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writes: I had a wonderful relationship with an American man. He also had a partner at home but while in Australia for seven months he had two relationships.Our connection was amazing and we both had never experienced this before in our lives.His partner arrived from the states and he told him about us and the partner told him not to contact me. After three days we met up and he told me that it was me he loved and wanted and it was hell not talking to me.Things carried on with us as his partner ended up in Hospital with a bad infection. Our parting words were that he would come back here and we would keep in contact and he loved me so much.Now he is back in the states and ignoring me the emails sent he showed his partner we spoke on the phone and he told me he cried in his partners arms about me and he could not stand living like this and feeling like this and we had to try and block each other out.I am so confused now and deeply really depressed as we both know and talked about how it was so right. His partner has threatned to destroy and take everything underneath him.Any advice I love this man so much and know it is right. It has now been a month since we have spoken the number has been changed by the partner but I have the number.Any one can you help?
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reader, mystic-max +, writes (3 November 2005):
I think that maybe you should just face facts, and open your eyes to what is infront of you. the man you met had had a relationship with. Also had another person he was in relations with. I am sorry to say this but i think that this man is just playing around with your heart strings. i do not doubt that you have strong feelings for this man but i do not think that he entily felt the same way towards you, infact he sounds like he may have broken a few hearts along his travells. There for i think it is best that you try to get this man out of your mind and put it down to holiday romance, afterall if he wanted you that much he would have found away to make it possiable. There is some one out there for you but it is not this man.
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reader, nutella  +, writes (3 November 2005):
Re: my recent reply - 'her' should have been 'him' with the other partner. Sorry about that.
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reader, nutella +, writes (3 November 2005):
I'm sorry but I have to ask a few tough questions here. What made you think it was OK to get into a relationship with a guy who already had a partner, who was capable of that level of betrayal? Is that something you find morally acceptable? What did you expect to happen when he went back? Let's even assume you got back with him. How would you ever trust this guy not to do the same thing to you as he's done to her, the minute you turned your back? Would you want him to be crying into your arms about loving someone else? If he can do it to her, he can do it to you. You deserve better - but so does his poor partner.
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