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writes: Hi everyone,I'im a 21yr old female who is a bit confused, so here it goes.At the start of summer I got to make friends with this really great guy. We had great times together until about 3 weeks ago things got a bit more steamy. We loved meeting up and had great times together, even his close friends were glad to see that we got together. Now we didn't actually say we wanted to be bfriend/gfriend; we were just happy the way things were, but the thing is, he has gone abroad to work for a while. We are still in contact which is great.My question is, should I stay faithful to him as we did before he left, because I can't dream of been with anyone else? He is coming home for Christmas, which I am looking forward to, but am I just been silly by waiting? Oh MY GOD please will someone help me, I haven't been myself since he has gone. It feels like my heart has broken in 2 and wont be mended til he comes back.Please help me! :-(
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reader, soswi +, writes (20 October 2005):
Wait for him silly!! Ofcourse you should if you feel this deeply about this guy. Christmas is not that far away. Yeah stay faithfull because you just said you can not imagine yourself with any one else so he is obviously were your heart is. So being unfaithfull to him would just be useless
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reader, QueenB75 +, writes (20 October 2005):
If you two havent formally declared your relationship to be exclusive than no you should not be talking about being faithful to him since you're not in an exclusive relationship with him. Get out and meet other people and if he's going to be gone until after Christmas don't put your life on hold. When he comes back talk about where you want things to go with you and him and take it from there. For now get out and have a life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2005): Well, this could be a sign of love OR lust. However I think you should discuss with him where your relationship is going, and if he is as comitted to you as you are to him! If it was just for fun, most likely he'll find someone while he is overseas, but if he is comitted to you, and only you, he should wait, besides Christmas is almost around the corner. But first make sure where you stand, cause he could be thinking the exact same thing! He might even be waiting for you to say something? Ask him and clarrify these issues before either on gets hurt.
Hope this helps. Kind Regards.
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