aged 8 and 11, and I love my wif...

Wife discovered the affair, now I am working on my marriage but can't forget my mistress.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1515 days ago

22 September 2020 (M) - I am in agony so I guess I have come to the right place. Long story short. I was involved in a long term affair with a beautiful and caring woman. My wife discovered the affair recently and demanded I stopped all contact with the other woman, whi...

I'm married and making out with my husband's best friend

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1520 days ago

20 September 2020 (F) - I made a mistake again... I know once is a mistake and two types is purely stupid but I didn't think and now I need help to stop. I am in a troubled marriage but we are still trying to work through it as we truly love one another. However his best ...

I'm in a sexless marriage and my husband doesn't want to try to make things better

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1521 days ago

16 September 2020 (F) - My husband of over 30 years can no longer get an erection. He's struggling with a fatherless father and an overbearing mother. This seems to have him stuck in a rut and in this rut all his life. Not sure why he just can't get over it but he just ...

My husband is in complete control of our sex life and will withhold sex from me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1521 days ago

16 September 2020 (F) - bit of a strange question but i’m not the most tactile person in the world so would appreciate some other ways to respectfully get my point across to my husband. i’ve been with my hubs for 17 years nearly and he’s such a amazing dad and husban...

My husband get irritated with too many questions.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1485 days ago

10 September 2020 (F) - My husband get irritated with too many questions. Most of my questions I ask are valid, I feel. Like driving home from town. We live in the country and he has lived here for 40 years and I have been married 5 years. I ask where neighbors land i...

Husband went to a dominatrix should I just let him do his thing?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1531 days ago

6 September 2020 (F) - I found messages on my husbands phone from a dominatrix he been to see. He had told me that he to attend a training course but was actually with this dominatrix for 3 entire days. He claims not to have had sex but instead was dressed as a woman and ...

How do we cope with this? My dad kicked out my mom to move in his younger gay lover

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1534 days ago

5 September 2020 (F) - Life in quarantine has been tough recently; Dad split up from Mom (and she's heartbroken about it) and Mom moved in with me and my partner of 3 years. He broke up with Mom for a younger illegal immigrant from the U.S. (the guy's only 24, that's year ...

My husband wants to quit his job to be a judge. I'm worried he is driven by money and hasn't thought things through

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1538 days ago

4 September 2020 (F) - Since the pandemic started, my husband has told me how he wants to quit his job and become a judge; he claims "No need to work from home, no annoying office politics, good pay, interesting job." He then went on to say "It's well-paid, compa...

My husband thinks I ask too much of him. Do I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1537 days ago

3 September 2020 (F) - Good afternoon, I have been married for 10 years. For the past years, my husband has told me he feels as though, I ask too much of him. Recently within the last year we opened up an auto shop and due to COVID he had to get a part time job, in addit...

I'm wondering if I wasted 9 years of my life with him. He came out as transgender with no warning and wants us to live as a gay couple

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1538 days ago

2 September 2020 (M) - (I'm using their preferred gender pronouns here, not birth ones). I'm married (18 months) and have a 4-year-old daughter. Last week my wife admitted to me that he was transgender and had only married me for money and to have a child. He...