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Archived questions from: December, 2015 (see latest in Gay relationships category)

Gay relationships: Help and advice

He and I have dated for 18 years but he's become less interested. Should I move on to this younger man I've been talking to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3274 days ago

30 December 2015 (M) - I am a gay man, an I have been with my bf for 18yrs, in 2010 I was diagnosed with Hiv he was not and then I was admitted to hospital with pneumonia and nearly died my CD4 count was 19 in a healthy human it's over 500 and in the thousands. Throug...

She pushes me away but expects me to stay when shes hurting and says she needs me. What can I do to be more compassionate and understanding?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - I'm having a dilemma. My girlfriend is an incredible woman....considerate, generous, supportive, affectionate, honest, loyal, hardworking, compassionate, goal orient, intelligent, sensitive. Her amazing side is amazing. Then there is her other ...

How do I learn to fancy her again? I love her, I do, but I have stopped fancying her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - I adore my girlfriend, we have been together two years and have had an extremely rocky relationship. She's lied numerous times, we have broken up but always ended up back together. We argue, like all couples at some point but my biggest problem ...

How can I deal with my co-worker crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - I'm 18 years old, female and have a crush on my supervisor who is 32, also a female and married. I have had several boyfriends over the years and slept with 5 men in total - never had any feeling for any women until I started my new j...

Should I try this blind date with a woman I'm not sure of to experience my first lesbian experience?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3280 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - dear cupids, i am a woman who experienced sex before with a man, then while with the man asked him to experience threesome (2 female one guy) and he refused then accepted, but we never got the chance to do it because we broke up. now i am ...

What can I do about the guilt I feel over the loss of my virginity to a man I met online?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3282 days ago

27 December 2015 (M) - Feeling guilty and dirty I am a 25 years old guy who happens to be gay. I was not out with anybody, even with my family. I was still a virgin till last summer. I moved to a new place for my work in June. For the first few weeks I were homesick ...

Do I wait this breakup out? Or take a different approach with my ex Gf?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3283 days ago

24 December 2015 (F) - Ex gf will not stop calling and texting. I have been patiently waiting it out thinking and hoping she would see her vain attempts and stop. She has gotten worse. Every other day, and several times a day. I am so tempted to call this harassing c...

I feel weirded out by my housemate's iciness and then occasional familiarity. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3290 days ago

17 December 2015 (M) - So my housemate is gay and so am I. He asked to move in after we went on a tinder date. I'm starting to think he went on the date more because he wanted to move into my desirable apartment in an area he liked (but wasnt up front about it), and the ...

I really felt we had a connection. But he blocked me. What can I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3290 days ago

17 December 2015 (M) - Hello guys basically a few weeks days ago I was contact by another guy I really felt a connection. He was jaw droppingly hot to we exchanged some photos none were saved as it was on snapchat and the photo is deleted after 10 seconds and will inf...

What could be her reasoning? 8pm and she decided to go out to see a friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3293 days ago

14 December 2015 (F) - My girlfriend and I have been together a year. An we are inseparable. We live together. She's a stay at home wife kind of thing. My nan passed away a week ago n I've been grieving and at 1st she was there for me but now she's not as caring. ...

Ex' is threatening suicide. How do I stop her bothering me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3294 days ago

14 December 2015 (F) - I came on here not too many days ago stating my ex girlfriend of five years had me feeling unsettled. I stated we have been broken up for at least six months. She constantly contacted me and I responded cordially. Perhaps a friendship could come of ...

Does my date need to come out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3292 days ago

14 December 2015 (F) - A guy I'm dating got intimate ! I gave him a couple hickies at the drive thru and we kind of had sex. Well when he turned on the light he saw he had two hickies on his face, and he was upset. I said we can go to the store and I'll help you pick your ...

What would be the reason I cannot orgasm with my girlfriend, when previously I could orgasm with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3295 days ago

14 December 2015 (F) - I've been with my girlfriend (I'm a lesbian) and I haven't had an orgasm while I've been with her but I had them with my ex. I miss having orgasms what should I do? ...

She is starting to make me feel unsettled! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3297 days ago

11 December 2015 (F) - My ex girlfriend and I have ended our 5 year relationship. We are lesbians and the breakup resulted from her lies and cheating. Anyways that was well over 6 months ago. I have not backpeddle. Shes consistently contacted me. I ignored her. I thiught ...

How do I know for sure if my suspicions that my boyfriend's younger sister is gay, and what should I do, or not do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3295 days ago

10 December 2015 (F) - Hi everyone My boyfriend has a 19 year old sister (I will just call her "Jane") and I have known her for many years but have recently realized something that is not quite normal about her. She is extremely pretty but has never had a boyfriend or e...

Have others experienced the same challenges in a Lesbian relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3295 days ago

9 December 2015 (F) - Hi there! I hope someone on here can help me decide how to approach the situation I'm in - thanks in advance! Throughout my life I've always liked both men and women. I've been with girls, but the more serious relationships have always been w...

Our eyes met and I felt a connection. I can't stop thinking about the barista..could he have felt it too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3302 days ago

6 December 2015 (M) - I walked in to my favorite coffee shop today and I saw that there was a new barista and I immediately thought he was cute. After I ordered my drink I sat across from the pick up area with my mom. When I saw the barista make my drink I was feeling ...

Worried to 'come out' in case I'm wrong

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3300 days ago

2 December 2015 (F) - I think I'm a lesbian. I was around nine when I first heard the word, 'lesbian'. A friend slept over and we had shared the same bed. She said this made us, "lesbians". I didn't have the faintest idea what it meant, so I looked it up. My only thou...