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Archived questions from: October, 2005 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

My boyfriend is dumping me, just to experience dating other people!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

31 October 2005 (F) - I have been going out with this guy since 5 years, starting from college, and have been on long distance for more than 2 years. We try to see each other as often as we can. Went on a vacation with him in Jun/Jul and saw him over the weekend 2 weeks ...

Met my online guy in person and he was lovely, but now we're separated by his job...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6951 days ago

31 October 2005 (F) - Have I been used? I recently met a guy online. It was the first time I had ever been in a chat room, so I thought it was really lucky that we hit it off so well. We spent every night talking for hours online. It was pretty intense at times too!! A...

My wonderful American guy went back to the US and started ignoring my emails...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6949 days ago

30 October 2005 (M) - I had a wonderful relationship with an American man. He also had a partner at home but while in Australia for seven months he had two relationships. Our connection was amazing and we both had never experienced this before in our lives. His pa...

Am I doomed to be in love with my boyfriend AND his best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6170 days ago

30 October 2005 (M) - Hi there...so I am in a real mess right now and I have no idea who to turn to. I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now and for the last year we have been having a long distance relationship because of university. The last few months have ...

Eighteen months until my girlfriend gets back. She says not to wait...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6953 days ago

29 October 2005 (M) - My girlfriend's just left to travel round the world for 18 months on her own, as part of a overlanding tour group. It's been a dream of hers for ages and she'd sort of planned to go before we got together properly. I know she loves me but she said ...

My bf has only been gone for business for 5 days so far, and I miss him so much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6957 days ago

27 October 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have dated now for going on 5 months. He's the man I've dreamed of, and for the first time he's found what he wants in me. We have our issues, but this is real love and we both know that. Recently, a company he's got a prospect...

My soul mate is married to someone else!

This question has 130 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

24 October 2005 (M) - Help! I've been searching for a while and I've finally found my 'soul mate'. She's perfect! Only problem is...she's married. I know I can't tell her, (I shouldn't have told anyone really but there you go), but it's affecting my life pretty badly. I...

Four months' wait to see each other is a long time...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6957 days ago

24 October 2005 (M) - I've recently met a girl, she's a friend of a friend. Well we got to talking online and I'm really beginning to like her. We talk for hours every day, getting to know each and every little detail about each other. We both agree that things are goin...

I'm hung up on a boy in my old school, in a different state...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6959 days ago

23 October 2005 (F) - I really liked this boy at my school but then I moved to different state. One of my friends told me (over the phone) that he asked about me and I'm completly hung up on him. When I hear his name my stomach even does a flip. I also like a guy at my ...

My guy in the Army is 17 and I'm 14. We want to meet up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6960 days ago

23 October 2005 (F) - My friend introduced me to this gorgeous lad a couple of weeks back and ever since we haven't stopped texting each other or been of the phone. The problem is he's in the army and I will hardly see him. We both agree that it shouldn't be anything...

What can I do to make our time together really special and show him I miss him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6958 days ago

22 October 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm at uni and my boyfriend is back at home. Although we do see each other on a regular basis (weekends etc) I really want to make the time we have together special. I wanted to have a romantic night in, but would he think I'm getting too seri...

We can't handle another year of long-distance. Does he move, or do I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6961 days ago

21 October 2005 (F) - Dear Alice My and my boyfriend have been in a long distance relationship for 18 months. Throughout this time, he has always assumed that I would be the one to end the distance and move up to his city to be with him. Never had he suggested he be ...

He won't be back home until Christmas. Am I stupid to wait for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6963 days ago

19 October 2005 (F) - Hi everyone, I'im a 21yr old female who is a bit confused, so here it goes. At the start of summer I got to make friends with this really great guy. We had great times together until about 3 weeks ago things got a bit more steamy. We loved meeting...

I want to stay with my boyfriend, but I'm getting tired of being the one who travels to see him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6965 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - I met my boyfriend over summer. Later I found out he was moving away to a different city 4 hrs. away for school. It's not bad, that I have to take the train every now and then to see him. But, having a long-distance relationship is new to me. And ...

Want my partner to come back to me, but hate having to take him away from a place he loves!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6959 days ago

17 October 2005 (M) - Here goes, Hello. I'm in a gay relationship and I see myself spending the rest of my life with my male partner. He went overseas only for ONE YEAR to work, and get experience, has a pretty "high position" and i stayed running my own succesful ...

I fell for her fast, but I hear that she doesn't like guys coming onto her too quickly...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6961 days ago

13 October 2005 (M) - I met this girl a few months ago at her 21st birthday and fell for her. I can't explain it, as I only met her that day, never seen her before. Then last weekend I went out to where she lives (I'm boarding at her cousin's house) with people I board ...

I still care for my daughter's husband, but he's been in jail for a while...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6971 days ago

12 October 2005 (F) - I am in love with my daughter's father who is in jail. He's been in jail for about a year now, and during this whole time I have been faithful to him, but I am now having feelings for my childhood friend whom I have known for 10 years. What should I ...

He can dish out the blame, but my boyfriend can't take it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6970 days ago

11 October 2005 (F) - I met a guy online a year and a half ago. He is from the States, I am from Africa, although he is African like me. We dated and got engaged mid this year. I love the guy with all my heart and am sure he does love me too. He says am his ideal kind of ...

Why is he doing it? Every time I'm free to visit him, he's "busy"!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6973 days ago

9 October 2005 (?) - Hi there everyone, Over the summer I met a guy who's slightly younger than me (by 2 years) who came to stay at the place I was working whilst on a sporting event. We got on really well and went out together with a few of the friends he was playing ...

I pushed for commitment, and ended up pushing him away...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6975 days ago

8 October 2005 (F) - I had a long distant relationship with a man I fell in love with and he loves me. He broke up with me because he has things in his life to fix and he is scared of commitment. I've been pushing that. I know now not to do that. How do I get this man...

I need to know if a relationship can survive when we'll be apart for months...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6976 days ago

7 October 2005 (F) - Ive been dating a guy for a few months. Things are going really well but he's going away in a few months to work and won't be back till May next year. I knew this before we got together but now I'm starting to worry. I'm perfectly happy to wait for ...

My boyfriend's joining the Army. Should I accept his proposal of marriage?

This question has 57 answers - newest was posted 3712 days ago

5 October 2005 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for the past 6 months. In January (3 months time) he's planning to join the army and will be away for months at a time. Recently he asked me to marry him, and I'm not sure if it's what I want to do. My friends ...

Not sure how to progress with this long-distance relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6981 days ago

1 October 2005 (F) - I would like to date a guy that I met in a club a month ago but unfortunately he is a soldier and had to go away few days later after we met and is coming back sometime this month. He gave me his e-mail address and we exchange some nice e-mails, ...