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writes: I really liked this boy at my school but then I moved to different state. One of my friends told me (over the phone) that he asked about me and I'm completly hung up on him. When I hear his name my stomach even does a flip. I also like a guy at my new school but miss the other boy dearly. What do I do? The boy at my other school never knew I liked him but I always thought he kind of liked me. My best friends were some of his best freinds to we were kind of friends. I miss him soooo much. What should I do?
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reader, pops +, writes (24 October 2005):
If you really want to start something with your old friend, contact him and tell him you are interested. If he likes you, the two of you will find a way to get together. You sound very young, because you have a new fellow, too. Life is full of choices. You obviously don't know enough about yourself, or either boy, to be making a choice, now. Slow down and take your time. YOu will meet and like a lot of men as you grow up. Compare them, and educate yourself about what it is in a man that you like, and need. Its likely that neither of these boys will be in your life within 2 years, but, one never knows. I still contact a woman I fell in love with when I was in high school, some 40 years ago. She is married, a mother, and Grandmother, and we have kept in touch all these years. I have been married twice, and divorced twice. I don't think we could ever live together without driving both of us nuts, but I am still very fond of her, and would do anything for her. I do not regret having known her, or having fallen in love with her. It still feels right. Maybe this can happen to you, too.
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reader, lillaum  +, writes (24 October 2005):
 Hi there
Sounds like you may just have to put it down to "the one who got away" The second guy in your new school may be the better of the two at this stage. He is much much closer for a start. It must be better to have a boyfriend you can go to the movies with! You can still be friends with the guy at your old school.
Good Luck
Lillaum
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