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female
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36-40,
*abona
writes:Hello everyone..I have a sexual problem with my husband.. It takes him too long to ejaculate, even if we have exquisite foreplay or so on.. Even if I do everything I can in the foreplay.. It has to end with him mostly taking a long time or masturbating alone because i get very tired at the end.. I really started to dread having sex because its a very long process with him... Thank you so much for reading and your help.. Take care..
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reader, mmj  +, writes (4 November 2016):
 This is usually caused by the following:
1. He masturbates too much-he should stop, at least for a few weeks.
2. He masturbates too hard with too much torque that can't be reproduced during sex. Get him to masturbate with his non dominant hand.
3. He watches too much porn. Stop stop stop!
4. He watches the wrong kind of porn depicting things he could never do with you.
5. He effected by caffeine or alcohol. He needs to stop taking partaking on sex nights.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (23 September 2016):
 Then no problem, he finishes himself off when youve had your limit. Dont push yourself, its not a maraton. If he takes too long he will just have to live without always reaching orgasm. Its not like us women die without an orgasm each time we have sex. Men wont die either.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (22 September 2016):
 A lot of people would not see this as a problem. It could be the other way around, your husband could finish in a minute and then it would all be over. The only suggestion I have is plenty of foreplay, explore each others bodies, if sex gets sore, then afterplay can be just as fun!
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (22 September 2016):
 So.. may I re-state your question?.... You have limitations upon your hubby's completion of sexual goings-on.... and, so, you need us (Aunts and Uncles) to justify that you should be OK with dreading intimacies with him....
Looks like you've got everything in-order.... now, all you have to do, is put it in to practice....
(P.S. I'm glad you're not my "girlfriend".....)
Good luck....
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