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Archived questions from: October, 2018 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

A friend is interested in a poly-amorous relationship but how do I tell my wife?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2205 days ago

29 October 2018 (M) - I and my wife have been married for 40 years and our love for each other is as solid now as it ever has been. Our sex life up until 8 years ago was very satisfying. Eight years ago my wife sustained an injury which has left her house bound. She ...

I'm hurt, confused, angry and betrayed.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2202 days ago

28 October 2018 (M) - So Last night I texted my gf and asked her how it started and she said that they met at a mutual friends house and he went up to her and they started talking about regulsr shit at first. Eventually they started chatting over what...

She said no. Should I keep trying?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2206 days ago

27 October 2018 (M) - So, I've liked somebody for a long time (2-3 years) and recently, a couple of weeks ago I decided to tell them how I felt. I've been friends with her since we first met and everybody I know was certain she was into me as well. Unfortunately I was ...

After making him my facebook friend he held my wrist.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2199 days ago

25 October 2018 (F) - I just made a new friend via Facebook on Sunday. I sent him a quick text and he read it but replied the next day being Monday morning. The same day (Monday) I saw him as I was walking in the evening. It was dark but he recognized me. He ...

I wont to move across country and leave this life behind, but worry if I am doing the right thing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2209 days ago

24 October 2018 (F) - Should I move across the country? I have grown up in New York - originally born in Europe but immigrate here when I was 9. I am 33 now single female and for my education oout if the way and currently working 89 hours a week to pay off my debt/loans ...

How can I talk to someone that doesn't listen to anything I have to say?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2212 days ago

22 October 2018 (F) - Hello and thank you for your opinions in advance My husband and I have been together for two years. When we were in a relationship he was extremely loving, expressive, a real sweetheart which didnt take me long to fall hard for him. For the fir...

My lesbian partner seems too close to my friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2212 days ago

22 October 2018 (F) - Hello mates :) I've been in a relationship with a lesbian. We're bestfriends and turns into lovers. 2 months of love :) But mates, I start to wonder why she's way too close with my girl bestfriends and heck they look so sweet :( I'm pretty jealous ...

I went out of my way to make my friend feel special on his birthday but he didn't do anything for me on mine

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2212 days ago

20 October 2018 (M) - It’s really bugging me that I spent my birthday alone. When my best friend has his birthday, I planned dinner, made sure all his friends were there. I personally took them, paid for him etc. We had a great time. Recently it was my bir...

How do I stop being so socially awkward and silly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2213 days ago

19 October 2018 (F) - I've recently started experiencing terrible anxiety and it's really effecting the way I am in work. I was wondering if anybody had any tips to help deal with day to day life. I have an issue with looking clean and tidy. I have a bath before work...

My husband wont discuss things and gives me the silent treatment.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2215 days ago

18 October 2018 (F) - Hello and thanks I tried writing in before but can't seem to find my question. My husband is very popular, and 10 years younger than myself. His friends are a huge part of his life and I knew that from day one. Sometimes I do get a bit a...

He asked me out as a joke but I said yes ... how do I face my friends?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2173 days ago

18 October 2018 (F) - My crush asked me out as a joke and I said yes. I was sick the day after and I wasn’t at school. My friends texted me about it. Apparently he had told most of my friends. Now I have to go back to school. I don’t really like him a lot. I just ...

I don't feel like chasing him do I just let things ride and see what happens?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2216 days ago

16 October 2018 (F) - Hi I need some advice there's this guy I met last month at a party he seemed to be interested but he never gave me his number he said we should hang out sometime and gave me a spot where he will be however since we have mutual friends I ended up ...

What do you make of my boyfriend's long-distance female friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2213 days ago

16 October 2018 (F) - My bf has had a female friend for 5 years. At first I was uneasy about the whole thing but as I learned more about her and took my insecurities for working, I became cool with the whole thing. One evening when she messages, he said "oh she was aski...

He said he'd break up with his girlfriend to date me but I just want to be friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2220 days ago

14 October 2018 (F) - Hi, I've just transferred to a new university starting second year where everybody already knows each other. I befriended a girl on my course and she introduced me to her friendship group on the course which has been lovely. I've particularly got...

How do we announce his cancer diagnosis?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2222 days ago

13 October 2018 (M) - My younger brother is 33 years old and moved back in with his parents. Only a few people know that it is because he waa diagnose with brain cancer and he moved back in with our parents to make it easier f or us (family and friends) to help him. ...

Is he flirting or am I reading too much into his actions?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2223 days ago

11 October 2018 (F) - I recently transferred into a different team at work and started working very closely with the guy who recommended me for the role. I REALLY like him as as a person and we get along great. Sometimes have suspicion that he 'likes' me, but then I t...

I am caught in the middle of a boy I like and my female friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2224 days ago

9 October 2018 (F) - I'm in a pretty tough situation and I don't know what to do. I'm in a friendship group of three people. My closest friend who is a girl and a guy that I have become closer to as he is really close to her aswell. I have feelings for him and have done ...

Shall I carry on being her friend or is there anything else I can do to fix the issue ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2225 days ago

9 October 2018 (F) - I have been friends with someone for the past 3 years now and just recently I haven't been enjoying spending time with her . When ive been with her she can say some really cringey things , act silly and very childish most of the time but not all the ...

Should I cut her out of my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2225 days ago

8 October 2018 (M) - Almost a year ago I met a girl through one of my friends. She had just come out of a 6 year relationship which lead to her losing almost all of her friends. She moved to my city for work and this is how I met her. I had an instant attracti...

My friends remarks upset me, am I too sensitive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2226 days ago

4 October 2018 (F) - My best friend has always been there for me during extremely horrible times. She has defended me behind my back and so on... However, as of several months ago I have grown increasingly mad and resentful... I feel that when I need to vent and I te...

I'm not fitting in with my new coworkers!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2234 days ago

1 October 2018 (F) - I've been at my job for 5 years. 2 months ago, I decided to change positions to get more experience. In my line of work, it looks good to try new roles and I'd been in my previous position for 4 years. My coworkers in my old position were li...

I want to fix things after I freaked him out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2233 days ago

1 October 2018 (F) - There's a person I still have feelings for who I used to talk to, but not anymore due to some of the things I did in which I was sorry for and apologised lots of times . I hate the fact I still like him as it makes me feel so upset and worthless , ...