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writes: My friend introduced me to this gorgeous lad a couple of weeks back and ever since we haven't stopped texting each other or been of the phone. The problem is he's in the army and I will hardly see him. We both agree that it shouldn't be anything serious and he says I can still be with other lads if I wanna be. So it's all great but now he wants to meet up again. I'm 14 and he's 17 and he lives about 3 hours away so if we met up he would need somewere to stay. I'm going to ask my mum but if she says no I suggested we book into a hotel one night. I know sounds pretty stupid but I really like this guy and want to see him again. What should I do if my mum says no?Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2005): Not a good idea. Haven't you watched the news lately. Girls your age get kidnapped, raped and sometimes killed. It's reality and you shouldn't try to get some hotel just to meet with him. He's in the army, so there's really no chance that he would want a relationship period. That's why he said it shouldn't be anything serious. Wake up and smell reality. It's bad news and if you don't believe it, go and get pregnant.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (23 October 2005):
 This guy is too old for you and you should not be getting a hotel with him at your age. I understand you really like him and stuff but find someone your own age. He's probably had a lot more experience than you and you've got to ask yourself why he wants to go out with a girl so young?
I hope you make the right decision and don't get hurt. Don't be thinking about boys yet, never mind older ones! There's plenty of time for all that trouble when you get older so just enjoy yourself and slow down. Good luck
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