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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ex gf will not stop calling and texting. I have been patiently waiting it out thinking and hoping she would see her vain attempts and stop. She has gotten worse. Every other day, and several times a day. I am so tempted to call this harassing communication but Im trying to consider her job and livelihood. Calling at 3 and 4 in the morning and all times of day. Communication wont work bc she seeks my attention. Do i wait this out still or take another approach?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2015): Thanks for the replies. Honeypie, she is blocked but still text and call from private or unknown or other numbers. I'm not able to change my number at this time.Anonymous male, I do not miss anything about her nor do I want any ties with her. Honestly I want her to move on without texting calling or communicating with me. I felt bad for her but not anymore she's a manipulative opportunistic woman. I tried being friends she crossed the lines so I want no part in that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2015): My exboyfriend and I broke up two months ago. I was heartbroken. Maybe call or text her and say your sorry things didn't work out but you both have to move on. Ask her to please stop calling as its only making the situation worse.
She's obviously hurting. Nothing wrong with showing a little compassion. You don't owe it to her but at one point she was important to you.
Unless she cheated on you or did something crazy. Then by all means just block her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2015): Funny thing about, when a person is, doing what she is doing, if she just stopped, doing it, you would probably wonder, why she isn't trying to get a hold of you, am not trying to be a know it all, but sounds to me you broke her heart, you don't remember how it feels, to feel like she does, or are you cold hearted, get a trill, out of her pain, and if she would stop, you might be the one , missing her, try to be nice. She has a heart
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reader, RubyBirtle  +, writes (24 December 2015):
I agree with HoneyPie - Block her calls or get a new number
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (24 December 2015):
 BLOCK her number. If she also calls from work, block that number too. OR.... GET a new simcard/phone number.
IF you feel better, tell her you are going to block her.
YOU do not owe her to entertain her with various calls at all times of the day. She is an ex.
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