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Archived questions from: April, 2014 (see latest in Friends with Benefits category)

Friends with Benefits: Help and advice

I'm fine with being polygamous but he just likes to cheat!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

29 April 2014 (F) - Hey everyone. I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half years and we got engaged in November. We started off very casually because we don't live in the same city - I happened to be visiting his town on a business trip, I met him, we hooked ...

Should I keep trying with this guy who says we are "friends with benefits", or let it fade away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3888 days ago

28 April 2014 (F) - Okay, There's this guy I've known for about 4 years but we only recently started talking properly. I like him but he's a flirt so I don't know if I'm special or if he's like this with everyone. About a month ago, he dared me to kiss him so I did...

Why does he keep asking me to be his friends with benefits?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

27 April 2014 (F) - Hi. I was wondering if you could help me. Why does he keep asking me to be his friends with benefits? I have known him for almost two years though we got closer as friends at the beginning of last year. I fell in love with him but never showe...

We began to get close in our 2 month FWB, now he's completely avoiding me. Is this because he has feelings for me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

23 April 2014 (F) - So I was in a fwb relationship recently for about two months. We began to become very close. We both ended it mutually last week and agreed to be friends still. We work together so it's very hard to deal with. He's completely avoiding me now. Is it ...

If I start dating someone else, should I inform my FWB after a few dates, or should I wait for sexual intercourse to take place before performing my notification duty?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3852 days ago

23 April 2014 (M) - I have a bit of a dilemma: I'm in my late 40s, and I have a lady friend in her mid 50s. We are what I believe is called these days "friends with benefits", i.e., I have my manly needs, she has her womanly needs, and once a week we get together to ...

Does "friend's with benefits" want more from me or am I fooling myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3617 days ago

22 April 2014 (F) - Some background: I have been seeing a 39 year old man for over a year, we both come from very different social backgrounds, he has never lived overseas. I come from Sweden originally, have lived in various countries and am still dealing with culture ...

How do I keep the communication alive and not become just a FWB?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

21 April 2014 (F) - Hello! So I've been seeing this guy for a little under 2 months that i met on a dating site. It was really awesome at first, he would text me everyday and it would never cease. Our first and second dates were really awesome too. We had a great ti...

They've asked me to join them for a threesome, any one have experience in this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

21 April 2014 (F) - Basically I have two friends who are friends with benefits, they've been sleeping together for years and recently approached me and asked if I would join them for a threesome. I really want to try it but the only thing that bothers me is that fact ...

I want a relationship and she's happy with the way things are now, I'm not sure what to do next?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3904 days ago

12 April 2014 (M) - I was hoping to get some advice on what I should do in this situation I'm in. Quite honestly it's not one I've been in before so not sure what to do. I've been seeing this girl for a little while now. I'm a young professional and she is a stu...

Friends and sex and FWB protocol in the gay world!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3907 days ago

11 April 2014 (M) - ok guys what do you do in the following situations? 1) If you have a very attractive, flirtatious friend, who tells you every time someone you’re involved with/interested in makes advances on him. I can count at least 5 occasions where I’ve had a...

I thought he just wanted sex, so why would he text me afterward?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3907 days ago

10 April 2014 (F) - I met a guy on a dating site . We text each other for a while and exchanged pictures . He asked if I wanted to meet up and stay the night at his and have a bit of fun . I agreed . When I met him he was really quiet and gave one word answers . I ...

A little lost, hurt and vulnerable right now... Help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3909 days ago

9 April 2014 (F) - Hi Everyone. First and foremost, thank you for reading this. I’m feeling a little lost, hurt and vulnerable right now, and I could really do with some wise words if you might be so kind. I had a partner (we’re both female) on and off over the...

Is my FWB falling for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3907 days ago

8 April 2014 (F) - I have been in a fwb relationship for almost two months now.he generally emails me throughout the day to see how I am doing or just random talk through emails. I really connect with this man and am catching feelings. If he wasn't feeling the same ...

I did the most well known cliché of falling for my friends with benefits.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3912 days ago

5 April 2014 (F) - I did it. I did the most well known cliché of falling for my friends with benefits. I don't know what to do. All my friends are saying walk away, forget about it, told you so and the usual remarks. Of course I know they are all right but once y...

Can we stay friends? We dated and were intimate.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3915 days ago

1 April 2014 (F) - I met this guy online 3 months ago, We have been dating off and on during that time period. We have been intimate and that has been a major problem during our "relationship" I have called it off several times because he didn't want to be exclusively ...