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Marriage problems: Help and advice

Am I crazy for allowing my husband to sleep with other men and women?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3009 days ago

25 September 2016 (F) - My husband and I have been together off and on for 25 years and been married 13. He has cheated on me a lot in the past and I've forgiven him, he promised it would never happen again unless he talked to me about it. He works in another state, h...

Am I crazy or is this gaslighting?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3016 days ago

25 September 2016 (F) - Am I crazy? My husband has the habit of lying to me about little things. For example, he'll say he has nothing planned for the weekend and the weekend will roll around and he'll tell me that he has to go to work (and he does- I can verify that and ...

My husband doesn't like me wearing makeup and criticizes me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3016 days ago

25 September 2016 (F) - My husband hates the fact that I wear makeup. When we first met I was into more of a "barefaced" look (meaning I only wore mascara). Once I started working again(after taking care of babies for a few years), I went back to my glam-girl ways and ...

I'm starting to dread sex because it takes my husband so long to finish

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2978 days ago

22 September 2016 (F) - Hello everyone.. I have a sexual problem with my husband.. It takes him too long to ejaculate, even if we have exquisite foreplay or so on.. Even if I do everything I can in the foreplay.. It has to end with him mostly taking a long time or masturba...

Why is he so fickle ? Why does my husband keep shutting me down?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3020 days ago

22 September 2016 (M) - My husband and I have been together for 14 years but, only married for 1 year. We both have careers that draw on our time together. I noticed that both he and I were preferring to jerk off instead of trying to make time for each other with our busy ...

My husband called me uptight and its really bothering me. I want to discuss his actions but don't know how

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

21 September 2016 (F) - I don't know what to think of the fact that my husband called me uptight. It wouldn't have been such a big deal had he not said that I was like that all the time and that it bothered him that he had to keep his true nature in control. I don't w...

Husband constantly nagging and critiquing

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3020 days ago

20 September 2016 (F) - My husband is constantly nagging and correcting. He is a generally likeable guy but when he gets close to somebody like wife or kids he critiques all the time where it sounds verbally abusive. He sees very little wrong with himself. He has a lo...

Should I separate from my husband? Or push on in what feels like a dead marriage ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3024 days ago

18 September 2016 (F) - I've been with my hubby for nearly 11 years now and his cousin is one of his best friends and as a product of that, his cousin is also MY best friend. In fact we are closer than my hubby and his cousin is, our style of communication is the same...

She's no longer into sex. What to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3023 days ago

18 September 2016 (M) - The problem I have is. My wife is totally uninterested in sex and lovemaking, and has been for about 3 years now. Its to hot, its to cold, I have a headache?backache/earache whatever. We have discussed it and she assures me that it is not me. I h...

Is it right to take a lover now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

16 September 2016 (F) - I am a twenty two year old married Indian woman. My husband has been working overseas for the last four years. He last visited me in August 2014 when we spent two weeks together I spent my twentieth birthday in December 2014 with my parents,...

My husband's constant staring makes me think he will cheat

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3026 days ago

15 September 2016 (F) - My husband is a good man.i share a good relationship .he is very handsome and well educated. I am also equally attractive. However I caught him flirting just by eye staring wit few women,they are less attractive comparing to both of us( am not ...

I am married to a lovely man but still pine for my ex but I don't want to feel that way!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3031 days ago

12 September 2016 (F) - im married to a guy who has been seen by my family. i was in relationship with a guy for 4 years before my wedding but he left me for another girl. so in that anger i just accepted for this wedding. my husband is really a nice person. he knows my ...

Feeling robbed, hoodwinked and conned. my wife clearly doesn't want to have sex with me anymore. what are my options?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3031 days ago

8 September 2016 (M) - Hi, I suspect this might be an old chestnut but its new to me so please bear with me. In a sentence...my wife clearly doesn't want to have sex with me anymore. On the rare occasions we do, it feels like she is being contrived, dutiful and fra...

Not sure I want to be in this relationship anymore. Two babies and he's rather play a computer game. I'm not sure I want to be in this relationship any more. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3035 days ago

8 September 2016 (F) - As a quick bit of background info: I’m a stay at home mum of two (2 year old and a 6 month old). I do have a job but was on maternity which has been extended due to having cancer and dealing with all kinds of other crap... My partner is the m...

I believe my husband’s client was flirting with him! She shared way too much personal information!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

7 September 2016 (F) - My husband is a building contractor and recently met with a woman to give an estimate for repairs at her residence. I accompanied him as we were on our way to dinner after this as it was in the early evening hours however, I remained in the vehicle ...

I don't feel comfortable with who I am. How do I turn my life around and find contentment and satisfaction ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3035 days ago

6 September 2016 (M) - So just a week ago I turned 33 years old. By now, a lot of people would know about my previous posts in regards to dysfunction in my marriage. But I want to change focus to think about my own personal development. Perhaps I am being too hard on ...

Why doesn't my husband go down on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3036 days ago

6 September 2016 (F) - Hello everyone! Thank you for your time reading this. I have a simple, yet extremely embarrassing question. I'm a "happily" married woman with two girls and 4 months pregnant. We live a moderate life,go to church and spend time with ou...

What can I do? I'm self sufficent, he's not. He's not motivated to find work in his field. He relies on his parents and me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

5 September 2016 (F) - Hi Hope you can help me please. I just don't know how to handle this. I have been married for over a year, together 5. My husband has 2 children, whom I adore. I own a lovely home, which has the potential to be extended, so I told my h...

He has photos of other women on his phone. He forbids me to do some things. Surely he is cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3037 days ago

2 September 2016 (F) - my husband always speak of his past with his ex,s. Holidays, food,ext. And recently i found a photo of a girl hidden in a bible. With love letter cards. He is always on his phone. Dont say who it was. In the past i found out he was chattin...

Trust and cheating. How can I win back my partner's love and trust after all the has happened over the years ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

1 September 2016 (F) - I've been with my partner for over 20 years and I very much love him with all my heart. Yet I found myself at 43 entering into an affair with a younger guy. Didn't take me long to realize this was a big mistake and I returned to my husband, con...